a lot of leeway onset and women aren't. >> it's the way in which we talk about this male actor is passionate. he's a method actor and this actress is just a crazy bitch who is difficult onset and i've heard that time and time again. that's been the language used and that is gendered. >> as ever, the story is more camp complicated than the versions we get and when she was happy with the way the scene was being interpreted and felt she was being listened to, she was delivering scenes of perfect comic timing. >> look, if you're interested in whether i'm married or not -- >> i'm not interested at all. >> i'm not. >> that's very interesting. >> i knew i had the final shot, there was a moment of never again. all i can tell you is if marlin was around today, i would be on my knees, please, let's do it