understanding, and i think what is missing is we're not having cross generational cross cultural conversations with people that use the word and feel its sense of detachment or empowerment. we're looking down from privileged spaces often, not engaging them and becomes a class thing. so when the oprah's of the world or bill cosbys of the world look down on a culture and say you shouldn't ever shouldn't use that word, it's very difficult to take a word out of popular culture. it's very difficult to take a word out of the imagination of people. what we do have to do is engage them and understand -- let them understand the context and then see what they do with it. but to just say that i read it in huck fin or that i read it in an educated or social space that the kids that use it or the generation that brought it back into public use aren't a part of that, we need to engage them, and this is -- this word has