with. humans have a strong desire to coalesce, particularly during times of stress around crime, clan, race. and whatever our religious preferences are. and politicians have a good way of exploiting that. and if we don't resist it, then we're going to have problems. and, by the way it's not just that us, them dynamic. it's not just around race. i would argue that in the united states, and i suspect in europe as, well that changing gender roles have fueled, it least as much as a backlash from the racial backlash. it's an enormous fear among men and those who, like the traditional structures and hierarchies and patriarchy's get very nervous when you have women suddenly being outspoken. and, again that they should