family for allowing, you know, their son to be buried in my jersey. to me, the honor goes way beyond life. that shows me that, you know, i'm on the right path. and so i just thought as a community leader, it was important to be there. i didn't have the words. i did know that we all needed to be together and so i showed up. >> being there and showing up really is everything in that case. >> yeah. >> you also write about your family now and your daughter zaya and being there when she was transitioning, opening up to the world. you've been public. everyone has been public about this. do you have concerns about her privacy? >> i do. that's one of the things about being in this -- as a public figure. privacy. the aspect of it. but at the end of the day, you have to live your life as well. and i preach that and definitely in my home. my wife and i, so when it comes to zaya, just about zaya feeling acceptance, zaya feeling loved,