a good start to giving them some information about. sam says the bamf employees often the 5 western standards when they make decisions about african families a mistake he says because africans tend to be more strongly bound up in family and tribal structures women are generally associated with the family of her husband that is the case in both christian and muslim regions in the evening he finally gets around to reading the agency's rejection of the nigerian family's application . of the finnish punched understood for the threat has been completely misrepresented in the decision. either out of ignorance or out of malice and their have is then the fact is that there is social pressure not just from the mother in law but in the entire area and ultimately in all of nigeria. if so no matter where they are as long as it hasn't been wiped out and that will take decades in nigeria