but my husband, alec, is so wonderful. he knew i had a special birthday coming up, so i got married on my birthday. i should make clear for people who have seen the early part of this interview, you are now, your relationship with your father is back on track. you are talking to him again. you had 15 years where you didn't speak to him. but today you are speaking and he must be extremely proud of you. well, he tells everyone he's proud. you know african fathers, he would never tell me but i know he is. he tells my friends, siblings, etc. let me ask you some quickâfire questions. maximum ten words, minimum one. this is always the best bit. what was the first record you ever bought? whitney houston. who is your greatest hero, living or dead? nelson mandela. who is yourfavourite model? laughs. i can't answer that one. what is the biggest fashion faux pas to avoid?