happened? >> i want to say on behalf of the lanza family, we are so sorry but please don't judge the rest of us because of one. what he did was wrong, was evil, and only his maker will judge him, not the rest of us. it's not our place to. as far as the families go, don't lose your faith because that's what will keep you going. >> i know this has been difficult for you marsha lanza, and i thank you for coming out and speaking publicly, the first member of the lanza family to do it. it's not easy to do. it's obviously pretty horrendous time for you and your family, too. not as horrendous as the poor families that lost their lives that day but i do appreciate you coming on and speaking to me. thank you. >> you're welcome. when we come back, a father whose 6-year-old son died at sandy hook joins me and pastor rick warren knows too well what it's like to deal with a family tragedy in the public eye. his message for the parents of sandy hook. [ male announcer ] introducing red lobster's seafood bakes.