>> yes. >> here is what you guys should know. you guys think it is a big deal. basically this is like every weekend in louisiana, especially during football season. we either fry fish, we do a crab or crawfish boil or fish fry, and there's bands everywhere. >> we do this every weekend. we are just always having a party, having a good time, you know. that's how we enjoy our time here. >> so, mom, during the fall, like we would do this. we went to southern university which is an hbcu, southern university football games, it was like this. >> yes. >> we had the bands playing, the battle of bands. we'd tailgate in the parking lot. we would have crawfish or shrimp and we would drink. >> boiled corn and potatoes. >> and we would have a good time. >> i almost said the wrong word. a doggone good time. >> let me tell you a story about resilience and about life and