a hurry. why is that? people can do it anonymously. when you're anonymous, there are no consequences. you know whenner thing are kind of civil? why is that? your face is attached and your name is there and suddenly there are consequences. when you drive down the road and somebody cuts you off. you give them the finger. there are no consequences. if you're walking down the street and somebody cut off wourg do the same thing? no, you're not. that's what's happening now. in civility all around, not just campuses but also social mead and what we're doing. >> it keeps us stuck in a 15-year-old mentality. the main thing to remember is when you start name calling, your point can't be heard. it makes it look like you already lost. nothing left except for name calling. >> as we can see, it is very hard for a lot of people. >> it happened with general petraeus who was yelled at going down the street as well. he fought two wars, man.