spectrum themselves, and so the ability to see what is go g ing and the potential explosiveness may not be as good as somebody who is not. >> and let me ask you this. "the new york times" interviewed somebody named alex jefferson who worked with mrs. harper, ms. harper, and that personal lex jefferson said that this mother had said of her son, my son is a real big problem of mine. he has some psychological problem, and sometimes he takes his medication, and sometimes he doesn't, and that is where the big problem is when he doesn't take the medication. she also talked about online her son banging his head against the wall, and how this is her lifelong work. >> and previous signs of aggression, and signs of depression and as in being willing to take your own life and other people's in the process, and having great struggle that you deal with by being aggressive and blaming others, and in other words, if the mother is trying to tell