have this baby be responsible for you not living out your dream. >> that's what i'm saying. you are my dream. >> i have walked with you all these years to get to this place. you and i together. >> this is about just a couple trying to actually be in a marriage and make it work instead of what we always see on television. and then i felt a very strong, deep desire to not just have her be the sideline supporting wife. >> it looks to me like on your sojourn, tim, you missed two biology exams and what looks like a pretty important term paper in your english lit class. >> i don't know what a sojourn is. >> a sojourn is what's going to keep you back a year if you don't get your attitude together. that's what a sojourn is. the rest of it you can look up. >> "glee" was a really interesting show, because it was