don't have another tomorrow. you know, you don't know who you're going to not see. you don't know if somebody's going to walk out that door and you're never going to see them again. and that's what all her friends are saying at school. they thought they had so much time with her, just like we did. we thought we had so much more time. and thank god i got to hug her and kiss her before she left. >> let's talk about all of this with a grief consultant and author of "the real rules of life." nice to see you. welcome. >> good to be with you, brooke. >> my goodness. when you think about seailor, at 7 years of age. you were old enough to know you were in a plane crash, your parents have died. how does she wrap her head around this? >> you know it's going to take time and it's going to take baby steps. and here's a kid who found her way through the woods in the dark. and that's going to continue. she's in a new normal with