as kathleen and the children slept upstairs, he was down stairs in the basement sleeping with 17-year-old stacey cales. >> we were living separate lives in the same house just for economics. >> i'm sure he can justify it that way now. like everything else when drew talks about kathleen, it is a very one sided story. >> a story that 17-year-old stacy cales believed. >> i am not real sure what he said to her to make it okay, but stacy was okay with that. she said that she liked him a lot. >> kathleen learned about the affair months later in october 2001 when she received an anonymous letter telling her about cales. >> she must have been devastated. beyond. beyond. >> when she confronted drew, doman said it got physical. >> she called me and said drew was hitting her and he threw her against the refrigerator.