a kurdish refugee seeking safety from war say he may never take his son to another match. he tells us, when my son realized the ebbs tent of what happened he told me, don't ever bring me to a game again. so, no, i don't think we can go. the blood can be washed away but the fear that this may happen again cannot. atika shubert, cnn, paris. >> maddening having to explain that to your children. >> yes. >> meanwhile, people coming together for a special sunday mass. this is the famed notre dame cathedral. they were there to reform the fallen. >> we'll have more from paris when we return. whatever you're doing, plan well and enjoy life...