so they called me. i saw the number on my phone. i answered. i said hey mom. started screaming at me. how could you do this to us. we're not good enough for you. you don't like us as parents. you want to find other parents. i was trying to tell her that was never even a thought in my mind. i hear scuffling. my dad gets on the phone. he said "you're an ass hole." click. i was like what the -- it was like it -- the three of us were very angry at paul, and it made it really difficult to try to bridge that gap again for quite a while. i was all emotion at that point, and you know, i don't think it was fair looking back.