mourning a hero, a marine turned popular teacher gunned down trying to save his students in a tragic school shooting. this morning, a community searching for answers why this happened. grave side grievance. after getting permission to erect it, a family is told to remove their daughter's tombstone shaped like their favorite cartoon character. the fight and the controversy, straight ahead. your "new day" starts right now. >> announcer: this is "new day" with chris cuomo, kate bolduan and michaela pereira. good morning. welcome back to "new day." it's tuesday, october 22nd. 7:00 in the east. new this morning, president obama owning up to the obvious, the embarrassing issues with the obama care website and trying to re-assure americans about the important thing, that it will get fixed. the question, how did the most internet savvy administration in history get this so wrong. plus, the bhok buster trial