. i don't mean to minimize the pit. he is recognizably himself in shorter order than you would think after this happened, totally agree by the way he talks about that he talks about why his and he gives us a little bit of a window into why he's able to function. so let me play that for you. it's a shift the narrative of being victimized or making a mistake or anything else. i am refused to be haunted. by that memory that way. this is what i talked to my family about from all their perspectives. but you're horrifying. three. put upon them. bob, this is what's so interesting. he refuses to be haunted. i didn't know that was a choice. you know when we are in accidents when we're traumatized, we often are haunted. but he's making a choice not to be. but he clearly has been traumatized and it's something that he will carry with him for the rest of his