about our experiences, demon n izing words who we are, we're not women if we're trans women and trans men are not men and on and on and they will actually bring that into their everyday lives and we see high rates of violence. at least 38 trans and non-conforming folks have been murdered this year. we'll continue to see more pieces of legislation put forth that actually impacts young trans people. that's also the other thing, too, people get so fixated on the adjective of trans but we're human and i think dave chappelle did a sloppy job of speaking to our humanity. >> there is a part in there he talks about his friend and his friend said i'm not asking you to understand. i'm just asking you to listen and i'm telling you that i'm having this experience and that