Lanes $1.00 and $2.00 remain closed the north Barnes and Ling 3 South Bend also remains closed for him ever since it appears in Leicestershire one on the M one northbound is closed due to a breakdown just after junction 21 near Leicester and in Staffordshire the 50 has been closed in both directions between the mirror tunnel interchange and Moore Park following a serious accident that's the latest I'm calling Mason. Night night Graham Torrington. Yes programme here we all together then for a Monday night. What advice do you give to others what they come to you full and then later he had 3 strokes people the age of 35 and now he's determined to live life. And his dreams tell the story coming up after 11 stories music night late night claim to maintain on B.B.C. Made me understand. Let's begin with the 17 again. As. Loud. As. You. Me and take you out. It's going to happen Monday for major banks. And. Pasts. That's always good feelings no regrets having so happy tonight. From 8 to. 12 for the mystery boy student last week. He goes. Very low when the farm. Was. Loud. Loud. Loud. Was strong. Going to. A . Few a few a When applied September of trying to laugh 11 guest tonight truly strikes he was just 35 years old and the last stroke was only 16 months ago Sydney was a fits and healthy semi professional footballer when telly a shooting pain in his head could never imagined that he was having a stroke by the 3rd time he knew what the pain felt like Alex maybe realize what really matters to him and now he's living his dream that's tele story coming up after 11 o'clock tonight I missed that William our songs on the show this evening all these head of warm as chimera quite. Honest it's. Also the way Ed Sheeran. With. The love. Coming soon the monkeys. Just a little taste of a little tazer summer songs coming up ahead of want to collapse nights every good reason to stick around for the next swell up to 3 hours you'll do that money of course you will let's start tonight's with advice what advice to others come to you for we all have friends that come to us for some comedy advice even if that are Listen Africans and family often want reassurance and guidance and they're doing the right thing so what do they come to you for what are you the financing of knowledge for and maybe a great cook who helps everyone with their recipes or maybe you're the one with the relationships you know the relationship experts. I keeps your mates on the straight and narrow Oh it's could be you or everyone that comes to you who are preparing for a new job. What advice to others come to you for now you can email me. On a text. Message with cool Graham now only 201 to 188 A.B.C. Radio Stoke. Which. Is. Parents who want to. Ask what song play songs coming out very soon got some from Emma Bunton and I write songs here from Joe Jackson and the sugar bites on the way very soon as well what advice to others come to you for your expertise cooking traveling relationships or interviews. You know even if they don't really listen what sort of things to your friends and family contacts you for help on. You the a fountain of knowledge or maybe just that. Friendly ear there to listen to maybe the things they're going through are you that friend that helps your mates get through tough times or where to be on the phone you know phone a friend that helps you or them when a 1000000 but you want to be somebodies friend on I'm now on the set I'm a celebrity and well maybe I'm a celebrity but no who wants to will win a millionaire would you want to be a friend to help them win a 1000000 and what things do you like to give advice on even if no one asks Now I've been on the radio for many years talking predominately about relationships so when I'm out in the pub my friends tend to stop bending my ear about relationships and what would you do Graham. Here. So. That's kind of dumb for many years on the radio but do I want to actually. Do that sort of stuff when I'm down the pub Maybe maybe not but that's what they tend to come to me for they start to ask me for relationship advice and you know just like I would say on the radio listen this is what I think I'm not saying it's the best thing to do but if you're asking my advice this is what I would do but you have to make your own mind up exactly how you get OK So that's sort of advice I double at what about you what advice do others come to you for what is your expertise. Involved right now. Tax G.T. And your message to any one triple 3 it's just kind of message right see ya privacy notice the B B C K solution oh cool radio privacy. B.B.C. Radio Stoke. On the way very quiet the show. Joe Jackson coming up in a few moments time as well was. Advice to others come to you for what your expertise is it relationships is it's cooking travelling gardening. Interviews or just general knowledge I need to fix this can you help me please. Get well now you can email me G. To B.B.C. Doco dot U.K. From the text a tone triple 3 style your message with a G T and I'll pray is round you tell around us hello grammar where I'm good you self yeah good good you have a nice weekend I had a lovely weekend which finished day with my campus need some Otay so I was well happy that's what. You know I had this conversation couple of weeks ago. Not just about it so I said before I start. You know you said would you give advice to anybody about combat and about I wouldn't ask for a rise in weeks ago I got stopped talking to people and everybody had a chuckle over that I remember I don't remember yes that was one of the reasons OK you talking to somebody advice is stupid and what happens if you make yourself angry because you never listen to your so I've made a resolution that. I will give advice when I'm asked otherwise if you measure it in I was clearly keep out of that everybody's business but you know I mean you know I and that conversation was speaking. That we make good use of we're good at giving advice but whoever listens to us when we need advice so we can get into trouble but generally I can think outside the box and find a solution to people's problems because what they do. They start off thinking yes I'm John Rocker So this out myself to. Once it got themselves into a pickle when they meet other media or a fixer right and I can be both I mean I'm not and I'm right all the time I'm not trying to act above most I think what he's trying to say if somebody a different perspective on what they're going through yes that's a I mean I was in the pub yesterday afternoon and I was talking to someone I helped him out of the last 33 and a half years I've been a child for him to cry on. And he said he was sitting with some of the people on Saturday night his relatives and said look you know Randy you really do wonder if they might see him. What you mean he says the sign was. All you got to him through the last 3 and a half years through a very complex problem and sometimes all you could be able to do release interview the person you know and then to come out of that situation to look into the situation. How would you give this a boy that you're looking for yourself. As I absolutely want to become Do you think you get the person with the problem out of the problem and came to look into the problem and give him your side of the perspective on the delusion and I find it works well I think what you're trying to say and if I put this more than one in a nutshell and it's what I've done the radio for many many years you know people say oh you're a license to expert No I'm not I just get people to talk about what they're going through and we're talking about predominately relationships and ups and downs in life that's what United talk about moment. What I would do is sides get them to tell their story and get them to think about where they are and what they're going to do most people know what they want to do he's just a bit of reassurance for them to go and do it now I've never ever been on the radio for 35 years I've never said I think you should do this I would always say. Hey some of these think about and then you have to make your own mind up where the you're going to follow that thoughts or not either makes them you know the mind your mind up not may. I think sometimes Graham what you can do is in your morning make up a fictitious kind of similarity problem or. Fictitious person this is how they sell what you don't even plan to go thought into their mind which you know is going to help and so you know actually just saying. I agree with you not saying do this I say to people Do you know person I have the same problem is you and here's what he actually worked for him and then this person who's got the problem starts thinking about it and I and then I find that he helps them. Most of the time or sometimes even immediately. And the one person doesn't want to listen to the other person. If you've got one of the stupid people on one side. Then you can bang your head against the wall you're not going to be out help them on another issue here right now are you the sort of dad that if your kids came to you said Dad how do I fix this I'm talking about I don't know. A piece of machinery a lawnmower or something like that would you know what to do and could you help him I can trigger. The other thing is I have to tell him how to how do I fix my. How do I fix money found that we would be out hand out things yeah like to change your tire to trying to align the car does that mean about the fixity you know not the new T.V.'s but an economist with us for our block a washing machine that sometimes you just need to me about the need they don't know nothing but in our back technology that's all. Thank you. So what advice do others come to you for what your expertise all you somebody that is good at fixing stuff come up so good about you that relationships and talking about general things fix them can you do that head them in the right direction home playing. The old 12180 a suit maybe seemed maybe instead. Of See. Jackson stepping out right trying to do some Smith with no money coming up and I am sure the banks coming up and feeling strong as well what your expertise use of funds to others compete for cooking traveling relationships interviews things get involved I can email me G T A B.B.C. 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Fantastic or how fantastic Will Tony use or are people with motors next time money some avoid a voice of his or motors or come to you so what advice do others come to you for what your expertise get involved now you can email me G.T. Or B.B.C. Doco or to cave in a text 803 Start your message with G.T. . Street Police my 12 it's still this one and we know it's female now but who is in any audio. I need you to get it this week I'll explain why in a moment but who is there c'mon you need to get it this way please. OK if you've been waiting all weekend Tonight's the night I'll tell you it's not as we know it's a female of now crossed all the miles off the list so these are the wrong females Kate Bush Katie Hopkins lady sci fi Ripley Claudia Winkleman Dawn French Emma Thompson Elizabeth Taylor to reason may Sarah Cox Suzi Quatro Geri Halliwell Michelle Obama Carol Malone Dolly Parton Sandra Bullock Toya Wilcox. 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Who is it on the phone please who's this. Way Tom good 12188 take the A.B.C. Radio stage. Sugar Babes round round on Lane Ikram Torrington coming up very soon the Honestly Brothers Sam Smith and Norman day at a moments away from chimera quiet as well what are you good at fixing or you Mr or Mrs or Mrs Fix what advice to others come to you for we all have friends that come to us for some kind of advice even if they don't listen you know our friends and family often want reassurance or guidance of the doing the right thing so what do they come to you for maybe some more practical stuff fixing stuff I don't know gardening tips but a cookery advice you great cook who helps others maybe with a better cook or maybe it's that good old relationship stuff or maybe something else may be they want advice on jumps job interviews what advice to others come to you for what your expertise again volved Now you can email me G.T. Or B.B.C. Doco Dr Kay for text 8 or triple 3 Start your message with G.T. Hi Graham I don't think people come to me needing advice about anything specific but people do often say to me I can't see any workable options for the situation but I mean I don't ever give advice so I'm bemused when people think or thank me for any advice I just let the conversation flowed naturally asked listening attentively and they found the own way there I don't give advice on principle as I dislike being given it I find it muggles models models Graham model Hans-Peter not models up Eva bosses Angie and I grew with her as well as a set around you a few moments ago Generally when people have things they have to work out they know the answer they know what they want to do they just want to sounding board on their edges it could be anyone but they're just talking at you and while they're talking are you they're working it out in their own mind and you go Well I think you've made your own mind upon it haven't you. reassurance what about year what advice to others come to you for or with graham now 101 to one b.b.c. Radio show hosts Seems to me. How much. You. Should feel. We. Can be. Transmitted. From. We've. We've. Broken. Carmi Isley Brothers Sam Smith with normally coming up in a few moments time as well later after 11 guests had 3 strokes he's just 35 years old and the last stroke was only 16 months ago a fit and seemingly healthy semi professional footballer when telly got a shooting pain in the head he could never have imagined that he was actually having a stroke by the 3rd time he knew what the pain felt like and it's made him realize what really matters to him and now he's living his dream that's tell the story coming about 11 domiciliary. Street Police night 12 then and it's still this one who is. Your struggling we're all struggling we're all getting bored of it. Who is it any idea. 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So playing up to news celeb no prizes just funny to get your answer in by 11 means you've got 12 minutes to get through now the only way I could take an answer is on the phone to not text or not email do not post my Facebook page where you can call and when you call we can manage the 1st 10 callers through with a different name and. I'm not here next week on hold chasing a bit son next week so it needs to go by Thursday night please because we don't want to hang it over whilst I'm not here next week so you need to get these by Thursday. Idealy tonight on the phone plays his yeah I do cool Graham now only 80121888 B.C. My instinct. a good cause. Sam Smith normally dancing with a stranger it's light not Graham trying to and what it finds to others come to you for I'm carry with technology All right each with technology but. When my laptop goes wrong Manning cram can't manage I will sit there for hours just look you know and trying this trying that note scam out of us when only to and of course most often as well when I made that updating or when I walk in update OK I can do that but the some some time stuff you need to look at on the smart one. That's when Alex my nephew comes in on the night night Graeme to me on B.B.C. Radio Star. For the world. Thanks. So much for voice we are. Number. Playing though up to the music. Stores that Rufus Tropico nobody. Yes. Connectionist claimant Shoukry shifts should stand a chance on shantytowns Creek Trail style. To be seniors 11 I'm more Alderson The government says it secured what it calls legally binding changes to the Bronx it deal ahead of a planned vote by M.P.'s tomorrow tourism has been stressed but for talks with E.U. Leaders about the details of the agreement she's been seeking additional assurances about the Irish Bank stop the measure to prevent the return of border controls between Northern Ireland and the Republic the U.K. Is due to leave the European Union in 18 days time speaking in the House of Commons area tonight the Cabinet Office minister David Livingstone updated M.P.'s on the talks this evening in.