and he's having to deal with difficult questions, and i just wish he didn't have to deal with that at such a young age. on the first day of summer, ben thought he would be on the lake wake boarding. >> i went into the room and it was similar to the time he was four, but i knew he wasn't having a seizure because he was conscious and he was talking. >> his fingers were blue. by the time we got to the e.r., we learned there was an abscess on his tonsil. >> so we went into everything expecting it to be extremely routine. but it was during the surgery that ben experienced cardiac arrest. >> he finally got up to icu and he was unconscious and they had him on the a breathing machine. they warned us that when he woke up, the hope was he would be