families desperate to find the wreckage because it's believed that the majority of the passengers are there still strapped in their seat belts at the bottom of the java sea. >> so much to go through. anna coren live from surabaya, indonesia. thank you. >> too grim to bear. there were 138 adults on airasia flight 8501. 16 children and one infant. well now the loved ones they leave behind share a common agony. >> that's right. some of the families sat down with our gary tuchman to talk about their grief and share some memories of their loved ones. >> reporter: as most families wait for their loved ones to be found, these are the caskets of a mother and daughter two victims of airasia flight 8501. several days ago we talked with this brother and sister who were among those waiting. >> translator: my mother and then my sister and my brother-in-law and his whole