bella. on occasion, i slip and say sweet heart or darling or honey. i do banter with people. i do tell jokes. some better than others. i am the same person in public as i am in private. you have seen me do it on tv through all my briefings and for 40 years before that. i try to put people at ease. i try to make them smile. i try to connect with them. and i try to show my appreciation and my friendship. i now understand that there are generational or cultural perspectives that frankly i hadn't fully appreciated. and i have learned from this. now, the state already has an advanced sexual harassment