Now, is kind of seen as a middle aged womans problem. I think young people, including myself, are not taken seriously. She managed to get out of the controlling relationship, but for others, the consequences can be deadly. In wiltshire, carole goulds i7 year old daughter ellie was murdered by her ex boyfriend from school. Hi. Ellies dad, matt, found her. Shed been stabbed 13 times in the neck. It happened in this kitchen . I block it from my mind. I think because i didnt find ellie, i can block that and separate that and remember the happy times that we had here as a family. But its very, very hard for matt, because he has flashbacks about finding her. You are mentally damaged by that. This was a book, i think, that was left at the school. Thomas griffiths was jailed for murder. Two years after killing ellie, A Domestic Homicide Review found he displayed controlling and coercive behaviour, including educational sabotage. She wanted to focus on her studies because she had some important exams coming up, and he was making herfeel bad about that, saying, does it not make you feel bad that were not seeing each other after school . And i wish now i had known more about coercive controlling behaviours and what it could lead to. Coercive control was made illegal in england and wales in 2015. Since then, more than a fifth of cases have been from alleged victims between the ages of 11 and 24. The number of suspects aged under 25 has been rising year on year, but only 5 of those cases resulted in a charge. More than a third of cases fall through because of a lack of evidence. Campaigners say with so much communication happening between young people on their phones, more prosecutions should be taking place. But police insist its not that simple. If perpetrators have locked down and encrypted their accounts, that can be incredibly complex. If a phone is locked, it can take us up to two years to get into that evidence. But im not excusing mistakes of the past and im certainly not suggesting we dont have a lot more to do now. Some say that an additional barrier for the police are existing laws, which fail to recognise that under 16s can be victims of Domestic Abuse. Children should be recognised in their Domestic Abuse legislation, including peer on peer relationships. If nothing else, its because they are different. They disclose differently, they need different support. Amending the law is one solution. The other is more education. The government says compulsory relationships and Sex Education classes are taught to students under 16 in england, but the curriculum is being reviewed this autumn. Faustine thinks 16 to 18 year olds need to be included. Do you guys know what coercive control is . Not telling someone what to do but, like, saying otherthings so they do it by themselves. Shes put together a Team Delivering sessions on coercive control in sixth forms and colleges. Currently, these classes are optional, but shes calling on the government to make them compulsory. If we want young people to have the best, brightest start to their lives, we need to equip them with all these skills. Otherwise, were just setting young people up for complete failure. Thank you. Rahil sheikh, bbc news. Fashion giant h m has become the latest retailer to charge those who return items theyve bought online. Customers now must pay £1. 99 to Return Parcels either in store or online, with the cost taken from their refund. However, returns are still free for h m members. Rival retailers such as zara and next already charge for returns of items bought on their websites. Live now tojonathan de mello, who is a retail analyst. Why this push to charge customers for returns . Good afternoon. It is really simple from that perspective in that they are losing money on Processing Returns online. Like most retailers do. So they have to charge because people tend to buy seven products and return six, so they make very little money on that, so they really have to start charging in order to make any money from this. So is there a risk make any money from this. So is there a risk this make any money from this. So is there a risk this will make any money from this. So is there a risk this will turn make any money from this. So is there a risk this will turn away i there a risk this will turn away customers . It there a risk this will turn away customers . Customers . It is potentially ossible customers . It is potentially possible some customers . It is potentially possible some customers i customers . It is potentially i possible some customers may customers . 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Customers should always have a a right to return it . Customers should always have a right a right to return it . Customers should always have a right to l a right to return it . Customers should always have a right to return a product. Is bought online, do customers still have a right. They dont have to pay the online processing charge, it is a good way of encouraging people to high streets to return in store. The rights of customers should not be impinged in any sense. H0 . . . Rights of customers should not be impinged in any sense. Rights of customers should not be impinged in any sense. How is h m Doinu Impinged in any sense. How is h m doing overall. Impinged in any sense. How is h m doing overall, how impinged in any sense. How is h m doing overall, how would impinged in any sense. How is h m doing overall, how would the impinged in any sense. How is h m doing overall, how would the high l doing overall, how would the high street businesses do compare to online in the uk . The street businesses do compare to online in the uk . Street businesses do compare to online in the uk . The high street business is online in the uk . The high street business is doing online in the uk . The high street business is doing pretty online in the uk . The high street business is doing pretty well, online in the uk . The high streetl business is doing pretty well, they are expanding and they have multiple formats, notjust the h m format, but other stories. They have lots of different formats and they are doing well in that sense. Online has been a growth area as well so they are doing well as a business. But like any retailer, they need to be mindful of the cost of doing things online. So this really comes as no shock they will return they will charge for returns at this point. fix, charge for returns at this point. A retail analyst, jonathan de mello, thank you. Youll have seen missing posters before, but youve probably never seen one aimed at tracking down a lost lego man. Ten year old jack decided to act after losing a tiny figure he made to look like him on the walk to school. To jacks delight, his reward poster worked after his mum shared a photo of it on social media. Theyve been speaking to ian haslam. Lost. Has anyone seen this lego man . Light brown quiff with matching eyebrows, hawaiian shirt, blue with palm trees, an Orange Stripe on the bottom. Dark green pants. Hes very special to me. Reward, £2. With that, the hunt forjack� s beloved lego man was under way. Hed only had it for a couple of weeks, after a visit to Legoland Discovery Centre in the school holidays. I went to show my friend a figure and then, when i realised it wasnt there, i was really sad. I honestly didnt think anyone would be that bothered about my poster, seeing as itsjust a lego man and i lost it on the way to school, and now the news are interviewing me. What did you think when jack made this poster . Ijust thought it was adorable, and it hurt my heart a little bit when he said hes very special to me and reward, £2. I thought, oh, bless him he must have really loved it. At which point, lorna decided to put the photo on social media, and jacks Lego Man Quickly became infamous across cumbria. I thought it was a needle in a haystack. There was no way that people would find it. But, yeah, lots of my friends shared it. I ended up with 154 shares, i think, on facebook. So, yeah, yeah. It went big. It did. The person who actually did find it was somebody that we knew and she used to go to his school, so. And shed seen it on social media . Her mum had seen it, and the next morning, her mum messaged me. But i already did know the lady, so it was funny. Yeah. Wow. So it worked. Your plan worked. Yeah, it did. With that came the promise of a cash payout. Now, on your wanted poster, you offered £2 as a reward for anyone who found it. Yeah. It was found. Did you part company with that £2 . The person who found it dropped it off at nursery, so. Where your mum works . Yeah. My mum didnt have any money on her, so she just gave her a box of chocolates instead. And hes got this message for them. Thank you very much forfinding my lego man. Im really happy that you found it because i didnt think anyone would find it. Well, miracles do happen, jack. Ian haslam, bbc news. Jack is reunited with his lego man. Now its time for a look at the weather with chris fawkes. Hello. Our weather is going to stay pretty wet and windy often this week and certainly the next couple of days dominated by this area of low pressure, which actually contains the remnants of an old hurricane, hurricane lee. Although the weather is going to be wet today, the majority of the rain will actually be falling across the high ground, so the hills across the west, thats where its going to be really wet, but across central and eastern areas of the country, although you could see a few spots of rain this afternoon, it really wont amount to very much. We could see, occasionally, some brighter spells getting through across parts of eastern england, maybe parts of the south west and maybe also for northern scotland. Otherwise, it stays pretty cloudy and we will continue to see some strong gusts of wind, particularly around some of the welsh and english coasts. Overnight, the winds will pick up in northern ireland, a band of rain working through here. It becomes quite wet and windy, actually, for most of us. This time, the Heavy Rain Notjust confined to the high ground, it will become pretty extensive. But we are looking at a very mild night, with temperatures staying up to 15 or 16 degrees for some of us. Tomorrow, strong winds, particularly across Western Areas of wales where, through the irish sea, gusts could reach around 60mph to 70mph. As this squally band of rain extends eastwards, inland gusts reaching a good 40mph or 50mph Strong Enough to bring down some tree branches, so we could see some localised disruption. Its a similar story too for scotland and northern ireland. Windy across inland areas, but the strongest winds affecting the western coast and hills, where 60mph to 70mph gusts are possible and, again, could bring some localised disruption. Our temperatures still on the mild side for the time of year and, as the rain stops, the winds will drop very, very quickly, so you will notice when that weather front pushes through. Now, by thursday, the same area of low pressure is to the north of scotland. Weve still got some strong winds affecting the north west of the country, with some heavy outbreaks of rain here, but some heavy showers quite widely affecting england and wales. Some of those are likely to be thundery at times. There is little overall difference in the weather picture into friday. Again, its still very windy across the north west, with gales here. Plenty of showers around, especially across north Western Areas. Some of those showers could have some hail and thunder mixed in. Temperatures just edging down a few degrees. What about the weekends Weather Prospects . Well, saturday is probably a drier and brighter day for many of us, but it looks like it could turn quite wet and windy again for sunday. Live from london, this is bbc news. Birmingham city council is brief intervention from the government after effectively declaring yourself bankrupt. Its thought commissioners could be sent in to run the authority. We are expecting a statement in the commons imminently about this. Lets go live to the commons now where the minister for Veterans Affairs is giving an update on afghan resettlement. Can i start b auttin on afghan resettlement. Can i start by putting on on afghan resettlement. Can i start by putting on record on afghan resettlement. Can i start by putting on record my on afghan resettlement. Can i start by putting on record my thanks on afghan resettlement. Can i start by putting on record my thanks to l by putting on record my thanks to the Immigration Minister who after 18 months of begging by Me And My Team finally was persuaded to help me bring five british children and their mother to safety in the uk in june. That was after the father who had served the previous Afghan Government was brutally assassinated. His much younger sister has been left behind. She grew up, she is an add to the children but grew up as a sibling because she is much younger, she is alone with no male relatives in hiding in fear of her life because she is also a target. Given the ministers repeated commitments to honouring his statements but honouring his statements but honouring commitments of those left behind, this woman has a uk sponsor, she has a job offer and the homes come to. Will he meet with me to discuss her case . If come to. Will he meet with me to discuss her case . Come to. Will he meet with me to discuss her case . If my honourable friend sends discuss her case . If my honourable friend sends me discuss her case . If my honourable friend sends me the discuss her case . If my honourable friend sends me the details discuss her case . If my honourable friend sends me the details i discuss her case . If my honourable friend sends me the details i am i friend sends me the details i am more than happy to look at it. I recognised there are these cases. We were dealing with an individual over the summer who was known