and you want to do something to change things. what do you think needs to change? what do you believe can change? >> well, i think what can change is we need more help from you guys in the media. because you just lost someone in the fraternity. alison was one of your own. with the crews that i talked to and the other reporters that i've spoken with today, you know, they have all been shattered because they realize -- and they all have been -- it struck a chord because they realize that could have been them. so, you know, what can't happen is, you know, here's another tragedy. sandy hook, after sandy hook and the theater shootings, everybody thought, gosh, this is terrible, virginia tech, we've got to do something to keep people that