hearing us tell each other everything allowed other dads to feel like they can tell people what they are going through. it is rough and it is awful, but, actually, that thing you are really scared about is going to be all right. tulip mazumdar, bbc news, essex. there's more about the dad still standing podcast, and the football team, on the bbc website. next week, we'll be focusing on the impact of miscarriage on women's mental health, and how technology is being trialled as one way of helping. the inquest into the death of the footballer emiliano sala has begun at bournemouth coroner's court. emiliano sala died in a plane crash in the english channel injanuary 2019, after being bought by cardiff city from nantes in a £15 million transfer deal. the footballer�*s brother, dario sala, has flown over from argentina to be at the inquest.