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Girls learn how to be not rude how not to be rude to a man as in manage. To . Bring. It was. Cute. Well. Talked about rude behavior in the last hour I've had some extraordinary contributions but our next guy just going to be on how not to be rude Ellie Matthews is the curator broads with whole She's got some tips on how the posh families that once upon a time live there much of could to selves Ellie thanks very much for joining us this afternoon how can you help us What do you know about what good manners are broads worth while drop her if a Victorian house it will turn 18 like on in the late Victorian age they were more . Manual polite but the families would read what kind of. How to Treat I guess and how to treat each other I'm very complaisant you're a meal when you get the thing things like that can you share some of those hints those etiquette hints that will make his behave better. Yes of course what I say you should burst your teeth after every meal. Not just twice a day but all these days don't interrupt people when they're talking listen very carefully and be deferent through deference to your 3 periods and respect to your inferior is what they say and don't blow on your soup it's too hot. And just wait until it's cool enough to eat really don't put large pieces the food in your mouth when eating but pretty up into smaller pieces don't everything don't eat everything that's on your plate that's considered a sign of wrongness if you don't leave anything you should mention saying. You should leave something yes you shouldn't fit you shouldn't feel that you have to finish everything on your plate and it's confident it was considered polite in the Victorian era just to leave a little bit less paper. Don't put your knife in your mouth after pain a visit to family or friends write a thank you letter even if you get home they're actually really similar things that we do today being polite right all the really that you know about you think good heavens above what was it thinking about that. Well things like the things that we do automatically like blowing on your seat because it's too hot that was considered very rude because it would show that the chef has brought it in at the correct temp . You just wait just wait until it's a nice temperature for you to eat at how do you think the people in the world and the people brought to a note as you would blog use it would you. Yes you would you want these days not only not considered rude to blow and you see these days can you just differentiate between the 2 things you mentioned you have to show deference to your superiors and respect your inferiors Yes So different do you feel superior so knowing it's all about knowing your social place within society and knowing who to tip your hat to which formal address to give to people and being very different towards them but also being polite and respectful to value to you know not in as good a social standing if you sell Raj to give you any clues what that might mean in terms of language we use we call my dear I don't know what just shows how to address our servants. Address the servants of the family depending on which hierarchy which place within the hierarchy does it kind of the highest servant you might call by that name but the lower servant you might not necessarily name but within the family it would certainly come to light because we know the majority of the serpent I was certain says the family members you wouldn't necessarily get to speak to. Was a difference have you spoke to difference in the way in which the upper classes out there are brought to us were treating men and women the different genders as it were. Well the servant that brought their very very clearly separated into kind of the male servants and the female servants of the male servants eat the book let the female servants rent meet the housekeeper and they were kept relatively separate so they in fact remains they clapped on different floors at the house or things like that so they kept them kept in sekret but also in terms of kind of showing your status in society to. Actual servants that you had 2 very important it was considered very very good if you could actually get a French chef was 8 X. If you could hire in a French chef and show you East you can't be certain ing. And you could get all of the latest recipes and at broad question I did hire in a chef for the silver wedding celebration to 910 but the cook at progress didn't like it because she didn't like the puttings that the French chef was trying to teach her heart and I. Did she tell him off in a rude word. Play They were lovely his early guy didn't in the guides that you look to good men as an educator but as it were the upper class if we were a part class we didn't want to be rude how we should conduct our love lives in the kind of behavior we should have in that respect. When it's very it's very similar to be very polite and to be very sensitive and I did a lot of things by writing letters thank you to no cards and things like that and all to do with the different sort of etiquette that you have when leaving calling cards when you visit a house and whether you leave a calling card whether you're then allowed to progress into the house to speak to the family and things like that right what about all interlinked will it shelves extraordinary what about the the way if we were going to be well managed never rule what about the rules about what we wear at the end it kind of clues about that. Well in terms of what we wear or what at least the Victorians would wear and they're very specific dress codes certain occasions and you would always change your dinner Green always change into a nice evening dress and if you're a man you'd always change into your nice white collar and you and your black even suit and things like that but it also extends further into making sure that the servant change for dinner as well particularly the female servants you see them in the light colored aprons and things like that during the day but always in the evening they change to the very end you will have seen it on television and films and things like that that black uniform little white apron that we're familiar with . They're having having the amount of servants and getting your read that well show your data right and give us one more trip short if ever we go back in time to browse with all we behave as well as we possibly could be and wouldn't be rude you've been brilliant give us another clue as to how we should behave. If you are a mom or get yourself a valet and valet and if you're a woman and get you a lady's maid who will look after you and basically make sure that your and your pretty clean night show that you're keeping up a parent for a man your values your personal servant where he would. Dress you could shave you your cry would polish your shoes. Iron your handkerchief and things like that or you would have to do it yourself get someone else to do it for you and then you know when you step outside you're the best you can be seen in society thank you and how should I just as valid of mine I mean you'd call him and me I depend on the familiarity of your relationship would not be missed and or sometimes even the same if you're very very familiar with happy taste Thank you ever so much for joining us brilliant thank you so much we have tried not to be rude and that's how they were rude once upon a time have brought to a whole lot about who's there she's curator of the stuff we're talking about rudeness today or how not to be rude in that case in a moment I think when I look at some rude postcards. Say. About rudeness without a bit of rudeness from the program. Look because I'm going to be talking in a moment to a bloke who wrote a book about. We'll be hearing about that and you can still join me. By ringing. A text and you can share with me. When. He thought. What I want to hear. It's an Easter weekend of. The trip to the B.B.C. a South Yorkshire show. This is B.B.C. Radio Shack. Past 2 on B.B.C. Radio News it gets dark outside and on this program today well this is. Inspired by the story of that French waiter. For being rude and he's only defense was that he was just being French We stretched for the program think it. Might be considered rude likely. They could be a bit rude to me Marcus is the author of all visual cheapos cals the Bamford collection and he joins me now Marcus the Bamford collection can you explain that well Pam 1st that was is I should say the say the most prolific the leading publisher of sorcery postcards and they were based in home for us. Is not too far from unique date it is not on a snowy day like this you can probably do a legacy that was a story behind them and how did they get involved in Seaside postcards Well it's quite a long story but I'll try to try to abridge it for you bam bam 1st began as a photography business in home in 870 and then diversified into making magic lantern slides and they became the biggest manufacturer of magic lantern slides in the world and then in 1906 I started making films obviously in the silent era and then they diversified again at the turn of the century into making postcards. Because the postcard as we know it was introduced in 1000 no to this idea where you could actually write to make someone put the address on the same side and stamp it's actually come out and say there was a huge boom in postcards of the turn of the century and it's continued really into the into the Great War. Bamford produced sentimental postcards song postcard songs of poems on them and that sort of thing. But after the after the 1918 the market for sentimental postcards declined to a waiting very last initial rudeness today and so basically yes and so in a bid to keep the business alive they decided to make just to decrease the amount of sentimental postcard to making itself make them increasingly humorous source see so that's in short that's how it have touched brilliant did they have a whole staff of people making rude jokes and then she says in narrowing Well I think. I didn't really. Given that they were making so she Postcards from the 920 S. Right through to well really the 1980 S. There were only 4 little 4 principal artists in what we might consider to be Bamford's golden age I mean the original artist was chuck wood Douglas Tempest and and it's estimated that he produced around $10000.00 that's incredibly the main artist which I could on all types and he was there for 6 to over 60 years. Philip Taylor who was no relation he was a German he was 16 years old I know it was Brian Fitzpatrick and it was his corps for artists who were responsible for decades and decades and decades Social see how do we manage the whole singing in the Belfort collection of his every day doing the daily job making absolutely absolutely they were there was there were a clock on. The studio and home and it was their job to basically think up jokes and illustrate this I did for decades. I could think of worse ways to make. Did they get and when was kind of reduced is well the root is a subjective word isn't that really I mean it's like. People at the time consider them some people at the time considered them to be rude and they were a little scandalous and in fact censorship committees created in a number of seaside towns around the country Blackpool the Isle of Wight Cleethorpes had won South saying that such a because some people considered them rude I would argue that they're not the rudeness is actually in the eyes of. The cause but the constant selves there's nothing explicit about them at all in fact you could show the cards to a child and a child would not see anything rude or probably funny about them at all on the picture or even in the jokes to be honest because you know the rudeness actually comes from. Mind of the adult who is RW is reading the innuendo because we are firmly in the era of innuendo here we're in the era of the Carry On films we're not a we know you know there's no bad language. There's nothing sexually explicit I would argue because that will drawings you know little cartoons etc It's in the mind it's in that dirty mind trying to believe it's remote by the reader but as I said some people beg to differ and Winston Churchill for example when was the Churchill came back into power in 1951 for his 2nd. Administration his Director of Public Prosecutions feable Mathew he certainly beg to differ and he initiated a purge of these cards in the early 1959 and a number of retailers were prosecuted for selling these cards in fact in fact incredibly the last person to be prosecuted for selling a source you postcard was actually 975 very late if you can believe in Blackpool seems extraordinary Do they get less rude then as time went by because of the writers never didn't really I mean I think the censorship committees which were which were manned by by bishops and had masters and then landladies and that sort of thing they kept an eye on things but like I said the perception of what is rude has changed a lot over time over time you know things that things that we would now consider unacceptable so for example jokes about Jamaican bus conductor and things like that you know you see you see quite a few cards like that things that were considered unacceptable at the time that were never allowed anything depicting a toilet anybody anybody suffering from wind for example these things were bad things that we have conversed the things that we would now consider unacceptable you see quite a lot of inside the perceptions of what actually constitutes the word rude chair have changed enormously since 1900 miles you know wonderful give me a favorite seaside postcard really don't know for a seaside postcard there's a woman. She's obviously she looks race example I mean truly. Going to be in our mind if we totally that a woman is like buried up to our neck in sand on a beach OK and this makes a combined guy walking up to her and he says to do it for you if I pull you out of the sand if I pay for it before pull you out of the hole what's in it for me and she says sand. The author of. The Bamford collection I'll tell you what mine is something I used to roll with while we laughed about the one that used to end but I said remove the spectacles. And. Radio Sheffield with a new staff. Good afternoon and labor official in Sheffield has been suspended a for allegations of anti Semitism. Branch Secretary of park an hour before one now faces an investigation by the party it comes after she tweeted a picture. 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To every thing as the. What a great program today thank you so much for all the stuff about rudeness and without being rude Have a lovely time now turn to bear in all today image and face from Sheffield just join me in the studio she says she's got a poor memory and there's a pretty extraordinary story behind that as well but we're going to take it thanks very much for coming in. The bearing a little bit questions 1st she says. That Germany. Can you sing. Your favorite food. A lie just what. I have really. Ever had. Who knows the law. Well we live in a fly. First piece of advice you've ever been given. Given to be out is last time you thought how rude. Welcome your radio show. In the corner thanks ever so much imagine 5 thanks very much for kicking his off you like all kinds of food then and you can't sing so you're not going to saying is that Rod no good so we have to talk to each other thanks for coming to each other on the program today you asked for this interview to describe yourself in 3. Can remember what you wrote an. Opinionated yet open minded can you come to untangle our. Opinionated because well I just have a lot of opinions about everything really I think I do have an opinion opinion about everything but yet open minded because. I think of what I've been through thing. I look at things in a different way and. Maybe behind. All the all the people and how they are so Mbit ma. Yeah thank you. When you think you've been through. Thing you've been through in particular if I can say. Yeah. 7 years ago now. Brain virus. So I I really bad flu. I can't remember this by the way I had really bad flu and then in the middle of the night I had a massive fit never had a fit the full. Obvious that was rushed into hospital. Meningitis. So it was a bit conundrum for the hospital actually it's. Either Oh yeah and actually I can't remember like before I can't remember 6 weeks before so I took my A S. Level remember. This lots of really good friend cut remember to go without. So. I just remember kind of waking up in in hospital and thinkin. I think a poll a piece of paper inference men saying. I just couldn't run and I want what was what is what is happening what's happened to me. Yeah. Yeah. If I could speak it will why I wanted to speak because I had that many things that many question. Ball my lip my what my words just wouldn't come on now in our lot structure into law. Yeah. You didn't remember the previous remember who you were and did you recognize people. Recognize my family and some of my for a couple of my friends kid that were into the thing my friends because of because I think people were a bit scared just thought to come out which probably. Yeah yeah did recognize people. Obviously I didn't know I were asking questions a lot and getting told. To get in. I was 17 horribleness. Yeah. I don't think I don't think I could fully understand what that was either I don't think any of my family did real life because we have to get in touch with. All the societies and speak I think the best thing would to speak to the people who would add to it and see their stories and behind it I think that's the best way that arc has got me through my. Really. Quiet pull. To ask questions a lot. Why. I say say it would be. If like why we have to do a certain thing why we put something in a certain place I've been told and my be askin the day after on the day after Sometimes I remember it I think it's the repetitiveness for people who have been through a similar thing a lot have been jobs and have been like. I'm just trying to think they would say this is another thing. Like. Well. I was really academic. And I've gone downhill now I was really really good in school. Really yeah. I think the way our speak to people as well about this really changed. Where I think where. Yeah I would really religion really. Even more probably outspoken than I would be full. MOON very up and down I think that could have been because of how much medication I was on as well. I think if you realize who you are and you have to just try and calm yourself down and think about. What you're about to say how do you feel as it were sitting in here talking to. What you mean by well do you feel do you feel. You don't want to do. I feel or ah yeah I think it's I feel quite gold because talking about it and it's talking about not necessarily talking about ankle artists itself but talking about because I think about a lot of mental health issues as well because of it yeah I had to be a depression because of it. Obviously I was around 1718 people going off to university and everything but from a I didn't I was felt like I was behind. A lot of friends I should be now. Just women friends but I would I was at home on my own. I was struggling get in jobs and what sort of jobs could. Anxiety as well worrying about a lot of thinking about things. I've always done that but even more worrying about things. So yeah I think that's why. Thought it was good to come in today to talk about things like. It's in the news a lot. Not come across anybody. You're talking about. In the studio with a musical choice. We asked people to choose a record the got to listen to for the rest of us do anything else come up with a one of the. Numbers this one but a lot of them. To this were a hard question yes. I think just because you can remember oh. Yes this is because the so I just chose it because I think I'll listen to them a lot. And I think it made me feel. Really happy when I will. Stick. Boy. Oh. See. Streaks my. 12 minutes of the on B.B.C. Radio Sheffield image in phase with me in the studio that's a musical choices she had to listen to music for the rest of her life should be chuffed She's 23 she's in the studio talking about what happened to in terms of health which was pretty grim and just says the think she got the left. Which is not much fun now not really if you had it today no not today. I had not long ago and I was actually on the toilet. And I and I ended up putting myself to bed. And I didn't know that I'd put myself to bed. It can feel like your home go over for the next few days that swath felt like yeah so we still got your love life because he went to new to your original. Who was the and what's he like your trailer don't. I don't know how to. Fill it in. For how did you meet him. On a date. I just thought I would get it out why not go on a date inside Bill Maher comforted me people I fail to get out there I go one day out for drinks and meals for. Good so I had a great time on there was day to day oh my god. You know you will you take a record it was more detail I loved I was good on the few dates a day at one point. She would catch you know where no no I go yeah what about Taylor then you've been together 3 years would have nearly 3. Hours How does your medical condition. Relate to your relationship is not they didn't know you before now. I don't know how he put it with it sometimes to be honest is just so. I think is just so patient and so caring. I think you just see it just pulls that's one side you know I think maybe I'll fight back a bit as the mood swings and I just pull one side and it's always talks about the good things basically So how how funny I am will just to fill my confidence a poll that yeah I think you're funny I think you're patient and caring and that record you want to do this interview so that all the people in the same boat you're going to bear in mind are the not alone are patient and caring of you to do thank you thank you from the radio would you tell me about your moment. Well she's another one that's been fantastic through all this is well. Really. Are you going out there she will. Do it every single. Make you happy do you like food. All of the isle of cooking L of cookin new meals here you can do about your sister that I'm older than you about being on a beautiful beach or looking at some. Just me and then you go on to say Taylor could be there I guess looking not worrying Do you worry is not still part of your kind of. Moreno the times you were in about anything and completely different change from 2 minutes ago is that whatever steer you. Toward Yeah yeah. Yeah. I mean Bob May or swings I guess I think it's not my brain just kind of flips . Our feel yeah that's what it what you want to do with the rest of your life image and you've got well I'll give you the 22 years. I want. I'm not I think when you're in school people forced to go down like Korea but now it's not yes I do want to job. Because I once be like everyone else and I want to. Have a job. But I want a job that I can do and I'm happy to do when it doesn't have to be something amazing and well paid because a great job anyway. Does about that. I just I just want to see things and meet people I'll really love travel and since I've been with Tayla would be in so many places we've gone already about 56 times are you sure. You know. Yeah I just want to keep doing that relay and. Yeah I do yeah so try and travel as much as a catalyst full of. Yeah I do a lot of family Yeah yeah. Thank you. Thank you thank you for. 5 to 3. 3 minutes to 3. Through the North Wales. To mark the trouble of going to see in a week's time on the program today. And. Including the rude postcard and some examples of rudeness on the program by some people who work here techs that came in this route but. I've just witnessed a stream of young fit women and men in running outfits running on the pavement and. Stand in the road which is a busy road until they've passed in my mind the park. Is the place for keep fit running not the pavement thank you if you have missed today's show you not only missed a conversation with image and it was. Open conversation but if you missed or you missed the rest of the program today about rudeness you missed this game incur. Your knife in your mouth. Thanks for. Being quite well on the on the make ways it's all on the Move On the. Seen and not by the toll on the A one M. So far traffic around on caster is looking a little bit busy in places sceptically on St George's bridge fairly heavy in both directions and going out on to your corrode in college where those roadways continue on dog past the roads on the westbound approach to wards the low road junction traffic is looking heavy in the balance the traffic is OK for the time being and not too bad around Rotheram but it is very busy towards the park a roundabout on the approaches in Sheffield plenty of heavy traffic looking really heavy on no other thought road toward shelves more and very busy on dairy do the way as well apart from the traffic around Chesterfield is on the move for looking heavy on chance with road though on the inbound side and the door roadworks on Abbey Dale wrote south of causing some delays at the 20 Well Lane junction near to the train station if you spot anything else the John Dodger line is a double 14561212 there's more in half an hour. And snore.