vegas? >> paul comes walking across the street with some woman on his arm, you know, and i just bust out laughing in the theater. the wife is like what the hell are you laughing at? i'm like, that's paul. >> 2004-2005, spring. we actually met online on a dating website. i remember seeing his picture and thinking, i'm going to get a date with that guy. he's good looking. man, he is cute. he probably won't go out with me but i'm going to get a date with this guy. >> tell them what you're doing. >> our second christmas together. 2007. >> he was so down to earth. just like the guy next door. sweet, kind, caring. obviously got a lot of attention. he was in acting and modeling. but he just seemed like he needed that steady, genuine attention that i don't think he really got from his jobs or from family. something was missing. he was looking for something. it was just -- he seemed like a