all those pieces together. >> sorry, bub. i didn't mean to throw a ball to somebody wearing a baseball glove. my fault. >> but obviously, throwing a baseball well doesn't mean you're a man, right? but in the world of sports, we often connect masculinity to physical and mental toughness. vulnerability is weakness. >> national football league, this hurts me. >> so when nfl hall of famer randy moss got choked up talking about the racist emails of then las vegas raiders coach jon gruden, many took the opportunity to call randy moss soft. randy moss is one of the greatest nfl players of all time. if he can't cry, who can? >> we often look at athletes as machines. and we do not look at them as humans. we have a saying when people cry, we cry up. hold your head high when we cry. cry up. >> that's deep. >> yeah. >> darius payton is a senior