this is very difficult was my husband is a stay-at-home dad who does real estate part-time and i don't have him home with me to manage the household and this -- my children were settling for 5 years in the foster sister and now i have to separate them again after they are finally together, very wrong. laura: don't know the ages of all your children but are any old enough where you can talk to them about this and they understand what is going on? i have to imagine it is hard to understand when you see what is going on at the southern border versus entry points if you're coming in on a flight, hard for adults to understand how these decisions are reached but what do you think they are grasping from this? >> or two old ones are 10 and 11 was we had to explain to them what is going on and we raised them to know the truth and the word of god and this is not