fingered his own brother, a rat. >> i finally got the call that it was okay now to call david, and i called him just as the news was breaking, and the television crews were showing up on his front lawn. >> she said, "is there you could do for us?" and i said, "the only thing you could have done is -- you failed to do" protect our confidentiality." i was really angry. i slammed down the phone. it felt like a trust had been violated. >> i ended up hopping on a plane and going up to new york. by the time i landed, media was everywhere, and they had already besieged david and linda's house. i didn't know what to do. >> you're just a neighbor coming by? >> yeah. >> the press was trying to get interviews. you know, this was such a private personal painful story for us.