i met your mother" as roommates. reliving the happy moments. that's what made karlijn feel alive and that's what makes her present. that's what i feel right now. >> good show to watch as a group. i like that show. she was a champion rower, correct? tell us about her as an athlete. >> i can't speak to that one. katherine was the one who rode with her. >> was she good? >> she was phenomenal. that's what brought us together in the first place. this beautiful magical friendship. rowing started it all. she was a national junior rower from amsterdam and i was on the elite team from the united states. so our first bond was the intensity of rowing. how the body awareness and technique from the dutch was so different from the united states. she taught me a lot.