months together. a lot of that time was in a cave. it sounds bad on the surface but both of us look back on some moments pretty sweetly. all yousw had to worry about was her job and then you do things like i remember taking a shower over a whole and we put a door over a hole and poured a bucket of water over our heads. there's something beautiful about living really simply like that. abby: any downtime? was it pretty much action all the way through? >> no, a lot of downtime. we basically lived in a dirt fort or a cave and spent a lot of time pasting back and forth, plain gassy. he was a great listener. i got to know him pretty well. at the start of the war you wcould live with afghans when u needed a place to stay you could knock on a door. as the war went on that changed. by the end of the war i was in a