cosby's stature and intelligence and life experience. but based on my own experience as a victim and from talking to hundreds of other victim of abuse of all races and ages and education levels, i feel like her situation has all the hallmarks of emotional abuse. in particular, a form of abuse that is known as gas lighting. and gas lighting is a term that was coined based on an alfred hitch hock psychological killer where a charismatic ed you cannive husband. in order to cover up his own very serious problems, blames his beautiful, intelligent wife and in fact, cunningly convinces her that it is all in her head. and then she becomes his staunchest defender. and obviously, there are a lot of parallels to the cosby situation. they were married when she was only 19. necessary so many ways, what she says, the man, the wonderful man that we all knew. but i suspect that there could