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I could tell you i had great insight of the backandforth that happened that bob left it at that as instructing obama on this issue. He would never get a president ial medal of honor which i thk he actually deserve frankly for what he did for his company but the heroism didnt mean the political establishment would. So you write this is just like leadership lessons and in the book i discovered it all comes down to what you mean by happiness up and down those phases nothing is forever not even life itself i reflect and hearing that back i hear him thinking about where his life is taking them end there is some regrets that he wouldnt ever get to spend the sunset years in the place that he loved far away from the United States in croatia where he spent a lot of time with his family and the people he loved. And there was that sacrifice that he made despite that it may have extended his life just to have it in his life with the adrenalin, who knows . But he was deeply aware of the fact that work can only make you so happy in spite of the fact he was a workaholic he also had some perspective. Key had a complicated personal life how did that affect your view of him . A great question what we talk about here for the audience members is he had relationships outside his marriage particularly one important one to him he was legally separated from his wife for many years and remained very close to her it was a complicated situation and somebody he worked with at metlife when he was ceo. Its not a life that is tied up neatly in a blow but whose is . We debated a lot and talked long and hard those involved with the situation whether to include his life. It was sixth publicly known so wasnt a complete surprise but i included his justification i am not a saint i dont want people to think i was. And that made him all the more credible to share that that heroes are flawed human beings and we learn so much more from people that have the spectrum in from those that just creates an image for themselves in old alito the at he disappointed people. It is a great book. Congratulations. I love to talk about it miss beck nigerias president the day drifting with the space means with matters of such importance and urgency we could get an amazing collection of movie posters such as those behind you. From the 1920s and part of my job is to tell people to learn history that they think that they know. Quarter the most important black film directors in the 30s and 40s host sebastien younger how didout end up in gillette, wyoming . Guest i graduatedollege, and i had grope up on the east coast in a suburb of boston and felt like id never really been challenged in my life. I grew up in an affluent environment and decided to set off, like set off to see my country, and to hitchhike across it. I put my stuff in a backpack and got some food and was all prepared. Very responsible young man. And i set off and i wound up in gillette, wyoming, a tough mining tonight, back then it was. I was outside of town trying to get a ride for hours on a freezing cold host you hitchhiked. Guest yeah. And guys were throwing beer bottles at me from pickup trucks, and id hitchhiked from twin cities and here i am in gillette and id never seen the west before. I was awestruck by it but gillette was a tough town, and i saw someone walking towards me from town that looked like bad news. And im a young kid out in the great land and kind of jumpy. This guy is walking towards me and i remember he was in a carhartt canvas union suit that was filthy dirty and his hair was matted and he clearly was homeless and struggling. He was big dude. He came up to me, and i was instantly on my guard. And he said, hey, man, where are you going . I said, im going california. And he said, how much food you got . Now, i would give food to anyone who was hungry, but i didnt think thats what was going on. Thought he wanted to rob me. Wanted me to get me to open up my bag. I didnt know what was going to happen but i was definitely jumpy. So, i said, i just got a little cheese. And he shook his ahead and said you cant possibly get to california on a little cheese. In his world, what you got in your bag is what you got. You dont have travelers checks in your wallet. And he was carrying a lunch box and he said, you know, i live in a broke down car in town. In other words he was homeless, living in a car. He said i walk out to the coal mine every day to see if anyone is sick and they can hire me. Most days they dont need to hire me. And today they dont need me so i wont be needing my lunch. And he showed me his lunch box and he had a baloney sandwich and an apple and a bag of potato chips elm said i want you to have my lunch because youre going to need all the food you can get to get to california. You can imagine how bad i felt. My first really profound lesson not in generosity, but in taking responsibility for another person that you dont know. He looked at me out on the highway and he saw a brother. He saw someone who was on foot, homeless in this huge land. He didnt know i was just a college kid having an adventure. He thought i was a brother and walked out there to check on a brother and make sure i was all right. Host did you ever make it to california . Guest i did. Went on up through idaho, and to seattle, and down the coast, wound up in l. A. , and i was going to hitchhike home and i ran out of steam. Back that peoples express would fly you across the country for 150 and i got a midnight flight home. Host how did you end up in sarajevo in 1994 . Sunny graduated college. Studied anthropology and did my work on the navajo reservation. I was a good Long Distance runner and i trained with thirst best runners. Summer of 1983, i think. At any rate, i got out of college and wanted to be a writer, journalist, and so i immediately got a job waiting tables and started writing, and publishing for local newspapers some short stories. Just didnt get vower. And i eventually got a job as a climber for tree companies, and so i would work 50, 60, 70, 80 feet in the air on a rope with a chainsaws, taking trees down and i got hurt doing it. Its a dangerous job and i got hurt and was recovering from that and i thought maybe i should write about dangerous 30. I got to do something itch got to figure this out. One of the dangerous jobs i wanted to write about what commercial fishing. I lived in goster, massachusetts, and a huge storm hilt the town and sunk a boat and that send me on the trajectory toward my first book a perfect storm. Another dangerous job i wanted to write about was war reporter and in case i couldnt sell my storm book, i thought ill go to sarajevo, theres a selfwar going and inll learn to be a war reporter and write about war i was trying to buy as many lottery tickets to my future as possible. So i wound up in sarajevo during the war as a free lance war reporter in the summer of 1993, and 1994. Host how did you survive over there dadetodade . Did you have money at that point in backup system . Guest no. I went over there with the same backpack i hitchhiked across the country with, and the same sleeping bag, and the same everything, i think. And i had a couple thousand dollars. And i fell enough with some other free lance reporters, and we were living squeezed into one room in the radio and Television Building and sharing our expenses and sharing everything, and theyd been over there a lot longer than i had. Just emplated them and started doing radio reports and a little newspaper. I spent more money than i made, but it was a kind of journalism school, and i learned how to be a journalist in a foreign environment, in a war, and mostly i fell in love with that, and i had to come home to write my book the perfect storm. By some miracle i had an agent back then. Never made him a dime but he believed in me. He faxed me over there and said ive sold your book. You got to come home to write it now. Was quite disappointing because i had fallen in love with war reporting but also a firsttime author and i went home and spent a couple of years writing the perfect storm. As soon as i delivered the manuscript and this is 1996. So back then, when you turned in a map uscript you didnt hit send. You put it in a box and you got on she subway and went uptown to where my publisher was, w. W. Norton, and gave it to your hand it to your editor. The next day i was on a plane to delhi and then into afghanistan and in the summer of 1996, to watch the taliban offensive that would eventually take kabul and overrun most of afghanistan. So this is five years before 9 11. I went right back to foreign reporting as fast as i could, like literally the next day. Host is it addicting . Guest is war reporting addicting . Technically, addiction is a chemical issue, and i dont think addicting on that level. Metaphor include, yes. You develop a what i would say its more like this. Your identity develops independence on the drama and the importance of the job. Soldiers have the same thing. When youve say addiction it sounds misleadingly mechanical and chemical and i isnt. Its an identity problem. Host from your most recent book tribe you write that humans dont mind hardship. In fact they thrive on it. What they mind is not feeling necessary. Modern society is perfectedded the art of making people not feel necessary. Its time for that to end. Guest also i said i studied anthropology in college and i feel were a primate species. Humans are a primate species, were social species. We clearly evolved to live in groups of 40, 50, 60 individuals. Our psychology reflects that. The wiring in our brain reflects that. Our behavior during crises reflects that. The size of a platoon in a modern military force reflects that. And so what we have are we in modern society are basically Walking Around in our sort of bodies that havent evolved physically in 25,000 years and were Walking Around in this Amazing Society that we created, and we could list the blessings and the benefits of modern society almost endlessly. The cost is that were no longer living in small communal groups and in groups like that there is no individual survival outside of group survival. The group in the individual completely Share Interests and concerns, and so you get your sense of security in the world by being necessary to the group. If youre not necessary to any group, youre in danger because they dont need you. You dont belong to them and they wont sacrifice for you. And youre alone in the jungle and youre going to die. Thats what is wired into our brains. So when you feel necessary, when you volunteer to do something for a group, when you suddenly realize a group of people are counting on you, it feels good because it means you have physical and emotional security around you. And the modern society has allowed individuals to live very individualistic lives where their community does not need them. Your neighborhood doesnt need you to help them gather food. You dont need your neighborhood to help defend you from the other neighborhood. Theres a great freedom in that kind of individualism. The downside is you dont feel necessary to anything bigger any group bigger than your immediate family probably, and were wired to think thats bad news. That we are now in an insecure place, a dangerous place. When soldiers come back from combat, they come back from a platoon where each person is necessary. A practice to an that reprodes our evolutionary past closely in the Group Dynamics and relationship between the individual and the group. They come back with that to this marvelously individualistic society where you can crank your music as loud as you want in your bedroom, and do whatever you want, and its all wonderful. Except you lose that sense of safety that comes from being part of a group, and one of the things soldiers struggle with, even soldiers who werent in combat, and most soldiers are not in combat. Even people who werent in combat come back from the close communal environment to third individualistic society and encounter pretty significant psychological struggles. Peace corps volunteers, 25 of volunteers when they come back to this country sink into a real depression. Much like soldiers do, and again, soldiers who werent in combat. It seems to be a transition problem. Host well, what i learned from your book tribes is two things. The suicide rates of communal organizations or communal living arrangements, the suicide rate was either nil or very, very low, and that a lot of white people, when the indians were being pushed west, went to the indian side of life. Guest yeah. The proportion of people along the frontier who absconded to the indians or were abducted and then didnt want to return. Of course it was quite low but while a significant was that it never went the other way around. Benjamin franklin and other thinkers and writers of the time were wondering why is it we have a superior Christian Society in their mind. Why is it that white people were always running off to join the tribes . These are their words. Not mine. Why was that happening . And tribal peoples were never running off to join the indians. People go native. They dont go civilized and it was matter of real puzzle and concern to colonial authorities and christian thinkers. They called the indians called them savages. Why . Whats the appeal exactly . And i thought about that. Id known that fact most of my life, and always wondered if it was true, and then when i was in afghanistan i was with a platoon in combat, 20man position. A lot of combat, a lot of closeness, a lot of human connection. And the guys we were on this ridgetop, getting attacked a lot. There was no internet no communication with the outside world no way to bathe. No cooked food there was no women. There was nothing. Right, except combat and each other. And the guys couldnt wait to get off that hilltop and get back to italy, where theyre based, and have themself others good time. You can imagine what that looked like. But after a few months of that, when i caught up with them in italy where theyre based, a real depression has sedset in and a lot of them wanted to go back to afghanistan and did not want to return to the United States, that if they had a choice they would go back into combat. Made me think of what i had read, the phenomenon i read along the american frontier, why no one wants to go back to six. What this problem . It its an obviously wonderful thing. We have cars and air conditioning and television and anesthesia, surgery. Where is the problem . And that is basically what my book is about. What is it about modern society that is unappealing. Host did you have that reaction after returning . Guest i had a lot of psychological problems when i came back. Wasnt even a soldier. I was just a civilian journalist but i spent a fair amount of time out there and your i mean, this is what i was saying. Your sense of physical safety comes directly out of the experience of being part of a group. The deal, though, is if youre in a group that youre counting on for your own safety, it means that you have to be prepared to risk your own life for them as well. Its reciprocal, and so the experience you end up having is one its an odd one because you feel safer in that situation because you identify a willingness to risk your life for other people. Thats what gives you your sense of safety, the willingness to take a risk for others and the kind of altruism that you really dont need to feel in back home in civilization. And along with that altruism comes an incredibly powerful bond and love. And one guy said to me, theres guys in the platoon who hate each other but wed all die for each other. When youre experiencing that kind of unity, its a very, very profound thing, and i experienced enough of it, even as a civilian, that when i came home i felt i was married at the time. I was in my 40s. And i felt incredibly dislocated and incredibly depressed. My marriage didnt last, actually. I fell completely disconnected from my wife and everyone i loved. I was a really, really strange experience, and what i kept thinking about was those guys, and it was extremely confusing. Host this is from your previous book war men can completely remake themselves in war. You can be anything back home. Shy, ugly, rich, poor, unpopular and it wont matter because its of no consequence in a firefight. And therefore, of no consequence, period. Guest yeah. Thats one of the thick unconsciously appealing things about the military and about combat or any extreme environment. I think you probably happens on teams that climb everest or whatever, and crews of forest firefighters and firemen in the city and loggers and all these situations where people depend for their lives on other people and on everyone doing their job and functioning well. It really doesnt matter what kind of funky past you might have had. As long as you do your job well. And that means that everyone is sort of selfdefining. In other words, if you do your job well, your past, your history, what you look like, what your father did or didnt do, whether you are in prison or not, none of it matters and you basically have access to a completely fresh start in the eyes of your peers around you, and these are people that you love. And who wouldnt risk their life for that . The reason that high school is so miserable for so many people is that you are judged for things you have no control over. What you look like. What kind of family you were born into. In combat you dont bring any of that with you out there. You just bring your willing ins to die for others or not. Host this again is from tribe. The sheer predictability of life in an american suburb left me hoping, somewhat irresponsiblefully, for a hurricane or tornado or something that would require us to all band together to survive. Something that would make u. S. Feel like a make us feel like a tribe. Guest yes, again, we evolve to live in small groups groups e people completely depended on one another for survival, and i felt the tug of that very, very strongly as a young man. And i looked around and we lived in this very safe suburb and i i was acutely aware i had over in demonstrated my personal value to my community. My community didnt need mitchell was a strong, healthy, 18yearold man, going completely unused by my community. That is new in Human History. The young people, the 18yearold men and women both, obviously, are absolutely vital to the survival of the community, and in modern society, we are wealthy enough and stable enough that actually a young man can feel not necessary to the people around him. Its extraordinary. It doesnt feel good. Host so when you got your draft card, when you turned 18, why didnt you sign up . Guest well, i grew up i was born in 1962, now up during vietnam, a very liberal part of the country. Every adult i knew was outraged by vietnam, and then the ended the draft. Right . So i got this card in the mail in 1980 when i was 18 host selectiontive service card. Guest yes. Selective service card. Girls dont get this. Many of them dont even know about it. Boys get and it they still get it. If youre male and you turn 18, youll get acat card from your government saying we want no know where you live so we can draft you in case we need you. And i was like, what is this . I thought the draft was over. And anyway, war is immoral and whatever. So i showed it to my father, and my father had green up in europe. His father was jewish and they grew up in france and when the germans rolled into france they left and wound up in the United States. And he i said im not signing this. This ricediculous he said, no, youre signing that card. He said theirs thousands of brave young americans. Your age, in france, they died freeing the world from fascism. Saving the world. And he said, never forgot these words. You dont owe your country nothing. You owe your country something and you might owe your country your life. If a war comes along you think is immoral, thats unnecessary, then its your moral duty to protest it. But if its a necessary war, like world war ii was, its your moral duty to fine it so youre signing that card. When when he put that way, it was my chance to be part of something bigger to demonstrate to any community i was willing to be of service, id be a great soldier. All of a sudden it completely turned it around and i felt like i was part of something bigger, and that feeling of being part of something bigger is really intoxicating to people. And for great evolutionary reasons. We are the way we are for a very good reason, and i signed that card quite proudly. Host Sebastien Junger, you live here in new york city. How you found that community for you to feel like youre part of something bigger . No tribal structures have virtually disappeared in modern American Life in modern society. The reason that things like sports teams, intramural hockey, or the work group in your office, or the construction crew, whatever it is, the reason that those things feel good is because they mimic the kind of tribal connections that, whichized our living groups for hundreds of thousands of years. So i live in the Lower East Side of manhattan. Its a neighborhood that is quite poor. And as a result quite familial. I know the street crossing guard, the meter maid, the car garage down the street. Everyone kind of knows each other, and it feels human and connected in ways i really like, but during Hurricane Sandy there was the building im in organized a kind of community defense. They posted guard shifts at the front door with a machete, and they changed the guards every two hours because there was a lot of breakins bus people left their apartments because there was nolight or power and had children so they left their homes and these are not wealthy people. A woman organized guardships at the front door. She had a machete and they took turns standing there and kept the building safe. So that when i was a kid, in belmont, outside of boston, i would have loved to have been part of a situation where i had to stand guard. Thats my god, you moon my building needs me . That really would have been an intoxicating feeling for me. Host corn valley. Guest its a sixmile long valley in eastern afghanistan in kunar province where i was for about a year. It was lot of combat there for a period while i was there, Something Like a sixth of all the kinetic activity which is what the military calls combat, was happening in and around the immediate area, and i and my colleague, tim, made a movie that brought a lot of attention to that area. My book war is about that and the Second Platoon Company we were with. So it became and a lot of other great journalists wound up there as well, and so the corn belt became emblematic for a certain frustrating fight we were having in afghanistan as a whole. Host how long guest they were deployed for 14 months and tim and i each did five onemonth trips so we both bounced back and forth a lot. So we were there the two of us covered a fair amount of time. Host how Much Technology was used there . The military technology. Guest well, depends depends on what you mean by technology. If you mean sort of electronics and eavesdropping devices, they had eavesdropping drones over us. They had some kind of motion detection systems outside the bases. But not a lot. Out of we really were 20 guys on a hilltop and the fighting was pretty old style. It was like infantry on the ground with heavy packs and guns. I wouldnt say that technology really tipped the balance particularly. Host when the americans left the valley was that controversial . Guest im sure. Theyd fought hard for and it then pulled out. So inevitably it was. I think that the people the controversy failed to understand what the point of being there was in the first place. It was never met as never meant as Permanent Base each eventually the country was planning on and did pull out of all of afghanistan. So the first thing they started to do was pull out of finger valleys that were using up a lot of air resources to resupply the tiny outposts and they also de the point of the american base in the valley was the valley was being used as a staging area for insurgent attacks along the peshmerga valley, an important area. So when they put u. S. Troops in the korngal it locked that capability for the taliban and then when they finishes the Development Project they pulled out. But of course the controversy was a political one, not a strategic one, and the korngal was emblematic of something and thats where the controversial took, what it stood for in the publics perception. Host send besten junger, when you look at your body of work in your books, your havent fair articles, there is a Common Threat thread or common theme . Guest well, lets see. I guess ive often written about small groups of people mostly men who are relying on one another to survive. My book in bell mon has nothing to do with that. Its a cold case, murder case from the early 60s. Completely different. But my other books, yeah, people in small groups doing working at the margins of society in dangerous places. I was an anthropologist ask that was fascinating to me, and i feel like you can really see human behavior, you can see our evolutionary capacity in very, very stark ways, in those kinds of situations, and im just end legislationly fascinate it by that. Host good afternoon and welcome to booktvs in depth. Our guest this month is send Sebastien Junger. He has written books as me mentioned, a murder in bell honest, the permanent storm. , fire, war, and tribe. If you want to participate here are the numbers 2027488200, 2027488201 in the mountain and pacific time zone and you can send a text message. This is not for phone calls. 2028386251. And if you would, if you you do send a text message, give us your first name and your city so we can identify you that way. There are several other ways of getting ahold of us. You can make a comment on our facebook page. Facebook. Com booktv. Or you can join us on twitter, booktv is our twitter handle. And finally send an email to booktv cspan2. Org so a lot of ways to connect with us. So, mr. Junger, i want to read a quote from an interviewow did and this is about how you write and what you look for. They dont really care that much what town they grew up in. I really try to avoid the details that seem per funk tori, not necessary per for tri, not necessarily and ultimately not that interesting. You dont think your background affects who you are . Guest oh, i do. If someones background was affecting their behavior in front of me and the situation im reporting on, i would absolutely talk about it. But in a lot of in certain newspaper reporting, theres a so and so from illinois. If youre writing long form nonfiction, or writing nonfiction books, whether someone is from evanston or chicago or boston or whatever, it may be important, but if its not you dont really need to say it. When i was out i had no idea where those guys were from because it wasnt part of who they were. What interested me is who they were there. One guy, bobby wilson, had a very strong southern accent. He was what a lot of people would have thought of as like a classic redneck. Super smart guy. One of the smartest guys out there. But his southern identity was very, very strong as part of his character and of course i talked about that. But i have no idea what town he was from. Doesnt really matter. Host who is brendon oburn. Guest he was in second platoon and is the main character of my book war. He and i are extremely good friends now. We talk almost every day. He was the first one to get out of he got out of the army after that deployment, and as a result he was the first one to suffer significant psychological consequences. The guys that stayed it noticed this early on. War is traumatizing, particularly for a unit like that. Like i said, only 10 percent of u. S. Military is engaged in combat. They were definitely in the 10 , and you think the guys who stayed in and kept deploying would have the most severe psychological consequences. Actually, it was the guys who got out. As one by one they got out of the army they just crashed psychologically and that got me thinking maybe its coming home that is hard, not combat itself. So brendon whats first to get out and he crashed. We were really good friends and i did offering i could to help him, and he is good now. He is almost three years sober. Had a terrific drinking problem from when he was young. I write about this in my book so theres no secrets. His dad shot him during twice during an argument when he was a kid. Brandon went to juvenile detention because of it. And he told the police that his dad shot him in selfdefense. So he went to juvenile detention and from there he went into the army and we out out on a freezing cold night in january in a god for saking place and he told the story of getting shot by his dad but he said, its all good. Everything happening for a reason because without that i want be out here tomorrow. He meant it literally. Joining the army and being part of this group was he felt was something that had become absolutely essential to his wellbeing and he was quite grateful it turn out that way. Host what is he doing today . Guest he is in college actually. Just got his straight as on this first full academic year, and he is doing great. He is doing really well. Host where disthe them restrepo come from. Guest the name of the platoon medic who was killed almost two months into the deployment. The first town when i was with those of guys we got into a pretty serious firefight, and then a few weeks after i was there my first trip, res strep owas killed and they named the outpost after herm. He was born in colombia. Immigrated to america as a child with his mom, and he died fighting for this country at the bottom of a hill in afghanistan. Host you made a documentary. Guest my colleague, tim and i made a documentary called restrepo. Named for the outpost that by extension about the guy and it is about what it feels like to be in war for these guys. All men out there bill the way. The platoon was all men. And it wasnt a political film. If the soldiers argued the merits of the war in their bunkers behind their sandbags, on patrol,ed that hey been having that conversation, the way the rest of the country has been, it would have been in the film. But they just werent. They were fighting and they were surviving and trying too do their job and thats what the film is about. And im politically liberal. Right . But very interestingly, the fact that the film was not political, was occasionally criticized by people on the left. That i somehow abdicated my duty as a journalist to condemn the war, which is really ironic beuse the press is not supposed to pass judgment. Supposed to report. And when fox news does it, the left gets pretty upset. And then it was so funny to watch them turn around and do exactly the same thing about their own hotbutton issue. Host you have made a couple of documentaries now. Do you enjoy that process. Guest ive made four documentaries. Yes, i yes, i do enjoy it. Its a labor of love. You cant really make a living at it. But it compliments writing books very well. Books go books engage a spirit part of your engage a certain part of your graham and film engages a different part of your brain. So if youre reading a book about war and a firefight breaks out and you read that the whatever you read the sound of machine gun fire, whatever that looks like in text, or theres an explosion you down jump in your armchair because theres an explosion on the pages of the book. Your brain doesnt think youre over there. Your brain thinks youre in an armchair read about war. If youre in movie theater, dark theater, and yourewatching a film about war, and an explosion goes off, the humvee i was riding in was hit bit a roadside bomb and i happened to have the camera running. Everyone in theater jumps because theyre brain doesnt know theyre not in the humvee. The wonderful thing about documentary and books you can do these two things that affect different parts of the brain and they compliment each other, and they can give you a really, really complete experience of war or, i suppose, marriage or work or whatever your focus is. Host Sebastien Junger, how does libya figure into your story. Guest restrepo did veil well with won the grand jury prize at sundance. We both shot the video for restrepo. We were codirectors can coproducer, everything together, and then we won the grand jury prize and went on to get a nomination for an oscar, and we were out in hollywood together, we did not win an oscar but we had a wonderful time. Amazing, and tim and i were brothers. And beyond friends, beyond colleagues we were brothers, both almost killed doing this project and we were going resume our careers a journalists. The arab spring here we are on red carpet, meanwhile the arab spring is exploding in the middle east, and we couldnt wait to get back out into the field and keep reporting on this extraordinary time that the world was in. And we had an assignment vicepresident with vanity fair to cover the war in libya and for personal reason is couldnt go. Tim went on his own and on april 20, 2011, five years ago, tim was in the city of on the front lines and he and the group he was with were hit by a 81millimeter mortar farred by gadhafis forces and tim bled out in the back of a pickup truck, racing for the hospital. And i got the phone call in new york, probably within an hour of his death, and my whole life changed in that moment. It was the first time id lost a brother, first time id lost a peer, someone i was really close to. Within an hour i decided that i was not going report on wars anymore. I was married at the time, and my wife was like, you cant keep doing it. She was like even if you survive, every time the phone rings im going to jump. Im going to think its phone call like that but about you, and you cant do that. I realized theres a certain point where doing risking your life becomes goes from being sort of like potentially noble and courageous to injure selfish. What your gambling with isntor own life. Its the Emotional Wellbeing in the lives of everyone around you that loves you, and in my late 40s, i just didnt want to be that guy anymore. Host officers dont seem to play a big part in your book. Or as big a part in your book. Guest not for any particular reason. They have a job to do, a very, very difficult job, but part of it deps on remaining a certain retaining a certain emotional remove. A certain professional distance. And from both the press and their own men, and those guys the thing that is so hard on the officers is that theyre making decisions that potentially will get People Killed or almost guaranteed to get People Killed. Thats a real psychological burden, and they deal with it the best they can but it means that theyre not as easy to write about. Theyre not as open and forthcoming as brendon oburn who doesnt have those kind of awful, awful decisions to make. Host at what point when you were in afghanistan, did you determine that brendon oburn would be your focus in war . Guest i didnt dish one thinking about how to write the book when i was out there i was just taking notes as fast as i could, and shooting as much video as i could, and he was just a guy that i got closest to, and i dont think i was write thing book and i realized the extraordinary store he told me would actually make an interesting throughline for the book itch didnt realize it when i was out there. Host tribe on homecoming and belonging. This become is dedicated to my brothers, john, emery, and chief. Who are they . Guest those were john was my best, best, best friend from grade school. And emery was his blood brother. And chief was emerys best, best friend from his early years, and the four of us were brothers, and john and emerys uncle by marriage was man named ellis. Ellis and joanna. Were aunt and uncle to john and emory, and ellis was half apache, have lakota sioux, borne in 1929 in a wagon outwest, very well read. Read everything from the greeks on up. And he was the one who early on said to me he was a real mentor and uncle figure to me. Very, very important to my life. And he was the one who said its funny, white people are always running off to join the indians but the indians never join the white people. That one sentence from ellis gave me this perspective on modern society, like all of a sudden i was able to see it from the outside a little bit. Thats crucial if youre a journalist and youre an anthropologist. Its crucial to see things from the outside and that went back to ellis in some ways. Host this is from the neiman story board, an interview, august 19, 2013 i try to jet edit my works on different state offered mind. So ill iran on a hot day and then read the 2,000 word i just wrote, or if im upset or sleepy or drunk ill read this stuff. If youre sleepy and your find yourself skipping over a paragraph because you are bored by it, just want to get to the interesting part, it comes out. Guest yeah. You put yourself in a i dont drink miami by the way but you put yourself in a different state of mind, its an interesting sort of screening mechanism for what is not reality. When you find yourself skipping over a section of what you wrote, because youre tired and sweaty or upset or whatever it may be, it probably shouldntpeople are going to read your work in all different kinds of state mind you. Better write it in a way that can survive a fight with your husband or with your wife, a couple of drinks after dinner, whatever. You better be such compelling solid writing that it can survive those different states of mind and keep the person engaged. So you do it to yourself. Host why dont you drink anymore. Guest i just realized debit want to anymore. Bat year ago. Just stopped drinking. I just stopped because i had a Health Problem that drinking can affect. I had arrhythmia in my heart and i was told that alcohol can affect it so i didnt have a drink for a month. Had absolutely no affect on my heart. But i real use liked the way i felt. I realized there was only one version of me Walking Around out there, and there was something about that was really exciting, really almost actually intoxicating. And it was simple, clear, and i just really liked it. So i just kept doing it. Host was alcohol at one point a big part of your life . Guest no. No. Not at all. But even moderate drinking changes you, which is why people do it, and certainly why i did it. Liked it. I enjoyed. But got to aint where i was i just want one version of me. Just simpler, easier and quite exciting to just keep track of one persons problems. Host whats the half king. Guest a bar aim half owner of in chelsea. Me and a couple of friends start it, built it in my partners are involved in journalism, involved in filmmaking and wented a place that both welcomed the neighborhood and was kind of a home for people in our profession, so we have author reading there and all kinds of stuff. Its a cool place. Host is it a community . Guest the bar . Host yes. Guest okay. Metaphor include, maphorically, yes. In a literal sense a community is the people that you share food gathering efforts with that you share defense with. In the april sent sense a community is who you the modern metaphorical sense i think you can say we employ 50 people, they all know its about a platoon. Not coincidentally. They all know each other very, very well. Were sort of i guess you could say its a kind of transitory community. Host Sebastien Junger, what is interesting you this day . Youre done war reporting. Guest i hate to put it this way. Im not sure. What i wrote about in tribe its a short book but includes a lifetime of thinking about who we are, why we are the way we are, why modern society is the way itles. Why people respond to combat the way they do. Thinking about what my uncle ellis said about people constantly running off to join the indians and never the other way around. I kind of cleaned out the refrigerator in this book. All the whatever, all the stuff that i cleaned it out and tried to make sense of the world that i live in, that we all live in, and i dont know what im going to i dont know what im going to put in the refrigerator again. Im looking forward to a couple of months of resetting my brain. Ive been a reporter for 30 years, and tribe is an attempt to integrate all of the things i experienced and learned into one coherent theory about what makes us feel good and what makes us feel bad. Host one thing you write in tribe is that the suicide rate among veterans is a little misleading. Guest yeah. The statistics, of it are its 22 vets a day is really misleading. It was a very, very narrow study, and psychologists eventually sort of figure egged out it wasnt representative. It wasnt really accurate. The suicide rate is very, very confusing to psychologists. They had a hard time determining if the experience of combat even affected the likelihood of suicide. One study found that if you deploy, youre actually less likely to commit suicide. Very, very confusing, and theres a great psychologist named craig bryan who has done a lot of studies in this area, and he actually looked at student veterans and found their suicide al ideation was id dollar the regular general student identical to the regular student public. The relationship between combat and suicide theres a slight connection there but seems to be exposure to atrocities. Not combat per se. Expose sure to atrocities. Exposure to really violent killing. Its a very particular thing. Its not come bat per se. So when you get into the statistics of this, its very complex and even the some shrinks are unable to kuwait come to agreement about the relationship between serving and the risk of suicide. Host Sebastien Junger because of what you write beside have you had world war 2 korean war vets come up to you and say, thats what i was feeling or thats what i felt . Because the studies have really come a long way since that period of time. Guest well, yeah. One of the things i have written about is the sort of bizarre thing that almost feels rude to say that soldierses often miss the war. Theyre not psychopaths. Their civilians who put on a uniform and had an experience, but theyre us. So what is going on with that . And what was able to determine was that they missed the very close communal bond. Their very close human bond that is necessitated by hardship, by danger, by adversity, and you can take civilians in modern society and sort of collapse modern society and watch them act the same way. The blitz in london was traumatic to people in london, killed 30,000 londoners, and yet mean panel afterwards many people afterwards, many civilians, said they is inned to the dies strangers sleeping shoulders to shoulder on the subway platform and everybody pitching in to survive, like hellish as it was, that shared group that effectively recreates our evolutionary past was incredibly moving for peel. So i tack but it like this and i once gave a ted talk and a significant about why soldiers miss war. A significant portion of the comments are vietnam vets talking about how much they miss vietnam. Opposite i gave a talk at the Sanders Theater in cambridge, massachusetts, and a very, very old guy came up to me and said, thank you for everything you said. I now understand why i have the feelings that i do about the war the korea. It was like 50 years earlier. And he started crying, and he left. This man had been bottling something up for half a century. Something about what i said clicked for him. He missed his brothers. I just talked with a gentleman a couple weeks ago in gloucester, massachusetts, who was at iwo jima in world war ii and out of his company, 300 men, out of his company, seven survived. Seven out of 300. And he said, you know issue dont miss the war but i sure do miss my brothers. He said i think about them every day. And i think that the trauma of war includes a real nostalgia and longing for something that existed in a hellish place. I think thats what is complicated for people to sort out, and its complicated for spouses and families and society to understand. Host do you think as a country we have if shared that group ethos . Guest i think we have shared it more than we do now. I dont think a modern society a modern society is too individualized. Its too compartmentalized, economically, socially, politically. To actually have a group experience. If you reply i planes into buildings in new york city, too little while, a modern city like new york will have a shared experience. And interestingly, the suicide rate went down in new york after 9 11. The rate of Violent Crime went down. Antisocial behave that happens in modern cities went down. But, no, we live in this mass industrial society, and we subcontract out the things we need done to survive. So, i dont know any oil workers but i drive a car. Put gas in my car. Dont know any oil workers and i dont understand them. Its a tough job and super dangerous but i dont have an emotional connection. I live in a house made of wood. Dont know anything about loggers. You can go on and on through all the things that keep all of us alive. Were not personally connected to most of the people doing most of the stuff we depend on. Soldiers are just one group, one professional group that most people are not connected to, and i think thats evidence of some good things but also theres a down side that makes us feel like were actually not part of a tribe. Were not part of a whole. We dont have shared common goals and common ethos. We lose that and theres a down side. Host sierra sierra leone. What is it connection to you . Guest i was in the civil war in sierra sierra leone in 1999. The war has gone on, off and on throughout the 90s no, 2000, right before the war ended, the last spasm of violence, and i was the first african civil war id seen. Completely terrifying. Way more frightening thatting in it was doing with american soldiers and then later the civil war in liberia, came home from covering those wars pretty affected. Didnt know what pesticide was so i didnt know it was posttraumatic stress disorder, but i had real consequences for me for a while. Host from tribe what i had was classic short are term posttraumatic stress disorder from an evolutionary perspective. Its exactly the response you want to be vigilant and avoid situations where youre not in control youch want to react to strange noises you. Want to sleep lightly and wake easily. You wasnt to have flashbacks and nightmareses that remind you of specific threats to your life and you want to be by turns angry and depressed. Guest i mean, were primates. Were mammals. We obviously evolved to survive hardship and stress and danger. If your life has been in danger, it will probably be in danger tomorrow, too, and the day after that, and so you dont want to keep acting the same as you always have. You want to change your behavior you. Want to be alert you want to jump at sudden noises. Youre in a dangerous environment now and want to have reaction to that. That helps survive. Those are adaptations for survival. All mamas do this. What is not adaptive is longterm ptsd. So the trauma reaction has survival value for some weeks or months, which isxactly what happened to me. Every time i came back from a bad war, i would be psychologically affected for some weeks or months and then it would go away. Thats what evolution programmed in us. But when you get stuck in a longterm traumatic reaction, its called chronic longterm posttraumatic stress disorder and thats not adaptive and is actually dangerous, and that seems to happen to around one in five people who are traumatized. Host lets take some calls. Sebastien jung are is our guess. Time from alameda, california good afternoon. Please go aide ahead. Caller good afternoon. This is fascinating. I wanted to ask about the experience of women. I know you talk about men in these platoons but do you have insight how women respond and where theyre in this small group belonging is any different from men . Guest during the blitz in london, women were absolutely part of the societal reaction to the cries that the crisis going on. That actually people really like. In the u. S. Military, the unit that i was with his combat infantry. By definition it was allmale. There were no women out there appeared i have not been around women in combat. Im sure theyre excellent at it. Women have a different physical and psychological makeup that manager they react slightly differently. When the ships are down to we humans are wired to survive. Women obviously are excellent at that as well, just like men. Close quote dave in tennessee, texas. Mr. Junger, will technology to her what it means to be human . Ive been asked to stay into the future. I dont think its going to change. It means to be connected to other humans. That is the basic rupaul truism at the core of our human mix. Spirit that is what separates us from others vcs. Our survival is predicated on Group Interaction and sacrifices of the individual for the group. I dont think technology will change that. Technology during peacetime is to an end of visualization which makes people anxious and depressed. As well as in a society, the suicide rate 10 to go up. But i think at our core, we are humans and the reason the rates are going up is because we are human of the winners surrounded by this technology that is so new. Host job is calling in from dayton, wyoming. Caller high. I was going to say that i have read all of your books and i am very impressed with them. I remember about a month ago i was reading an interview that you gave in the n york times book review and a book that you gave a great deal of attention to an even recommended that the president reid is one that i recently ordered. I wonder why youre so impressed with this book. The brief history of humankind. Yeah, and often in harare goes it starts around 2 million years ago when the first hominid societies were performing and takes us right on up to the internet. It talks about humans as a mammalian species, as a very exceptional primate pcs. The way he takes that body of knowledge and understands modern society with that, understands capitalism, industrialization, the great religion to me was just incredibly exciting to read about. I recommend it to people because people like to think about things and not up made me think for months. The best books do that. I hope a lot of people read it. Host you also recommended that the next president read thomas paine. Guest yes, thomas paine was sort of a devilish writer. He wrote a book called the age of reason, where he looked at the sort of logical fallacies of established religion. The use of rationality, the use of logic i feel is where our salvation will come or not they vcs. I think we get ourselves into trouble when we are taken over by our passions. Thomas pink clearly believed that. He was one of the architects of the American Revolution and american independence. The whole idea of the inalienable right of men, individual right that teams dont have a divine right, that no one is born inherently superior to any other person, you cant be born into power over others. You have to earn it. Not power, but authority. A three monthold baby will have authority over other people. How do you know . The divine right of kings obviously is an incredibly questionable idea that what European Society has an based on an thomas paine took all of that on as he helps construct the ideology of american independent and individual rights. I am no expert. I just sort of fell in love with the guy. He took they took, the framers took as one example individual right in the sort of very profound egalitarianism that they were inspiring to. They check is one of their sources the American Indian and the Tribal Society is profoundly egalitarian. No one is born into a kind of inherent inherited privilege authority and they were intoxicated by that converted into the constitution. Stephen. Jane in washington. Did you like the hollywood filmmaker book, the perfect storm. You prefer doing document . Guest thank you for that. I enjoyed the film enormously. It was a big dramatic representation of the book i wrote, which was a journalistic interpretation of some did not really happen. I felt that will scan peterson did a great job at turning it into a hollywood movie. I had nothing to do with making a the perfect storm and ive been very involved in the making of documentaries. Ive got to say its kind of apples and oranges. Host pat or not, illinois asks that the tribal benefit of inclusion and meaning are so low, why has the arc of his jury apparently curved in an opposite direction . Guest well, benefit doesnt always doesnt always come from meaning. The engine of capitalism and modernization is extremely powerful. Another evolutionarily programmed response that we have is towards individualization and individual benefit. Human society is this balance in the concerns of the group. You sort of need those. Whats captured in modern society is the accumulatio of capital has started without ultra 10,000 years ago and i will refer you to harare for this because he had a very interesting chapter about agriculture. He domesticated us rather than the other way around. Those processes are very recent go. I started 10,000 years ago. Those processes have resulted in the feedback loop of capital and Technological Development and more capitalization. I think are very ancient wiring as humans cant quite keep up with it. It works. We landed men on the moon. We are working on a cure for cancer. We have a polio vaccine. It worked in a lot of ways that evolution the evolutionarily adapted, the consequent that were not that happy. At least judging by modern society. Host may is calling in from columbus, nebraska appeared you are on booktv with Sebastian Junger. Caller youve been around a lot. How can we have the foreigners respect us more . Guest thats a simple hard to ask questions. Thank you. I have worked all over the world. We are enormously respect that and a lot of the world. We have also done a lot of damage. My father grew up during world war ii and america was seen to have saved the world from fascism by a lot of people. I was in kosovo. I was in bosnia. We sat american led nato intervention, stop those genocides, stopped those wars. There a a lot of very, very grateful people in those countries. All over the world, people want to immigrate to the country. They want to immigrate here and work here. We are very worse record around the world. That doesnt mean we dont make terrible mistakes and withal so, for as much as we are but backed it, and desired in some ways, we are also deeply resented. That is a complicated alan that a superpower has to circumnavigate is how do you keep from being resented for the very things you are also admired for. I dont think there is a simple answer. Host Sebastian Junger, what is your connection to the state of idaho . Guest i was in idaho when i was 23 or whatever it was and then i went back in the early 90s and wrote about forest fires in the crews that brought fires north of boise in the summer of 1992. Host how does that compare . Guest ive never been in a war when i was covering the forest fires. I remember turning to my buddy, john, whom i book is dedicated. We were out there together. We were in a helicopter looking for some fresh lime to flyover. Something germanic was going on and i yelled at him. I said Something Like this forest fires are exciting, imagine what war is like was the thought that came to my mind. Host our next call is from steve in poona, idaho. Zero ahead, steve. Caller thank you. I appreciate that. We certainly do with buyers. That is part of living in the west. I wanted to ask him if seems historically that our wars are more episodic. They have a beginning to when we look back from the world war ii era even though i would argue it, todays wars seem to be centralized, very openended. I am just wondering, is it more difficult for the veteran should reconnect to society because msn they dont have a clean ending . I had the cold war so i could look at the berlin wall and make some connection to an event. In a sense, is a harder for the veteran today . Guest im not a psychologist, but im doing my best to figure all of this out. I think it probably is harder. World war ii was way more to mod more to vatican the current wars but it had a finite ending. America is engaged in struggles that dont end. You know, the war on quote, the war and crime, war on drugs, these are after is the cost a lot of money, the cost a lot of blood. Theyve been going on for decades. I dont know if its Psychological Research on the psychological reason and not going after that we will fight or not say. There is a debate. That compared to finite things, i dont know if anyone sent it back, but its certainly possible. Really interesting idea. Host robber, blaine, washington. Go ahead with your question or comment. Caller thank you very much for all of your work. I am a survivor and the Third Marine Division in 1969 i havea. I have two survivors of two groups of casualty replacement that fit into the dac by the regulars between 1969 and we still havent got a record. Its basically an unknown event. Thank you for doing what you do for the veteran. I lost everybody. All of my friends were killed. Everyone except for one. We still are in the unknown. We are in twilight tone here, but we are okay. Semper fi and thank you very much. Just go thank you for calling. Honestly, i really cannot imagine what that must feel like to lose all of your friends, all of your brothers boat wine and decades later to have it not really be acknowledged by your country. One of the things i was looking at in my book, transfixed, is hunter gatherer sociies e they better off coming back to the battlefield to their community than soldiers in a modern, mechanized industrialized mass society. As far as i can tell, they are. The community, the civilian community and the warriors are deeply intertwined. They come back to a society that is very, very cognizant not only of the importance of the site to what went on out there and the sort of divide between the warriors and the society is basically nonexistent. The analogous situation is inconceivable in a Tribal Society. I really cant imagine how that is odd entity or sub or he and i really hope you find some peace. Host from your book tribe, veterans come home to find that although they are willing to die for their country, they are not sure how to live for it. Unfortunately for the past decade, american soldiers have returned to a country that displays many indicators that those social resilience. Resources are not shared equally. A quarter children live in poverty. Jobs are hard to get. And the wages almost impossible to live on. Instead of being able to work and contribute to society, a highly therapeutic thing to do you write large percentage of veterans are just offered lifelong disability and they except of course, why shouldnt they come a society that doesnt distinguish between degrees of trauma cant expect the warriors to either. Guest todays veterans are coming back to a fractured society. Inc. About it, they risk their lives to fight for us and then they come back to find we are fighting with buyers loves. I mean not on every level. There is a political fight going on. Political fights are contentious. They dont have to be ugly and this is ugly. There is a disparaging of the president , a mocking of the government. There is contempt for segments of the population. I cant imagine how dispiriting that is to soldiers who bought her this. The issue of ptsd is complicated because the nation is trying to do the right thing for people who fought hard for us, but also some pain were soldiers are allowed to sell what is called self diagnose a basically if you have ptsd, the doctors have to consent that you do and they believe psychologists believe that leads to an error rate of 50 in the diagnosis. And then you get disability. The thing about disability payment is yes, they allow you to get by, but they also marginalized people. People return to society by among other things, working. When you have disability papers you could live off of, you dont have to work and then you dont rejoin society and it winds up almost ghettoizing veterans in the subculture and there are real psychological consequences for that better known to be negative and i think that is one of the problems going on with this generation of veterans not transitioning. I found it an Amazing Painting by winslow homer. It was painted this is important. It was painted in the fall of 1865, a few months after the civil war ended. The harvest season after the civil war ended it shows a young man with a side in a wheat field, cutting weight. You realize this is a civil war veteran. A young man who mugged earlier with carrying a rifle in a came home to wherever and he was immediately put to work and im sure his Community Come his family was like well done out there in the battlefields of the bayonet, what have you. We still need you. There is something enormously psychologically healthy about asking someone who is returning to society, asking them to continue serving and can give you engaging. Dont go away. We cant get by without you. Heres the side. Get to work with asked. Host next call comes from maryland. Go ahead. Caller how are you, sebastian . Guest and pretty good, how are you . Caller pretty well. Im an english teacher and i tagged her book and i was listening to your interview, i heard some things that was though inspiring its probably incredible people are even watching and listening. Earlier i heard you talk about war reporting and watching some of the suffering even in those countries than with arrows oldsters. I was brought to mind the Creative Process when it talks about people who are allowed. He states perhaps the primary distinction of the artist, which you are obviously, he must cultivate the state, which most men and all men when the chips are down allowed is a banality frequently stated, but rarely only evidence believed. In hearing back, i heard a lot of that. I was wondering, really quick as an aspiring writer, what type of advice would you give. Ive been struggling between my own experience and to put it in perspective so it can help a global perspective. I just didnt want it to be onesided. Imc your work. So, thanks. Host before we get an answer, tell us quickly hat it was like to teach the perfect storm. What was the reaction . Guest i chose to teach it because it was an actual event that occurred and this was the authors interpretation of what happened. They responded well. Most students today like to see the real deal. They like to know if this really happening, is this real, not real . They were inspired by that and just how life can change in a moment. One of the Biggest Challenges as a teacher in high school as they are trying to convince kids there is a world outside of where you are and it moves really fast and things can change. I enjoyed the book. I did watch the movie, but the book was very good and i thought they responded well. Guest thank you. The writing process is a mystery. Im just a journalist. Im just a nonfiction writer. I gather my information about the world and i sit down with it. If we have writers block, all that means to me is that country section writer not enough research for information and im having trouble writing. If you have enough in her mission, the words cant come out fast enough. And the things that will affect the world are the things that affect you. If you are writing about something that is producing an emotional asked. , it is going to affect other people emotionally and that is going to change the world. If you are writing about something that is be listed in much of a reaction in you, other people will have the same response to it. Your own relationship to your work is like a pretty good, if your object didnt come you have to be really honest and open an object is. If you are, its a good indicator of what other people are going to want to read. Host were you familiar with backquote . Guest no, i wasnt actually. Postcode email from robert. You see the expansion of privatization in the military through contractors as a side of private power consuming public power. What do you think about the s of contract is in the military . Im not an expert in this. My guess is the military is using private contractors because its cheaper, and even though the contractors are paid more than a soldier with d. There are lifelong benefits come the g. I. Bill, all those sorts of things get Financial Burdens the country carries for the rest of the life of the soldier. So of course they dont have that obligation with contractors. In the long run, with the military is doing is trying to save money by hiring out some of these jobs. Is that a good idea or not . I dont know. Thats a national conversation. Im out of my depth on that one. Host from San Francisco, mr. Junger, do you think the suburbanite economy grew up with contribute to the socalled throwaway guest i am guessing here. I think they are all part of the same phenomenon. I mean, there is a feeling in this individualized society that as my father as my father protested come you dont owe your country nothing. There is a feeling that maybe you actually dont owe anything. Maybe you can monitor and it doesnt matter. Nothing matters except your own personal concerns. If you live in a tav it is quite clear your life is not entirely your own. You owe your life to your community because your survival would be impossible without that community. In an affluent suburban society, modern society, it is possible to think that you dont know your survival to anybody else. Its a complete illusion on one that leaves us feeling alienated and alone and depressed and anxious. In fact connected to the throwaway culture because its not your world that youre Walking Around in, its someone elses problem. Postcode showed, salem, massachusetts. Murder beaumont was incredible. Why do you think relatives of Bessie Goldberg did not, do not acknowledge the possibility that Albert Desalvo committed this crime . Guest murder obviously is incredibly agonizing personal, painful and and i dont expect the family of an effect than to be openminded and active about other possibilities. There was a conviction in the case, a conviction that had a lot of doubt at the time and the more i looked in to it, the more it seemed legitimate. I was incapable of proving anything one way or the other and i was very careful in my book not to come to conclusions. Only dna with her one way or another who killed classical bird. Obviously thats not available so i refrain from judgment. Host over people who dont know where talking about he Boston Strangler. Guest just briefly, later confessing to the Boston Strangler was a carpenter and he worked for my parents had a six monthold in belmont. Im older woman, Bessie Goldberg was sexually assaulted, strangled, classic boston strangling about a mile away in belmont and the father was alone in our house all day that day and after he was caught a few years later, it occurred to my mother when she found out that he had been in our home for six and he could have traveled across town and kill Bessie Goldberg. It occurred to her that this black handyman who had been cleaning that day, maybe he was innocent. Totally circumstantial case of coors. It is that possibility ballot . I couldnt prove it one way or another. I completely understand the heated emotion and the absolute certainty that the Goldberg Family had about that conviction. Host winnetka, illinois. Go ahead with your question. Guest i have a lot to say. Here is what i want to say to you. Ive been listening to other people talking to you and i cant tell you enough th you are a very strong person. I may be six at 86 years old. Ive been doing psychotherapy in my own practice for 55 i have set up in our logical issues that confront you. I was a veteran of the korean war. I didnt serve in combat, but here is what i have found 55 years. The diagnosis of ptsd is 100 correct. What they have found in the research that i have heard and read is at the same time the diagnosis of ptsd, there is another brain issue that is similar, just like the or not the person has a kidney infection or attach no objection. I would say send them to you about my research. I spend 1,350,000 hours of psychotherapy ive never had to call my insurance company. I work with people for 40 years. Some of them have what is called the pmi environmental medical issue, which is also an immune disorder. I respect you highly, but here is what the research has shown. That when they do a scan, and they do not buy another brain issues that are renewed. When they do say studies, which is when they do scans of people who they had skinned alive and they do studies, they find there is another issue. The issue is theres other brain activities, which resolves around the lack of connection early in childhood. There was the man who went down host howard, i apologize. Before we get too deep into this topic, let here for a Sebastian Junger and see if he has a response. Thank you. Im not a psychologist. Im a journalist. I assembled as much data as i could. One of the things that you said really resonated. Statistically, one of the predictors of longterm ptsd and almost 100 of people have shortterm ptsd or major vatican and. Want your ptsd is not. One of the predictors of who will get the term ptsd or major vaticans event is trauma in childhood. Particularly, lack of human connection, abuse, violent abuse, so what you say at the end absolutely resonates with in terms of predicting trauma. Guest this is a text message from alan and fort pearce, florida. Are you familiar with the work of bowling alone in other books. Much of what you talk about reminds me of what putnam says about the decline of the sense of community. I havent read that book and ive heard about it from a number of people obviously im looking forward to reading it. Were talking about very related things for sure. Guest larry, kansas city, missouri. Guest great program. Let me start off with and a decorated combat vietnam veteran. Two purple hearts, a bronze star. One of the comments made of a woman he interviewed said he missed the work. I didnt understand that. Did you have to have a word to feel a closeness for any kind of nourishment or whatever. It just puzzles me. Looking at the world today with all these wars going on as vicious as they are, particularly in syria, its unbelievable to hear that somebody misses a war. It makes no sense to me. It is crazy. It isnt a period can you explain that to me . Guest yeah, listen, i agree with you. My book is about trying to understand that. This woman was not in vain. The people in london were not in vain. But they were talking about of course they didnt miss the carnage. In sarajevo, a modern army is the people for target this for three years then they killed one fist, killed and wounded one fifth of the population of the city. What my friend was talking about was exactly that horror show that forced people to stop competing individualized life in an together. They literally sat shoulder to shoulder in the basement. They planted her hands together. They did everything together. They lived for one another and the war ended and thank god we leave our individual lives and we are not as generous. We are not a selfless. We dont participate in the community, in the groove. She pointed to some graffiti that she had seen in bosnia, that were better when they were bad. At the end, she said for people to commit something as awful as were means the society we have us be very messed up and i think shes got a real point. Host from a shared lines, an irish psychologist, quote, when people are actively engaged in a cause, their lives have more purpose resulting improvement in Mental Health. This was in 1979. It would be irresponsible to suggest means of improving Mental Health, but the belfast findings suggest that people will feel better psychologically if they have more involvement with their community. Guest his study was amazing. He said it meant solve the Northern Ireland during 1969, 1970 during a time of great turmoil in Northern Ireland. He found the districts that have the most violent, saw the most improvement in Mental Health across the population. He found that the most violence was correlated with the lowest levels of depression in both men and women and that the only district they saw depression go up with the county derry, i believe it was, that saw no violence at all. Basically saying no one is going to recommend for the way of treating Mental Health issues, but it does Say Something interesting about the wiring we have is human, that a crisis generates the feeling that they are necessary, but their Community Needs them to call the action. They are living for a greater purpose. That actually buffers people against psychological demons as one official said in london during the blitz. He said we have chronic erratics of peacetime now driving ambulance to. Its really interesting way of looking at it. Host this is bobby, texting him. Good day to both of you. On the naval veteran of desert storm honorably discharged and 92. I still have very vivid dreams of my service. Names of the faces and the situations are so clear to me that i have problems recalling what i did yesterday. My memories will never let me forget the significant of belonging that i felt during my service. Guest he was in the navy. Sounds like he may not have even been directly and calm that. The experience of being in a group, and an urgent tradition is really intoxicating to people. Only 10 of u. S. Military actually fires their god and animate they can be. Only 10 are getting shot at. A much higher percentage have real difficulty transitioning home. Again, maybe not a trauma problem. It may be the difficulty of going from a closed group to an individualized society where everyone is in their airconditioned room and wondering if they are happy, safe, if this is what they want to be doing. Host laura in oklahoma city. As a nurse who worked in the Critical Care setting for many years, i believe i experienced a moderate depression and sense of self purpose when i left my job for less acute setting, even though i am still a nurse in, what i do now seems lame. What is the difference in the situation it would have gone through. This woman is laura. Expressing some thing thats pretty typical. I have heard this since i wrote a book and have been engaging with the public, people say not when they were doing jobs that require collective action, those jobs are very hard to leave. I talked to a young woman who it cant hurt. She said during those terrible days when she was fighting her cancer, her family, community, friend gathered around her and supported her and loved her. She said, you know, i survived. I beat the odds. I survived. And now i miss being sick. Theres something missing. I heard that in many different forms, all kinds of different jobs. Its very hard to give up that Group Endeavor and go back to individual lives. As great as independents is, its is, its hard to give that up. Host you are watching tv on cspan2. This is our in depth programmer would talk about the body of work. This month is author and filmmaker and journalist, Sebastian Junger, author of five books, death in belmont, the perfect storm, fire, war, and his most recent book is called tribe. Weve got an hour and 15 minutes left in our program today. The phone numbers in case youd like to die away, 202 7488200 in the Eastern Central time zone. 7488201 and a not one and the mountain and pacific time zone and if you want to text in a message, please include your first name in your city so we know where you are coming from. 202 8386251 is the number were you to text in. And finally, you can reach us on facebook and twitter and email as well, facebook. Com booktv. booktv cspan. Org as our email address. We have talked about your documentaries. We want to show her viewers the trailer for restrepo. Ive been idly on the fhm about it, it can see the picture in my head. [inaudible] we are not ready for this. First boss [inaudible] went restrepo died reshot off flares. Guest as they realized they could not knock off. We had the upper hand. It takes a little bit out of you every time you see one of your voice get hurt. Its like a big family. Guest i want you guys to get over it and do your job. I dont like the way it is. I dont like the way it feels right now. I need to know better so im not killing these people. You cant see what is coming at you. I have no idea. I havent figured out how to deal with it inside. Eventually i will be able to process it differently. I do want to not have that as a memory because that is what moment and make me appreciate everything i have. Host Sebastian Junger, you told us you are currently reading letters of seneca appeared what is that . Guest seneca was a writer and philosopher or her in ancient greece and he was one of the stoics. I was just sort of intrigued i was intrigued by his philosophy and stoicism in general. Im hardly an expert, but the stoics had a belief in removing your personal needs from your decisionmaking and absolute belief in rationality and that they felt that the path to god was through the use of human reason, that someone who is using their emotions, was compared to a person who is running downhill and couldnt control their lands and their rationality with similar purpose will come you dont want to be sprinting downhill out of control with your emotions. You want to be careful and deliberate using a rational mind to calm to rational conclusions. My father was a physicist and i was raised by my mother as an artist. I was raised and an atheist. I didnt go to church when i was a kid. My father as a physicist, explain to me the power of rational thought and i just screw up sort of thinking that way. Host you had a physicist and an artist. Isnt there again and yang pair . Guest there is. My father seemed to win all the arguments, so its clear to me which way i was going to go. Host why are you an atheist . Guest i suppose you could say as an historical matter because i was brought up in a religious family. The reason i think i am an atheist is because i havent encountered a sort of tangible reason to believe in god. I would love it if there is a god. I just havent encountered a reason to believe in god. Host would he think of the phrase there are not eight years . Guest i know empirically that is not true. It also makes me wonder as an atheist, and makes me wonder what a religious person would imagine god would be having to deal with any situation where his creations are trying to kill each other. If there were a god, this is exactly the kind of situation where he would say you guys can figure it out for yourselves. Guest the actual email you notice im currently reading the letters of seneca as part of a sudden infatuation with the greek stoics. Guest you know, what ive read about them and again it hasnt been much. Im at the beginning of my quest. It reminded me of myself when i was a kid. I was a longdistance runner. I felt a real imperative to reduce my dependence on physical comfort, physical need. I wanted to be able to fall asleep. When i was hungry and wanted to run all day and all night. I wanted to be able to do anything. And i worked very hard and i got close. Host in your book, tribe coming attack about childrens bed times. Why . Children sleep habits. Guest we are a socialist pcs and throughout most of Human History and still today throughout most of the world, people sleeping groups, x ended families, called cosleeping. Children, Young Children, and in sleep among the adults in nondescript they get their sense of safety front, their protection. An infant is very vulnerable and in a lot of danger if it is alone in the wild. It is a predators launch immediately. Young children do not like to be alone. They are terrified. Northern European Society, and i include america is not is really the only society other in Human History to force Young Children teased late by themselves in a dark room. All of our primate wiring is alarmed by that and thats one of the reasons children have a hard time on me. Host Sebastian Junger is our guest. James is in eagle grove, iowa. Please go ahead. Caller yes, can you hear me. I recently traveled to the balkans to help bring about a better understanding between americans and people in the balkan region related to the war over there. One of the things we talked to us about is they did not miss a word. We went in travel to sites that have bottomed out in yugoslavia. It was last there is a memorial to the people who died, the day did not feel any nice feelings related to the war. In fact, there was some animosity to the u. S. Being involved in the nato bombings. We were there to help revamp our better relations and we did do that. They embraced us. We embraced them. We studied history and culture of what had gone upon the balkan come at a periodic incursions the roman empire into the balkans and it was an area that had been really divided and have lots of wars. I dont think everybody over there feels that way, yeah the people are coming about and they are building a new way of life despite the wars. They still have goblins with the fact that places like bosnia and no longer to yugoslavia because they could trace back that they had been there long before other people had come into that region. It is still a divided area and we as people in the United States need to embrace those people and help them through the situation. Host for years ran 150,000 of. Belgrade experienced a very short, targeted on campaign when they refused to withdraw their armed forces from kosovo who themselves were committing atrocities. Belgrade fortunately for the people in belgrade were not forced into a siege mentality for civilians had to band together to survive. That happened in sarajevo. One fifth of the population was killed or wounded. I am absolutely sure that people in belgrade do not miss getting bombed a nato forces, but that its a very different situation in bosnia. Host when you picture this theory a vote, when you see it . Just goes the modern city had been hammered with mortar and tank rounds per year by the time i got there. Shrapnel scars and all the buildings. No class left. It looks like a futuristic postjake city. At night it was completely dark. It was a very strange thing to walk through a modern city at night and not have any stars and just hear dogs barking. It is very, very strange. At one point during the day, you see people driving firewood down the street. You see odd things like that. People growing vegetables in median strips of the highways. You see women carrying jugs of water. There is nothing. At one point i was in the courtyard of a sort of modern high rise. It was a man and a suit who worked in the highrise, even though the war has heard of affected a lot of things, people were still trying to work. He was in a suit and he was crouched on the ground. Once he got the fire in the courtyard, it was modern building. He was building a fire in the courtyard and it was copyrighted. You got the fire going up at a coffee pot on top of the fire and boil some copy for himself. If theres an image of the, the postapocalyptic world, it is a man in a suit cooking coffee on a wood fire. What is that . It was a profound moment. Host have you been back . Guest last summer we talked about her nostalgia about the word. As a 17yearold girl, she was almost killed. She caught a hunk of metal in her leg. Her father. Her through the shelley night to the hospital. The doctor managed to save her leg that he had to operate on her without an geisha. Everyone suffered. And even she had a 17yearold girl from those terrible days, thats the weird thing. We all missed it because were better people back then. We lived for others. But it must ourselves. Host what is the city look like . Guest its been rebuilt. You can still see sarajevo roses. A mortar hit the pavement is a very particular sort of signature on the ground. Indeed it looks a little bit like a rose. Everywhere you see that sort of splatter pattern of shrapnel coming off the pavement and from the detonation, some probably died there. Every time you see one, guest i want to go back to his feet had to say about resolution. Yes, we had a definitive resolution that world war ii, but otherwise, have we really have definitive resolution and you can make a difference . Guest the revolution, the war of 1812, civil war, but pulled out of vietnam. Was it resolved . I dont know. Likewise, we pulled out of iraq, afghanistan. I didnt cover iraq occurred to you like it could be days. I was in a post. I lived in new york and assertive strategic and moral political rationale are going and getting the guys that do that to us sort of a. I mean, i understood it. I understood the rationale. The war was horribly handled. Stakes were made. When we marched off to a nonnecessary war in iraq, we pretty much sealed the fate of the guinness jam. We couldnt fight two wars like that simultaneously. But i did cover afghanistan and we kill bin laden. We decimated al qaeda. I was in afghanistan in the 90s. I saw what was going on in afghanistan postsoviet withdraw, the terrible civil war that was happening there. Talk about the postapocalypse world. I was in northern afghanistan in 0 with massoud who was the leader of the northern alliance, the last force remaining that was fighting the taliban that had started taking over in 94, 95 in afghanistan. And, i mean, he was very courageous, brilliant military strategist, and i think quite a principled leader. And he was killed two days before 9 11 as part of the 9 11 attacks. And i had spent two months with him, and i was, you know, i was very i mean, i was devastated when i found out hed been killed. I didnt realize what it was part of. And then 9 11 happened and then, you know, then i i really understood, like, my god, things are bad. Bad things are happening. I was on assignment, actually, when that happened. I was in the country of moldova in eastern europe, the poorest country in europe. And i got back as soon as i could. It took about a week. I got back to my port city, you know, new york, and it smelled of smoke and people still Walking Around, basically, in shock. Host next call comes from east norwich, new york. Go ahead. Caller what a surprise. Im a fan of the perfect storm, and i quote it a lot to people. I love the part about we cleaned up the seas, took the oil off and that, therefore, were having worse hurricanes. You said Something Like the water, yes, youre remembering it, the water just races across. On the other hand, the new book sounds wonderful, tribe. I worked for 30 years for a local newspaper, and that was my tribe. We all worked together with common goals. And now retired, i am creating a few tribe for myself a new tribe for myself, joining local groups and working for them. I do have a question though. One thing puerto rican friends said in relationship to americas being criticized, its really the spanish way of saying it that sounds nicer. What it means is people only throw stones at trees that bear fruit. And then for my question, it appears to me that the candidates who are saying disreputable things about what weve been doing, ink its really a reaction from our having to have, be so politically correct. I think thats manager you might enjoy something you might enjoy talking about, how were responding to the need to be politically correct in everything we do. And thank you for speaking to me. My pleasure. Guest well, like well, thank you, dagmar, and i think your instinct to join groups and serve your community not only is it noble, but itll make you happier. I mean, you know, Political Correctness is one of those phrases thats not very helpful. It started out as an attempt to rhetorically respect the dignity and the rights of all people. And like all good things, is prone to excess. And its wound up being a kind of tyrannical tool for, a tyrannical tool for suppressing open and honest debate in society. And so when you say politically correct, youre talking about the second part of it, but what you dont want to do is get rid of the first part of it which is a respect for all people and to make sure that the way you talk about people doesnt denigrate them and dismiss their concerns and their rights. So we just have to be careful when we talk dismissively about being politically correct. I get it, it annoys me too. But, god forbid, we lose the initial impulse that gave rise to this. Host email from sebastian yunger to booktv i never studied english or creative writing in college, but i read an enormous amount. I read a lot of history and anthropology as a kid, and then i started in on adult fiction. I devoured ma thighson, hemingway as well. I also learned about journalism and nonfiction by reading the masterful john mcfee as well as joan didion. Later in my life i was much affected by poet ted hughes and novelist cormick mccarthy. Whats the connection between all those people . Guest well, theyre all amazing writers. I think theyre amazing writers. Host what does that mean, to be an amazing writer . Guest well, they have a profound understanding of the sort of musical quality of english, of how to put rhythm into a sentence, of how to use vocabulary in origin always, of how to be clean and efficient and direct, how to get out of their own way and not use the writing to draw attention to themselves to be a kind of transparent lens through which the reader can see the world. All of those things. They were amazing. Peter matheson, fields of the lord, just this incredible novel takes place in brazil among and the indians which i believe are a fictional name for the [inaudible] on a boat in the caribbean in the 70s. I mean, just amazing, amazing words. Peter matheson just died, and it was a real loss to the nation. Host its been 20 years since you turned in the manuscript of the perfect storm. Whens the last time you picked it up and read it . Guest its been 20 years almost to the day. [laughter] actually. Oh, my god, when was the last time i read it, 19 years ago . I dont know. Maybe i read it after it was published. I cant remember. I probably did. I cant remember. Host why . I mean, why havent you picked it back up to go through it . Guest i mean, once in a while ill sort of thumb through some of my past work just to see if, see if i still feel like its any good or, you know, i dont know, it doesnt interest me. I mean, i was very interested when i was writing it, and i was delighted that other people were interested in it. And then it came out, and i moved on, and now im in the middle of thinking about tribe, you know . Thats my sort of central intellectual pursuit. But a times going to come when thats behind me. And i we all hope, authors all hope that their books, you know, like their children, will continue to, continue on in the world and affect people, you know, whatever. [laughter] but if youre not, if youre not moving forward, you know, were like sharks. If were not moving forward, we die. And im going to move forward into something else. Host how many drafts did tribe go through . Guest oh, i host and what is a draft . Guest whats a draft, yeah. As i write, i continually reedit as i write. For me, a draft is when you decide to use 100 pages worth of what used to be trees in a forest [laughter] to print out your manuscript in your printer. And then you sit and read it with a red pen, and you mark all the selfindulgent stuff and the inefficient prose and the wordiness and the faulty logic and whatever. You mark everything, and you go back to work on it. And i probably did that twice. And then, yeah, then theres the small revisions after copy editing. Host do you save those drafts . Are they gone . Guest i think i saved the draft that i turned into my editor. I think its in a box somewhere, yeah. Yeah, for sure. I mean, im not a very sentimental person. [laughter] host bobs in overland park, kansas. Hi, bob. Caller hi, peter, great to talk to you. Sebastian, im a tremendous fan of yours. I think your work is really profoundly insightful. Im really interested in a couple books ive been reading recently, and theyre by the works by Samuel Huntington on the clash of civilizations and the remaking of world order. And also he has another book, who are we, which is, deals with Americas National identity. After your explanations of the tribe and your perspectives having been in so many parts of the world where these friction points have been, im really interested in your insights and comments about that. Guest thank you very much. I havent read those books. Ive heard about them. My book tribe really, its about modern Postindustrial Society broadly. Its not just america. And its about why, its about our sort of human preference for community and what the consequences are when we lose that. And so it really isnt just america. I think the clash of civilizations was referring to america. I maye it. But at any rate, we, you know, as humans like we now very recently in our history organize ourselves not so much in neighborhoods, not so much in tribes, but in nations. And the trick is how do you keep 320 Million People which is, i think, the population of this country, how do you keep that many people sort of even though theyre politically in conflict, theyre economically stratified, socially stratified, how do you keep them sort of unified by a shared ethos and a common goal, a common sense of purpose . I mean, the bigger the group the harder it is to do that. And doing that with 320 Million People has never been attempted before in Human History. And, you know, were inventing, you know, were going by the seat of our pants. Were inventing it as we go. At the sort of micro end, we dont really live in neighborhoods where were dependent on one another anymore. I mean, we dont live in communities where were dependent on one another for our basic needs, our food, shelter, safety. And at macro end, there seems to be a kind of fracturing of our nation along ideological lines, along economic lines, social lines. That doesnt need to happen. Were not going to, were not going to dismantle society and all live in tightly bundled communities and leantos, i know thats not going to happen. Nobodys asking for it to happen. But i dont think we need to be fractured the way we are at the micro level. I think when politicians, when very powerful people speak with real contempt and derision about, for example, our president , our government, segments of the population, youre really undermining the idea that were all part of something shared, that we all have a common investment in our country. Its a very, very dangerous thing to do. Not that we dont have disagreements. We should argue. Democracy thrives on argument. Its great. Thats not what im talking about. Im talking about contempt. When i was with soldiers in afghanistan, as much as they might have had problems with each other, no one talked with contempt about someone inside the wire that they might depend on for their own survival. And thats whats happening in this country. I think its extremely dangerous, and im not just talking about you know who, im talking about both 34reu9 call parties. Weve got to stop it. Host from your book tribe, you write politicians occasionally accuse rivals of deliberately trying to harm their own country, a charge so disruptive to group unity that most past societies would probably have just punished it as a form of treason. Guest yeah. I mean, i understand that it galvanizes your base to demonize the opposing Political Party and its leaders. I get it. But what youre doing is youre trading support among your base for youre trading the unity of the country for an increasing support in your base. Youre basically creating a tribe within our nation that does not see its interests as overlapping with the interests of the nation and of all people in this nation. And when you do that, you start fracturing the country. And that really, in my opinion, that kind of rhetoric is extremely dangerous. Its like when couples counselors tell married couples who are struggling have all the fights you want, just do not talk about divorce. Do not use the word divorce. You can fight, whatever. Fight fairly but with respect. And i feel like right now when you start accusing the president of not actually being an american citizen or of somehow being, like, siding with our enemies, youre basically throwing around the word divorce. And its a deeply undemocratic thing to do, and its more of a threat to our democracy than, you know, isis or alqaeda ever, ever will be. And, again, both sides do it in their different ways. The left does it as well. Host and this is a text message from area code 303, reminder to put your city and first name. I think thats detroit. I am just finishing your audio book of tribes. After seeing another interview with you, i am hoping you have or will send a copy of your book to Hillary Clinton and Bernie Sanders who i believe have tried their best given the constraints of a Political Campaign to keep the discussions of our differences civil. You really have rationally nailed the way we should disagree but without denigrating those we disagree with. Next call for Sebastian Junger comes from just outside of washington d. C. Go ahead, doc. Guest first of all, mr. Junger, thanks so much for your incredible work. My wife and i are parents to three young men, one who was a marine with tours in helmand province. Thanks for the insights and the work youve done, its been helpful to us, our son and many other combat veterans as well. Two quick questions. One, in the documentary one of the combat infantrymen who if i remember correctly was raised by hippie parents in california reflects on the things he had to do to others in combat. People say you just did your job, and he says when i meet my god, is he going to say you did your job . I dont think so. Our son said almost precisely the same thing to us. So my first question is do you find a lot of veterans saying something similar to tha and second, we view your work in the tradition of historical reflections on war, seneca you pensioned, the warriors you mentioned, the warriors, what its like to go to war. At the risk of making you laugh too hard, do you view your work in a historical context, or do you feel, hey, ive just found my calling . And i must say youre doing it in an incredibly passionate and wonderful way. Guest thank you, sir. I really appreciate that. I would never put myself this that company in that company. I mean, those are amazing writers, and if im seen that way by anyone, im really honored. Im really trying to do my best to understand something thats confusing to the nation and confusing to me and confusing to the young men and women who are participating in it. And i hope that im making some sense. Im glad your sons are back safely. Two tours in helmand must have been quite something more your son. And, yeah, im glad hes okay. And thank you, thank you for seeing some help in my work, that its incomed you in some help informed you in some helpful way. Im really glad to hear. Host alan in topeka, kansas did you meet any vets that were wired for opposite of tribe, like mountain men of old . I am a combat vet, and iraq felt like a prison experience. Great work on your part. Guest well, you know, humans are were weird, right . And theres all kinds. And there are absolutely people, individuals who do not want to be part of a group. I mean, you know, i have a very, very good, dear friend who grew up in a family of 14 siblings, and he just cant get far enough away from groups, you know . So, you know, its, of course, everything happens. But what i was trying to understand is the very common human reaction to modern society which is elevated rates of suicide and depression and all that and, you know, why is that . We obviously have such bounty, you know . Such safety, such stability, all the things humans supposedly want. Why is it people remember the bad times with this notal. Ya . Why nostalgia . Why is it they remember the blizzard, the hurricane in why is that in its because were enlisted by our community to help. It makes us feel good, and modern society has reduced the occasions where we have to pitch in, and theres a real loss this. Host do you ever get that feeling, do you ever get that isolated feeling being here in new york city . Guest i mean, new york is its own freak show, right . I mean, youre sort of surrounded by millions of people in this incredible human experiment in, you know, congestion. [laughter] congestion and population density, and yet youre anonymous person Walking Around. I think you can feel terribly, terribly alone in this city. I also have had the real experience of, like, real communal sentiment in, like, the neighborhood i live in. So its sort of both. Host next call for Sebastian Junger comes from sharon in virginia beach, virginia. Hi, sharon, go ahead. Caller hi. My question is if you had run into vets who, vietnam or otherwise, who had sort of a selfdestruct mode, i guess youd say. Im a widow of a vietnam vet. He was a ranger. Participated many what they call in what they called long range reconnaissance. He told me some stories you just dont hear every day, you dont even see in the movies, theyre so horrible. He told me two stories that made me cry, one involved a buddy, another a little girl. He always said he did what he had to do, but im just wondering, i think he was suffering from ptsd for years. I think he had, like, a selfdestruct mode. Perhaps that was the way he handled it because he got sicker and sicker until he passed away in 2013. So im just wondering if you had run across that in combat veterans that youve talked to any of the research that you have done for your books, which i definitely will read. Thats my question. Thank you, sir. Guest maam, thank you for calling in. Im really sorry for the loss of your husband. What you call a selfdestruct mode, i mean, people that have been traumatized by all kinds of trauma, it doesnt have to be combat, it could be sexual abuse as a child, violence, being exposed to violence as a child. I mean, people often turn people who have been traumatized often in turn traumatize themselves. I think thats i mean, again, im not a psychologist, but my understanding is thats a pretty common human reaction. And, you know, i havent studied this, but i think i can see that kind of behavior in some of the vets that i know, particularly with Substance Abuse actually. And violence. I i mean, you know, a lot of the guys that i was with out in the corn gal, i mean, what did they do when they got back . They drank a lot and got in a lot of fights. Thats a form of selfpunishment. They were working something out. Host polly, napomo, california. Caller oh, its holly. Hi, sebastian. Ive been following your stuff over years and enjoyed a lot of it, and since you wrote the perfect storm, i was wondering if you would ever investigate, which we still need to designate el faro which sank in october of 2013 and your comments on that. Host thank you, holly. Guest yeah. I think el faro was a container ship that sank during a hurricane 2013, i think she broke in half and sank. Im not sure. She sank very suddenly. No, i probably wont write about that. I tend not to go back to the same topic. Host joanne tweets in, doesnt isis fit the definition of tribe . Guest well, lets be careful here. In the sense that i mean it in the sort of anthropological sense, a tribe is a group of people that are dependent on each other for their sustenance or their safety, for the sort of web of symbolic meanings that identify them as a group apart from others. And so its an easy word to throw around. I think there are, i think there probably is a tribal appeal for people that join isis. They want to be part of something bigger. They want to transcend themselves. They see a kind of unity in what isis is trying to do. For sure. I mean, humans havent changed much. And if isis is appealing in sort of unexpected, weird ways to middle class european kids and theyre running off to, like, join isis, if thats true, we have to wonder what theyre offering and what theyre, what middle class European Society is not providing. But isis is also a political group. Its part of a monotheistic religion. Its a lot of other things as well, and we have to understand it in all those terms. Host because you write about what you write about, do people misconceive or misinterpret your opinion about war, about the purpose of war . Guest well, i think sometimes people misconceive what journalism is. I mean, as a journalist, i dont have public opinions. I dont say i think we should do this, or i think soldiers are like, im studying something and transferring what i feel like ive understood about another world, about sierra leone during the civil war or about american soldiers in combat or what have you, ptsd. Im studying it in a neutral way without an agenda and transferring what i think im digesting it and transferring that to my readers. And so if theres something in my book, its not me saying it, its me repeating the opinions or the conclusions of other people that ive tried to assemble in a coherent fashion. And so if im pointing out, and this has happened a few times and its always interesting to watch it happen, if im pointing out that people respond in positive ways to hardship and distress and danger of the sort that you find in war or on a swordfishing boat, for that matter, its not me somehow saying war is good. Its me pointing out that humans are complex, and we react in surprising ways to difficult circumstances. And it has to be that way, or i mean, were the product of evolution. If we didnt react well to bad situations, we wouldnt exist. We wouldnt have survived. So as an anthropologist, its not surprising to me that the worse the situation, the better we react. But it is not, i mean, if you understand what journalism is, it is not, it is not me offering an opinion about war. Host Sebastian Junger, in your book, war, almost a throwaway line you talked about the camel spiders, the scorpions and the malaria medication that you had to take and what that was like to deal with those three things. Guest yeah. I mean, the one thing i am most terrified of is i have had a phobia of spiders my entire life, since i was a little kid. I blame it on being forced to sleep alone in a dark bedroom. [laughter] im kidding. Anyway, yeah, i have a terrible phobia of spiders. So one of the, very, very honestly one of the real psychological challenges for me in going to the chorin gal wasnt the gunfire. Id been in combat for years. It was thinking about dealing with tran cue las. These camel spiders. That was a psychological thing for me. Scorpions i dont really care. The malaria medication, i mean, it made everyone gave everyone a kind of psychosis. I mean, you had terrible, terrible nightmares. It actually ironically, the malaria medication you took every monday, ironically, the side effects are quite similar to symptoms of ptsd and trauma. And i think the militarys phasing out the medication. I hope they are because, boy, it made people crazy. Host dave is in spokane valley, washington. Dave, youre on booktv with Sebastian Junger. Requesting hi. Thanks, peter. Great show. I mean, i love cspan. I just want to thank cspan for all you guys do. It helps further my education and helps me use my thinking brain which leads me to sebastian and what you do. All your work, your intellectual rigor, love listening to you talk and how honest you are about what you dont know and what you do know. But i really would like to see a guy like you help our leaders be better leaders and get us to a place where we can care for each other in a better way and do our society more good than divisiveness and, you know, get to the issues, the nut of the matter. And so hopefully, maybe you can your goals are going to be more about politics later and you can become a politician. I dont know, but i really respect what you do and love listening to you talk. Host all right, dave, thank you very much. Lets hear from Sebastian Junger. Guest thank you, im very honored by what you said. I mean, im a journalist, and, you know, if i can affect our political leaders, if i can affect anybody, its going to be through my books. And i hope they do. I mean, thats why, you know, i write to make my living, but i also write to affect the society i live in in positive ways. And, you know, if it does that, if hillary reads my book, if donald reads my book, i hope they both do. I hope they see some good in it. The central message at the end of my book, i mean, i start with the American Indians. I move on to the blitz in london. I eventually talk about ptsd, and i wind up talking about the current state of affairs in sort of the political discourse of the moment in this country and the divided nature of our really wonderful society, its really quite divided. I think across the board politically americans want us to be a unified country. I think were literally scaring ourselves by the divisiveness of the political rhetoric recently. If my book somehow urges people towards seeing us all as part of a common goal even though we have arguments, nothing could thrill me more. And i hope Something Like that happens. Host why do you close tribe with the phrase, im dead inside . Guest well, i start tribe with this story about hitchhiking across the country and this incredible act that this homeless man in gillette, wyoming, did for me of giving me his lunch and sort of taking responsibility for me. And at the end of the book, i talk about a story that i read in a book by an anthropologist named christopher, and he was referring to yet another anthropologist who had done field work with the cree indians in canada. And this woman, this anthropologist was out with an november minute, cant remember his name, and they were out in the bush, the wilderness on a hunting and trapping expedition. And they ran across two people that they didnt know, two other cree. They didnt know them, and these two men were out of food. And this anthropologist said her companion gave them almost everything that they had, that he had. And she asked him about it afterwards. And she said, you know, you dont know these guys, it means youre going to have to cut your hunting trip short. Why would you give them most of your food . And he said to not give them food, dead inside, it means youre dead inside. And i suddenly realized like that homeless guy in gillette, i mean, he was living down in a broken down car in gillette, wyoming, walking out three miles to a coal mine every day to see if they could use him for a shift. There was very little in his life that he had control over, but he could control whether he was dead inside or not. And in my mind, the one thing he refused to be was dead inside. And he saw a young man out on the highway, and he gave him his lunch because he was alive inside. It was one of the things he had control over, and he wasnt going to give that up. It was a very, very moving thing for me, and thats why in my book was that story about being dead inside. God forbid we all die inside. Host sylvia, indianapolis, indiana. Text message. How do we find peaceful projects for restoring or maintaining human solidarity and Community Belonging . Guest well, thats a great question. I mean, humans evolved in an environment of great danger and stress and hardship, and those hardships included war, included organized violence between human groups. And that violence, those hardships engendered enormous social solidarity, right . I mean, clearly, were the descendants of ancestors that figured out how to band together to survive, and were wired for that because those are the ancestors that survived. They were able to do that. So how do we have shes asking how do we have it both ways . How do we retain the benefits of a peaceful, modern society but not lose the social connectedness that violence and hardship and suffering engendered in our past that wired us for . I dont know. I think National Service. I think mandatory National Service would go a long way, frankly. Im not talking about the draft. The draft is a wartime measure that puts guns in peoples hands and sends them off to war. You can be against that or not. I understand the argument either way. National service is a different thing. As my father said, we were talking earlier, you dont owe your country nothing. And if you ask a room full of people, and ive done this, what do you owe your country, everyone gives you a blank look because theres no ready answer. Our nation does not provide a ready answer to that fundamental question, what do you owe your people . And National Service would actually give young people National Service with a military option, i think its sort of a tragedy that theres no way to serve your country without carrying a gun. National service with a military option would allow force allow young people to invest in their cup. I mean, invest in their country. Invest from their own lives. We psychologists know that when you sacrifice for something, it rises in value. When you put a year or two of your life into your nation, you value your nation more. And thats a good feeling. Its good for the nation, its good for us as individuals. And i think it actually could go a long way towards making this country despite the great economic and social, political divisions making this country feel like a united endeavor, like we have a common goal, a common ethos. Host did you ever consider joining the military . Guest not really. You know, i grew up during vietnam. The military at least in the society that i was, grew up in, was really discredited. Sort of morally, politically discredited. And unfairly, i should add, you know . I had a very limited perspective on it. But that was the environment i grew up in. And there were really no existential threats to this country enwas a young man. This was the 1980s, 1990s. We had a couple of brief military engagements, panama, granada, the gulf war one lasted 100 hours. I think had 9 11 happened sort of on my watch, you know, when i was 22, i absolutely would have certainly given it very, very serious thought. I think i probably would have joined. I mean, its a thought experiment. You know, obviously, i dont know for sure, but there were no good, you know, there were no good wars to fight when i was young. Thank god. Im very lucky that way. And so its hard for me to imagine my life otherwise. Host davids in tulsa. David, go ahead with your question or comment for author Sebastian Junger. Caller hi. Thank you for taking my call. Im from oklahoma, and we know a thing or two about terrorist attacks from 1995. And i will confirm that when that attack occurred, oklahoma in my lifetime has never been closer. Very, very republican state, welcomed president bill clinton in. He did Amazing Things for the state of oklahoma. As did our governor, frank keating. But many, many people just banded together to get through that attack which is kind of forgotten now with everything that happens. 168 deaths. My question to your guest is could such things happen in a positive sense such as a Group Getting together to fight poverty in city such as habitat for humanity and building a home for the poor, or ive even seen some of it with athletic teams and the loyalty years later that somebody who would not show up for a 20year School Anniversary would show up for an anniversary of their athletic team. And ill take the answer off the air. Host kind of talked about this earlier. Guest yeah. Thank you for that. Finish you know, our cities, i live in new york, you live in oklahoma city, our cities are united in this sort of tragic, tragic way that we both had catastrophic attacks upon us and that killed civilians, innocent people by the scores, by the hundreds, by thousands. And it does create this incredible unity. And, you know, can you get that in, as you said, in a positive way . I dont think, i dont think quite in the same way. I mean, humans are wired to survive really bad stuff, and when really good stuff happens, we dont kick into that kind of communal survival are mode. Survival mode. That doesnt mean that we dont get good things out of positive efforts, and i think there is i think you can produce a kind of, some kind of group unity by organizing to do positive things. Its just not quite as profound as during, you know, the tornado, the hurricane, the war, whatever it may be, the attack. Thats just how were wired. I dont think its the, i dont think its the end of world, but it is sort of important to acknowledge it. You know, i should say that 9 11 happened during a republican administration, and new york is thoroughly democratic. And we welcomed president bush, a man i did not vote for, but we welcomed him with open arms. I think thats a really common and, frankly wonderful human reaction during crises. It really transcends those boundaries. I did some research into an earthquake in italy in 1915, and one survivor wrote about how 96 of population was killed in a minute. And the survivors huddled around, and for a few days it was this weird sort of postapocket lippic utopia. There were no social classes, no rich, no poor, everyone banded together, totally egalitarian, and this one survivor wrote that the earthquake had produced what the law promises but cannot, in fact, deliver which is the equality of all men. I think theres a little bit of that in what you probably experienced and what we experienced here in new york. Host roger from San Francisco texts in to you, mr. Junger you posit that modern alienation is caused by the fact that people dont live in platoonsized groups. Do you see an ideal number, dunbars number of 150, for a tribe to maintain a shared group ethos . Guest well, i [laughter] this is a very wellinformed questioner. I write about dunbars number in my book war, and its an interesting phenomenon. He obviously is well informed. The group sizes that people throughout history and prehistory are likely to live in and still, are likely to function in are not randomly distributed. And theres, if you plot them as dunbar, a sociologist, did, you can see these sort of spikes. And the one speak where a very, very common human group is 1012 individuals, basically an extended family. Another very common human group is 30, 40, 50 people, basically a platoon. So you go squad, platoon and finally company is around 150200 people, Something Like that. So dunbar discovered these sort of common human groupings, and we seem to be wired to respond well emotionally, psychologically to groups of that size. The guys that i was with in afghanistan, their battalion which was, i dont know, 600 people, they didnt have much persal identification with the battalion. They were in a battalion, but they didnt connect you. Company, platoon, absolutely. Their squad was, like, the core of their family with incredibly strong bonds within squads. Host larry is in seven trail ya, washington, and youre on booktv, larry. Caller yes. Thanks for taking my call. Mr. Junger, i was too young to serve in world war ii but followed it daily, and i think if we look at the [inaudible] situation with those folks when there was existential war, every family you knew had a connection to the service or a gold star in the window. And today youve got, what, 1 of the people, and most of them dont even know a veteran. I was a corpsman, Navy Corpsman at the end of korea and dealt with Plastic Surgery in the burn units and also in the locked psychiatric wards and then ended up my last year and a half in the marine corps and saw the tennessee combat, saw the aftermath of combat. If theres no meaning to what youre doing, Victor Frankel who survived auschwitz said without meeting, you do not live. Without meaning, you do not live. So id like to get your idea on that and also address the manufacturers of war materials. We never see them coming down the production line, but we see thousands and thousands of them in the battlefield. And they have to come from somewhere, so who profits from war . Is that whos behind all of this . Because we hadnt had a war worth fighting since world war ii, but we sure bought a lot of material. Thank you very much. Host thats larry in centralia, washington. Guest thank you. Theres a lot of complex ideas there. Im not an expert about the financing of wars. My understanding is that the r d that happens duringeacetime is actually a lot more lucrative to arms manufacturers, boeing, places like that than the actual manufacturing of munitions. So i dont know if thats true. Thats what i heard. Its sort of an interesting idea. Bullets and bombs actually dont cost that much, and theres not much of a profit margin on them compared to the research and development that happens during times of peace. Its an interesting perspective. And, yeah, 1 serve, its less than 1 , actually. Thats true. Its a poignant number. I think it underscores that most of the country is not connected to the wars that were fighting. You know, a war tax to pay for our wars as we fight them might be a good might connect people, might engage them politically. The iraq and afghan wars were basically put on a huge credit card. I understand politically why an administration might want to do that. But, obviously, as youre pointing out, it might be a bad idea. The problem with the 1 number is that if you change that, say we want to have 5 of the population fighting, that means a massive, massive army. And probably one we cant afford. I mean, keep in the mind youre not just paying salaries while people are fighting during the year or two or three or four, five years, whatever, but there are g. I. Benefits, Health Benefits that continue on for the life of the serviceman or servicewoman. And the country just simply cannot afford to have a Standing Army thats that enormous. So, yeah, its 1 , but there really isnt a financial alternative to that. We have to find other ways of making the public engage with the experience of the 1 . I dont think we can afford to do it otherwise. Host you write about Weapons Systems in your book, war, and heres one thing you write each javelin round costs 80,000. And the idea that its fired by a guy who doesnt make that in a year at a guy who doesnt make that in a lifetime is somehow so outrageous, it almost makes the war seem winnable. Guest yeah. Thats a particularly cynical sentence. I think i was having a cynical morning when i wrote that. Yeah, you know, that wasnt me, you know, that wasnt me being, you know,en an antiwar activist, i was just pointing out this sort of irony. A very technologyheavy military that can focus a huge amount of firepower very, very accurately at a very specific area, but inevitably has a hard time engaging and affecting a broad society. And, of course, an insurgency, insurgency takes place within the society. And youre never going to win it with javelin missiles, however useful they may be in an actual fire fight. One of the i was in afghanistan in 1996. I was shot at by taliban gunners on the outshirt skirts of kabul in the summer of 1996 right before they swept in and took a kabul. Jalalabad as well. And i remember one of the people that i was with, a young guy who was my sort of translator, fixer, Young African guy, who was pashtun. He said im pashtun, and the taliban are mostly pashtun, and we hate the taliban. Were going to let them in because we are so tired of the corruption in the government of this society, and they promised to clean up corruption. The taliban rolled in, without much of a fight, because they were promising to clean up the corruption in this society. My dear friend, sarah shays, has written an amazing, an amazing book about the role of corruption in insurgencies and civil wars in which she found, what he found is that in the she babb in somalia and boca that rom in nigeria, isis, the taliban, the common theme in all of these religious insurgencies is the fight against corruption. And thats why they appeal to societies, as horrific and bloody as these movements are. And the irony, the irony when the u. S. Went into afghanistan was that we didnt go with enough soldiers, and we paid our way. We paid off warlords so we didnt have to fight them. We wound up even paying taliban commanders, paying them money so we wouldnt have to fight them. In the eyes of the afghan people, we just looked like another corrupt empire. And so thats what i mean, like, youre not going to if youre making that kind of massive mistake, youre not going to undo it with a javelin missile. Host and booktv has covered sarah chayes book. If you go to booktv. Org, you can. Watch you can watch that presentation online. Just type in her or name in the search function, and you can watch it online at your convenience. Guest i should say that zaire and i grew up together. I met her when i was 4. Were virtually brother or and sister. We used to go camping together when we were kids. Were like, were absolutely family. Shes an amazing, amazing woman. Host roberto, houston. Please go ahead. Caller yes. Peter and sebastian, im a retired history teacher, and im having a problem with this discussion and any other similar discussion which centers around, gee, isnt war horrible. Throughout Human History you find man is a warmaking creature. Now, its over, technically, over limited resources. But whether you go to ireland before it was invaded by england when it was by itself, there were tribes in ireland, they fought each other. Go to world war i. The war to end all wars. War was outlawed even. Internationally. We still have war. So its, its like dont want to say its in our dna, but thats what we are. So can we get past this isnt war horrible and go on beyond that . One more thing. Concerning nice, since, sebastian new york city, since, sebastian, youre from new york city. Ive been to new york city. And i really believe that 9 11 was horrible. But it did make new yorkers more humane to each other and, by the way, to the rest of the United States also. So silver lining, i dont know if thats the expression. One last thing concerning fighting over resources, and that has to do with the United States today. We are 5 of the world population, we consume 25 of the resources. Are we really, are we ready to lower our standards to share with the world the resources within the world . Thank you. Host all right, roberto, a lot on the table there. Guest yeah. I mean, actually, i mean, there was nothing in this conversation that i dont know when you tuned in, but there was nothing in this conversation that was counter to your original assertion. I mean, war is horrible. That thats selfevident. My book is about the strangely sitivemotional consequences of being in a wartime situation or in a Natural Disaster or any other kind of crisis for society. You know, as far as humanizing people in new york city, if i can defend my city for a moment, youre actually completely wrong. The suicide rate went down in new york city after 9 11. The Violent Crime rate went down in new york city. It wasnt a permanent effect, but it was very, very noticeable statistically. People treated each other better in the city for a while after that terrible tragedy. Its a very common human reaction to hardship. Host in the book war, mr. Junger, you write that war is so obviously evil and wrong that the idea that there could be anything good to it almost feels like a profanity. And yet throughout history men find themselves desperately missing what should have been the worst experience of their lives. Were you surprised at that finding . Guest i was surprised at the depth of it. I mean, i expected that i mean, these are young men that i was with. They clearly, theyd all were, you know, boys who played war when they were young. Theyd clearly grown up wanting to be soldiers, wanting to experience combat

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