profound limp and walked with a cane. >> reporter: and what did he tell his neighbor just days after her death? . he told me that she'd died of some kind of heart problem like the basketball player that just died over on the court. i asked him well martin how are you doing? i heard that you only have like six months to live. and he said something to the effect of, don't write me off yet. i'm still here now. >> reporter: in fact, mcneal was already introducing his mistress around town, saying she was the new nanny. >> at first it was very vague. and then we learned that she was the nanny. then eventually as everybody could tell that the relationship was more than that, as to whether or not they were getting married. >> jean cazarez joins me live from utah. he sounded so frantic on the 911 call. how did neighbors describe his mood when they arrived? >> reporter: they said he was frantic. they said he was instructive as all the neighbors tried to help with that cpr. they said though as he had his head buried on top of michelle's