A reasonable board could have come to that decision it sounds like the government lawyers behind the scenes were telling him you are just not going to win this sorry place has admitted making mistakes in its investigation of a rape allegation against a student from Oxford University a judge has given the Crown Prosecution Service 28 days to explain why its case collapsed more than 2 years after all of the mayors was arrested a driver who plowed into 2 accident recovery workers on the end 6 in Cumbria killing one and leaving the other paralyzed has been given a 7 year jail sentence 37 year old Peter Morrison was speeding and sending phone messages before the crash in Feb 26th seen a woman from Peterborough is being jailed for 4 years for entering a suicide pact with a man and then leaving him to die alone 44 year old Natasha Gordon has been described as a suicide advocate at Leicester Crown Court Downing Street says to reason they will hold talks with Donald Trump when the to attend the World Economic Forum at Davos in Switzerland next week the announcement comes a week after the u.s. President canceled a planned trip to London leading some to question the strength of the so-called special relationship. Scientists say adolescence should be redefined to take in all ages from 10 to 24 research as writing in The Lancet Child and Adolescent Health general say the changes needed to ensure that laws and government policy remain appropriate the lead author Professor Susan Sawyer from the Royal Children's Hospital in Melbourne says the criteria changing faster in poorer countries it hasn't been quite so dramatic in the high income countries this is a gradual trend that has been taking place over the last couple of 100 years that people think is largely reflecting improved nutrition. Infections in poorer countries this change is happening more rapidly Downing Street says there are no specific plans for a bridge between the u.k. 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You Before see I'm Kingston Town 7 minutes past 12 b.b.c. In the south it's Friday but you must mean its best bit it's been a good week this week an absolutely always a good hour just go most Yeah that was a really good thing that I found rather upset saying is that you know I've described perfectly in the last hour you know. The one z. Of course I did find myself listening to the various things ticking off listening making notes me I saw your mate rotting away say that's me I'm not a little bit cold when I'm I'm not calling you know. I mean it's radio you're about . 18 months ago going into the petrol station on the way home from work and it was it's usually do you. Want to run when it was and this podium and this gentleman go to in a one and and you could say that he he was expecting there to be anybody in there and he thought Well can't you see. So he got out the car one z.m. Flipflops you've got a bag and he wasn't young 20 I suppose something like that and he just sort of you know looked at me and. The other way pretended he had you know I had no to notice me and there is no foot in the car with petrol and then we both went in to pay at the same time of the guy behind a counter was doing his utmost to stop to stop giggling it was very funny very funny coincidence today I was talking as you heard earlier in the program I was at the head dresses and one of the girls there actually was telling us about someone's mom a friend's mom I think it was who went to think drop the kids off at school something like that in her pajamas and the car broke all. The stuff there is a thread. From the breakdown service could you come very very quickly please why I remember John was. From main road outside the school on a double yellow law and I don't blame people for taking the gamble you know if you just pop when a boy and know absolutely So what we've been up to this week then well as always busy busy busy fabulous stories from you let's have a look back at just some of the things we have been talking about and also hear from Mr Russell some of the stories that maybe we didn't get a chance to hear on the air as we say we get so many of them it's nice to be to go back and read just to hear a few of them on Monday what we're talking about well you were telling us about those times when a picture or a description of something didn't reflect the person place or in real life this was interesting and we were talking about things such as you're looking to buy a new property and you get me a car you see online now you see the photographs of this property and they take those photographs very carefully so you can have a house is falling to bits and they will take it from a particular angle to make it look like a palace you know absolutely we heard from people who had looked at photographs online of collars and they went to see the car to view it you know think about buying it and they found that the op. That side of the car was scraped dented and all the rest of it and we had some great ones over there was online dating which of course online dating is. Quite a modern phenomenon where now people are looking at the Go on various different websites whether it's on their phones or on the computers and it's pictures of people and it's usually although they have a individual photo they apparently have more photos of themselves you can see them from different angles and there's a lot of manipulation goes on with some of these photographs apparently at 1st grafter this is me 25 years ago. Saying. All pictures of totally different people that you found online crazy we had some cool have lovely stories we spoke to Ron He told us our picture of one side of a car for sale to be useful and then when they got to the dealers it turned out the other side was all battered and dented as I mentioned just now miserable and talking of date Jack in Ascot she went to me today that she had discovered have been using photographs that were well over 5 years old yeah and this person thing they did she. Do a bunk on the 2nd guess she did yeah she go to the loo and then when he wasn't looking she made a run for it as have blame rather human life and then we spoke to musician Robbie and he was telling us how the sales patter and pictures that he experienced on holiday were well less than honest let's look again about 8 years ago or than believe my at girlfriend time. But if you go on a boat trip I do when you're in that beautiful k. Polk an island on the Caribbean Hi. There right down the harbor and look at various different dogs to go out these are beautiful on the green eyed Captain revive very ideas like that boat check it out with that bear in the harbor but you know we're going to go to Paradise Island which is days sailing away I must say that the night that will come back will eat barbecue fried fish from. Kind of really luxury Yes beautiful. Really really nice. The next day we turned. To the key to get a little boat through the harbor rule that they are. Heading towards a particularly nice one when we went around the front of the little wooden. Well a little wooden boat with hardly a sail. Of the people on there as well and several crew members were all men and there is very small Let's put it like they were expecting something that was really cool and trendy something that was going to make us and these wonderful pictures back you know selfies of you on the high seas and you end up with something that looks as though it was ready to go to the tape Yeah yeah exactly I think it's more likely to get to the bottom of the even threw up we got on anyway we had a lovely day but the wind just wasn't enough apparently to take the boat to Paradise Island so we ended up mourning for the night just outside believe the weather is the big area of reclaimed land bridge from the bottom in a big kind of building yes yes we are never made a fire because it is often full of shells so we can really go ground best but very very So this is started out as Paradise mended up is. Brighton Beach. Beach is not a bad analogy and I wouldn't have to actually enjoy it in the end was it was a real disappointment it was. Not nice just as we got the fire going the wind blew up blew the fire down and the rain came out it gets harder every time told the 5 boroughs in the middle of the night remains of the sense that the boat left the harbor which is quite worrying. It's just gone on the coast for the night I got out of it. Well they got something out got a saw they got some heavy and we got a lot out of it yeah yeah it was only is way back from recording yeah from from there you know they've been calling on the producer in from it's going album I asked him to let us him or some stage and hopefully we will die and that's what we were told on a Monday times when pictures or descriptions of something don't really reflect the person place or item in real life with only that we didn't get she was the one that we didn't get on that really stood out and that was from Linda and read him and she told me how she went to view a bungalow seen the pictures online the place looked immaculate she was told that she got there she discovered it was told that there was a tenant in situ with They've been given 3 months notice of the property will be sold as a no you can possession but when she got there was a very good price the tenant didn't want to leave and then the 10th and the tenant had proceeded having had the beautiful immaculate photographs was treating it like a tip it was stuff everywhere making it hard to get around the rooms refusing to move stuff so they could walk around and see things and stuff yeah. The person Serwer though the thing is is that being difficult is the tenant what's the point it's not the landlords going to go Oh Ok then I won't sell it seen as you've been so well for I'm going to let you stay here because if any landlord is going to probably try and do their best to get rid of you quicker shorter so why why people behave like that I don't know but but there you go yeah I must be very difficult you see places advertised as being available for sale but there's a tenant in all the tenants choose to leave and I wish it's hard enough going in someone's house yeah when they sneeze when it's their home without stress or without the rest that was the one that stuck out also an increased more Imber telling us about the house that she went to where they had to go around the back and had monkeys a couple weeks ago yeah a long time ago yeah ration to the other guy has Yeah so photograph. Descriptions and pictures that are not always what you think they are and of course technology a great thing but it does allow you sometimes to have a little touch up of things you don't want people to see and I think the dating the dating apps and so men have to look into that 100 as a little feature on the program that could be fun that could be a lot of one for the future that was on Monday and as a way to say these just a few highlights if you want to go back and listen to the programs again even for the 1st time in their entirety they're all there on the i Player radio op of course they stay there for 30 days 70 minutes past the b.b.c. In the south where Mr Russell with our best bits of the week let's have a look and see it was going on on choose Day Oh yes on Tuesday we were being a little scientific because we were giving you the chance to go into the Paul Miller Show Time Machine and you could go back in time you could go back whenever you want to at thousands millions hundreds of years entirely up to you and you could take one modern item with you so who has a wife who came up with some little gems Marjorie wants to take an apple back in time and give it to Adam and Eve Can you imagine how things would have. He wants to go back to his childhood school toilets and take a modern loo roll trip place the nasty old Isel stuff at least I was a kid to have that. For the. Medicated wasn't Yeah they still make that. Oh it's horrendous also it was horrendous what what was it so don't even go there was anybody thinking that might be a good idea why was it always used in place at schools and so on special about it goodness only knows. What it was here more than likely more than likely and then later in the program on Tuesday we spoke to Liza and she was a little less bothered about the period she was visiting she was more concerned about what she was going to take with her I want to go back in the corner to waltz right in this punch say yeah I want to take him till he can't. Now tell me something how you going to get that oh boy. So true. Bear the thought. I could see you know in the. In this house with a tin and you gas about asking this boy that won't work. I'm afraid you've got another 50 years to wait until they've got gas a little wrong. But well you see the problem is that confound the North Sea gas you have they say you. Boy. Oh I think it is very amusing I really do with this in the farmhouse I mean that central heating and there be ice on the glass of water in the morning up there. To go to bed they didn't talk about so I don't see why your going back to the thirty's and taking your central heating with you I would love to be there when you come out this time tunnel people same on earth as that woman gotra. Don't look at me Get me out of the radiators Come on don't just stand there and look at this all day in. Look at the Wasn't. Taking center rating with you who essentially got no gas or anything but you're going to take your daughter anyway take it with you but it won't work we had a few like that did we have that wheelchair or didn't we I want to go back to Stonehenge but I want to play pool militia or take the radio seeing paper Millo and knowing if you want to know why because. There was a there wasn't necessarily a clarity of thought and some of the suggestions you had There's a lot of people who wanted to do things as in go back and and highlight what the future holds if they pursue aggression and wars and things like this and how you know look at these terrible world wars and we should prevent them Terry in Teddington want to do something along those lines Tina inhaling oil and I remember I was talking to Tina off air was she would boss the programmers on and I said to her I love the idea she wanted to take a book History of the 20th century and show it to politicians to try and prevent you know all these terrible things happening but I said to the problem if someone came up to you today and said all I'm from the future 100 years ahead I want to tell you about what happens you're going to think great I've got a nutter and that's a problem no one takes these people seriously if you go on the Internet now there are videos on You chew with people who claim that they've charmed trouble forward 6000 years or back in 1000 years or whatever it might be No one believes them I mean there's no there's no clear evidence of Time Travel numbers of people who claim to have seen this and seen the other so the problem of going back is that who is going to believe you even though you're trying to do something really mobile nobody nobody one that stood out on the end the text was interesting a few people mentioned going back to start times going back to dinosaur times and taking a camera with you which of course would work in order a manual camera. Going back to dinosaur times hiding behind a boulder we hope it's about anyone and taking photographs of Mr Mr Di know and then coming back to now and so we would actually know what dinosaurs look like for real. They're always changing it all day they think they know that often fossils and so on the 100 percent sure and that way we'll get 6 is enormous fascination with them no one really knows 100 percent they look yes when the ideas they've got based on fossils of yeah things like that and of course what they are they trying to how Muslims are structured in for this is good news and so on and so forth but they found a couple of years ago that maybe some of these big dinosaurs had feathers for example which they said they never thought before so yeah what else did we not have that you did not had Alan in looks Heath wanted to go back to the seventy's but wanted to take a toilet with him why. Did we have toilets seventy's so I didn't really get. When I was so in the eyes all I said What's a new physical toilet with you an economist like you can get these kind of box affairs can you. Go to the bottom of that one but it was obviously something that was very old in the seventy's Johnny Bexhill was like quite a few people who wants to go back to times the day they got married or say I don't set out to. Hear that you know you know I go No no no we go other things are going off the clay you know we're coming on mold quite a few who wanted to go back to times when they would revisit our highlight of their life there was one and I'm trying to find it this is from Anita in birching to oh yeah Anita wanted to go back to 995 right it was when her daughter was born but here's the key thing when her bought daughter was born in 1995 they took photographs and they posted them off to be developed right and they never came back . So she hasn't got photographs of the very 1st day she has photographs archives a charge growing up with the very 1st day special she wanted photographs where they disappeared in the post so there was a kind of a practical element Yeah kind of style that's a shy of all the things you know you get your photographs or. Of holidays come back down you know you know when you dread for me a flip flops but you don't get inside all that's a shame that the show would want to go back to the late 1930 s. And speak with and show film to the inventor of the Spitfire has been invent parent inventor of the ships but far passed away before the Spitfire entered satellite service and so never knew the impact it's been far had so you want to show him this is what your your work did another one was Andy in Southampton who want to go back to the trial of the toll puddle martyr's was he says yeah he wanted to take a tape recorder are going to have really quite all batteries he wanted to record the trial so you could see just how how fixed the thing was so you know we had there was lots of deep thinking going on as well as the fun stuff like going back and change there staking a nice story by pr instead of always or we had a real mixed bag quite literally wonderful good fun that was on choosing your imagination was in full swing as it usually is and as I always say when I get back into the entire thing it's all there on the i Player radio app it's just coming up to 25 past the b.b.c. In the south we have Wednesday and Thursday to deal with very shortly after. Chicago and hard to say I'm sorry it is past 12 for the b.b.c. In the south Mr Russell is with us for our usual Friday after midnight look through best bits of the week we've dealt with Monday and Tuesday what was going up on Wednesday we started the Paul Miller Show dictionary of made up words he was good was it because we all use them and we all use them you know we have words that we use that aren't real words words we've made up amongst ourselves words were made up with friends and family and all sorts of things and you came up with some cool clues as you always do Interestingly we started by talking to Jenny Wimborne she said that she's always known eggs as cackle berries and then a few people afterwards came through and said world that is a local term is some areas of us conscious our resources I believe yeah we also had a couple of people sending messages in saying that hen fruit was another name for hanging fruit and re another another name for eggs Good grief so maybe not so unique our federal We spoke to joy she said if something is really good in her life she would say phantasmagorical which I. It was a fabulous word phantasmagorical which I think we also discovered actually a real word the very very rarely used and then later whilst we were chatting and you did come up with some classics some of them were very very amusing indeed we spoke to Julie and she revealed that she has a term for when she's out with the baby my word is prime bolt prime blow I love it what does it mean supposedly Well it's a leisure list grow with a baby. I can't for the broad I say it's a noun or a verb you can either go for a pram pull me yeah it was a perm 10 is in Santa stead Hello Tony I've got 2 words that are used Ok past state when something's absolutely fabulous and it's fantastic and when you're eating something really delicious it's fabulousness all fabulous Yes Well let's go to Ringwood speak to Sheila hello Sheila it's the tone it's hope. I've used this I think of that 7 when I was. Ever Going back over 70. And it's hard to sit and harvest so. Suppose for such I don't know where it came from. Leslie's worsened over how Leslie i used by each in by age in Vaio invite so invite Good grief that sounds nasty when a doctor would do what just what does it mean for when you bake it casserole you leave it for a day to invite you to improve or you. For a cake I need to buy a let's go to the art of Buckland and speak to and say hi and hey there's a little words when I start singing when I was working so late one evening and I don't know where that comes from but you know when you just humming along and you just go a little tuning I had just opened my. Rinky dink he didn't know. What popped out rinky dink you did when you keep on keepin. On is making the Top 40. There's Andy in Bucklin Let's go to what an ounce Peter Paulino Pauline. Gronk it Grandcourt concrete invented some walls ago. And the sediment in a bottle of wine it actually sounds like that doesn't it because when you have that sediment in the box and it's not an easy and easy thing to describe So I think that's a good word Let's go to Paul must be to Peggy how to Peggy I actually bought. A bone because he can be both o.t. Bunglers achievable twice means Poesia longer party. Crazy. They used to go you know what you're about to one from a baby you go to sleep on cue. Let's go to well we'll speak tomorrow it out to Marilyn I mean on this. You know in those occasions where you think why did I. Say it again you know me and me. Are not even allowed to that's a real word if I type that if there were a day or blow up really knowing is where. It's well of course is that is cool you know it's raining you know as well as years same that's all falls into place new you know use in the ng long as they were as. They were so so good to have any words you use your family and friends that that aren't real words I've been desperately trying all week if I have any I don't think so no I do you know I couldn't think of any on my door and I can't think of any now although there were things that came up that we didn't manage to get on air because we were inundated with requests to this lot of them one of the ones that lots of people say which is now a national gospel what you might call it from what you might call it that came up quite a few times. And gets used a lot there's some other ones I love that you didn't get to hear such a shame to which I'm so sorry run out of time Doreen in Millbrook maggoty cheese. Or oh is Von Maur. Oh yes yes Joanne in Southampton cuddle a struggle for us not for a cuddle and a snuggle or cowgirl would not last call us is never good it's a little cat you know a lot yeah you actually heard this on a different note I think you heard this a different time Natasha in Lewis can't say jacuzzi so she says Cous Cous because you can't say a word she says or lies here. And in Jackie and brought in she had a couple of things if something's gone off it's gone speak what you mean food it's gone off yes food it's gone off. It's gone speaking speaking speaking yeah there's all of this is there's a pattern to this because if someone gives you a bit of a funny look they give you a sporty look. So there's something I must be obviously it's a family thing we speak Ian Sparky but those are the ones that really really stood out I like those a lot yeah bizarre words. They were great valley really one I don't think I have any not I'm aware of anyway I was trying to think the other night any words that I use all their words we use around the family and friends that that are real words I don't think so you want to think of which it's not it's not really like the ones we have a you know we don't nicknames and stuff in the past with this is this is not a nickname my my Les aren't. The whole family for her whole life called her Demi d.e.m.o. But her name was Jennifer. Or as you did when she was a child she couldn't say Jenny and she would say Demi. Came My grandma and others proceeded to call her Demi and we would write Christmas cards and birthdays it was to Auntie them and when when she passed away and my dad spoke at the funeral and there was the family there and there were friends and people from groups that she belonged to he had to explain why he explained to them why the family or called her Devon no one called Jennifer because no one had written a whole life we called it dam and so of course when you when this about Demi wasn't a real there is a name called Demi obviously we know since the time it wasn't and. So when it came to the funeral that could be very awkward because these flowers and they're going to different people who were you know we the family all knew our real name was but just never used spoke to her or we spoke about her so my dad explained so it made sense the other people who were one of the family were calling a different find this earlier yeah you do find there's a lot I remember my my grandmother's neighbor was called Peggy that wasn't her real name her name was something like Agatha or Agnes something like that and she loathed it I mean she'd been dead many many years and I used to say to her why didn't call you Peggy she will hate my name and yet you know that was her real name so if you ever encountered anything that was official use or a letter or something he would always have the wrong initial You thought Yeah so that happens and I got in a what I refer to. The funeral Yeah I actually got. Friends nicknames that you pick up at school that just stick with you for the rest. Of your friend His name's Mark but we've all called him a whole life Lazic he moved to the area from Croydon and in teasing him we were teasing him that he was a Cockney gazer obviously cordons. But that was the point it was a joke and it just stuck and he's always been. These I like it there's a few there are thousands of them thank you for sharing them with us in the summer we're going to do the pool. Show dictionary of made up words again Yes So definitely a matter of. If you can get through on Wednesday but to do that later in the year how did the time it said 23 Mr one publisher of the b.b.c. In the sale so Monday Tuesday and Wednesday sorted out what's Were we talking about . A world that was the opposite of tonight's ready because we were asking you what you believe makes others appear to be a little Paul you know you see somebody going about their daily business push Wayne reckons it's playing croquet in the garden Natasha said he's drinking tea in a china Mark. Without a carol she thinks that raising one's little finger when drinking is definitely a sure sign and that we spoke to Mike on the phone who revealed that he is closely related to someone who fancies themselves as being a little bit polish just as little clip where I'm going to a sister you want to be in a foreign country and you've got a cuckoo clock and the only one I know the random AC. I like that lots. She does she change on a regular basis just in case. I mean apart from putting the paper underneath which is genius or do you think having a cuckoo clock is generally quite a good sign of being a little a little posh Well is it more Sister Yeah so it's your little Hyacinth who came into Times very much star really. I love that but I don't see that one coming oh I didn't really set it to be on the only miss you know if you are sick of a fabulous absolutely fabulous and of course you know we tonight front we're doing the other way around makes people a bit calmer What else do we have a posh for people maybe well with us tonight to work with us on Thursday night yeah Jack you know ask talked about the quality of wrapping paper when you're given a gift. That can be and you just you know I do tend to know that the thing if you put the wrapping paper can see through great you know that's that's charming thank you for nothing near an easy to even worse if they wrap it up 3 or 4 times to get the thickness Well yeah. Yeah some of these new future here in a few years and you remember Ivy snuffer from last night yes a little I don't feel that. I've you know my sense she grandson said she would light a lot the house in candles create an atmosphere you know lovely on Beyond's but her grandson went home to his. Mother and and said all grandma right he's very posh he's school snuffer Catholic as opposed to blowing them out. I loved running your uncle wrong phoned to tell us that his wife had collected water with crystals and he had these waters crystal balls and he had put he got water crystal balls very partial in one bowl he's got his crisps in another bowl he's got his Quavers. Jungle about his. Own at least to be it's true he could be were if they were just wrapped up in the last night's drawing Tara was listening to John and I said well I've got loads of blah blah blah in here where it was in the loft and I was not going to point out Marion in West Palm made me laugh with how it she was waiting for that special West wedding gift she thought she was posh when she got a standard because newlyweds didn't get a standard last really and I love that love to have a standard lamp. I don't of all I'm going to ask my mum at the weekend here with the source of the standard Yeah and they way you said it was skew whiff that was so you. Started to size Yeah. Laundering hating Island didn't manage to get her on air but she said that people who play classical music. All the necessary polish they might sometimes aspire to give the impression that being's whole made up of the traffic lights with you know Radio 3 a classic of them and so people around you think you're a little bit to give an idea an impression that you are yeah and then when you pull away you know a boy's own cd bacco or something in the air and David in Folkston phoned late home and he was telling me that he and his wife and children got invited to. I think it was his wife's something like that it was anyway it was a big state 1500 acres and a huge house and gardens ridiculous and then they were invited across and the place had they had polo ponies I mean it was really who are more Toms royalty because it was a family event staff were being given a day off and David was struck that the host there I guess the owner of this property I don't know who it was didn't know how to open a can of Coke what No because because he'd never had to do it good grief never he'd never had to try to ring Paul he didn't know what that was like so we had stopped doing it if you get a head start you know I presume this is hereditary money in it gone 3 generations in the staff lay everything on and just never Yeah and it one of those wouldn't believe if you haven't seen it remarkable try the other half live my word that is a sign of polish. Grief or if I find that being in that sort of company wouldn't have very well again you join a 1500 acre estate where you know only play by good friends to have and that ends a fiver in Finale and then tonight if you work what. We said to balance things out we would swap it around so last night as we just discussed it was things that make you feel someone's little posh tonight it was things that make you feel someone's a little bit calm and and we had some James interestingly enough Thursday night people were quiet you know forthcoming with the suggestions to nights they had to sort of apologize for saying you want to why I thought it was funny the phones were just as busy. When speak they say or not having a go and I said. No you don't it doesn't seem to be a problem to say someone's polish but it doesn't say it was common the way that you know any one of those things if seeing a man walking around a supermarket in a string vest with all their body hair hanging out on the something that you find repulsive that's fine and if someone who does that his her on the radio they don't have to be offended but you can chew I know the moment we social media we have this weird situation the newspapers are full of it at the moment where everybody's going to take offense at everything. And say so and yeah everybody's offended about something for the smallest thing gets blown only to just there are some big things that are important but you know if you if you're someone who goes to the supermarket where you string vest with your body hair hanging out and you hear other people don't like it when you can get all offended about you can think about whether it's a good idea to do in future or say below it's my life I'm going to abstain Vesey we counted certainly we had some we had some good lessons good wives you know here we just like I did like I did and I think most people a grade with them as well the ones he was funny and we we've watched you got an e-mail here. Talking about the ones a Barbie in Southampton sent me a picture or send us a picture an e-mail and she's I'm just ready for the supermarket and the photograph of her in her one z. And I think it's a mouse would you say it was a mouse is it or is it going on what do you think going to step around here kind of look what do you think that is on the 1st part of how it was a cow is it oh maybe now it's going to bone there is a dog she is adult or phone for about oh it is funny oh yes it is a dog sorry it is a dog Yes so she's ready to go shopping so she's going around the supermarket in the ones. I mean do you. I tell you know I don't really see any in your string vest I think it's just pretty you know. But the ones it's something that people wear it almost. To me that's funny I think that's amusing something a string vest with you know with a brace on the big stomach and you know have you that that you think oh come on that's horrible repulsive Yeah it was he seemed to be a bit sort of Marmite don't they. Just a bit fashionable his name or if that's the word to use so far so somebody to one just it was quite funny I might look at them and was interesting you spoke to a lady earlier on who was talking about not liking people with jeans and the routine just so fashionable and you see some of the richest people in the world wearing those rich jeans at the moment they are very focused you don't like that. And I mean I don't own any like the amount of war now I can barely afford jeans that are held together as it is I want to pay extra for the whole for the whole you know. But what I remember jeans years ago when it became fashionable it's just let them wear a lot that Charlotte anyway you know. Something like that so many things go running so who's to say that doesn't bother me I must admit I don't mind that at all I have seen a few people in the supermarket in their pajamas which I find strange there was a if there was a lady not your laugh at this but he's an absolutely true my mother's life this is true there was a girl in the supermarket months ago and she had her but John is all with a big fluffy housecoat dressing gown whatever you like to call it and wellies that's true they were all they were pink when he got ladies where he says on my dream day. I will tell you darling be born again if I don't know going straight over straight down the fruit and vege picked up a letter. Carrier and all that anger dangled you what are you guys yeah I. Did it did it Rizzo it looked a bit strange to me doesn't bother makes very little Bob But how can you go out like that and there she was at the counter where the self-service thing waiting to content you and I both the word he says he lay hours and go to bed in the middle of the night middle of the morning I think you because you're a 24 hour suit my needs aren't they if I went from here I went to a supermarket 3. Am and I saw someone walking around in their pajamas you think well you know what this barely anybody in here in the middle the night you always needed to pop out for something I wouldn't do it make a bank some track so I wasn't doing something right that I wouldn't be surprised but how long does it take to bang the you know some tracksuit bottoms on or some jeans or skirt whatever I mean it doesn't take long to put something on somebody the hairdresser said that they thought that it was a little bit common for many when I went out in public in a tracksuit bottoms religion yet you see lots of young men wearing tracksuit but she's an old man is what I want yeah. My tricky bums go around the supermarket frequently personal taste as it is it is simply too noisy i'm so I don't care I don't care carpet slippers out so I find I have an issue with people walking down the street the carpet slippers I don't like no no in crocs Yeah I don't get that now I know there's probably people listening who are. Yeah I'm told they're very comfortable a lot of doctors and nurses where the whole I just acquired taste in terms of the way they look yeah it's like you know the I don't have a pedophile you are the Birkenstock sandals you know the ones that make you look at Germany. They are incredibly comfortable and very expensive Oh I had a pair. Loved to see when these things are still there were 15 years ago you know now we have 9 you probably have still been a color is a basically kind of a suede material some of them yes various material ones I have sort of sort of a suede sort they got they got roughed up and I stopped wearing in the end they were incredibly comfortable but they were an acquired taste as well completely Yeah yeah expensive to refuse me with other people wearing with the same toss me you know. Where you got your mixing with so you know less obvious in Holland you know here the clerks Yass clients so that was a program tonight so we've been full circle or done a lot this week dodgy photographs dodgy clothes things that people do that have a common things that people do that very very nice and just about everything in between a good wake and. Has to be a year we're going to have to talk about dating at some point next week I think we will yes the online dating thing bit is very very popular particularly with the with older people as well you know it's not just a young person's They won't know as I think I've mentioned she would chatting about this in the office the other week of notes I've seen some threads on the internet talking on social media people of our generation not not people there's no sort of people in their twenty's and thirty's are obviously dating but he was really people sort of in their thirty's right the way up to 70 so I was reading a woman who is 60 I think she was saying talking about it how do you know and yeah and it's all different now isn't it it's all online dating and things like I know somebody the friend it was a friend of a member of my family was widowed quite young. Out 60 and after a couple of years decided that she was she was lonely she knew that her husband would be Ok about if they discussed it while she was ill and so she decided she was going to do it and so she did it all online and she had you know people helping out as you would regularly online stuff and all it was a. It was a company that deals with mature dating and she had to put in a much information about her upbringing and this that and the other she said Goodness play want to know the you know the insides of whatever anyway she did it and after a while she met a couple of people a couple gentleman and Gentile marry one of them. And they well they were just like 2 peas in a pod they were so well you know sometimes it doesn't work but they were so much that so much in common but he likes this and so do I he likes that and so do I think we yes because they're you know you know they have to look for the market or yeah you know you've got to tell the truth well you know when you say you know are you someone like to sit indoors you know watching the telly with a bag of quavers or go out to the gym don't put the latter if it's the former Yeah absolutely bird if you ever watched 1st States on Channel 4 No you know how it's I find it I've seen it and I like it when it's like all good. Like good t.v. Drama for that matter all comedy where people from different backgrounds are thrown together they're never met each other they're on a blind date they know the people. As the programs going on they make more effort to try and match people so they've got something you know although it's a sad when people have nothing in common they want to get some matches otherwise the show looks like a flop and there was a guy on there I was watching an episode last week I think it was and there was a fellow on there who would have been forty's I guess maybe 30 and he was asking the lady that he was on a date with all to use. If you tried dating sites they were comparing which dating websites they'd been on and what they signed up for and he looked up and he said you know what it's like having a part time job doing online dating because you've got to keep updating a photograph to get all the kind of message is from different you got to work out which ones might be worth pursuing and which ones might not and if you're making the right decision you want to give a personal reply to every person based on their interests as well to show the you've read it he said he's like having a part time job you get home from work and then you spend a couple of hours doing this every day yeah I mean it sounds like are going to get you know get a look at your e-mail so you know intact in you know you look quite worn out boy oh boy he was talking about this was he on a date with some woman don't complain about it right you go a date go with it what you that were not a little chatter Yeah even people that have used those kinds of sites because they are very very popular and they can be very useful as well so it's been a good way thank you very much and you know you have the weekend I think. It's going to be cold I think I should be indoors it's yarder all artes up heating is on the last time I looked at the weather Roger is beginning the reason I'm writing arranged Yeah miserable rubbish feels like a tax return weekend on how big is your tax return I want to know he talking about it but not doing it I mean millions and you are yes you know are you talking about it or not completing it it's just is just a little bit you know it's just fine and finding all pension forms. In a result of year that growing up I know very well that's one. About an hour just a few minutes to go is that right since he's. Well you know nothing exciting planetoid actually the weather's going to be rubbish he's going to be raining so no I've just got some of the chores around the house and but some peace and stuff you know got there on Sunday night don't call the midwife's back as well which one do I watch which one do I recall the decisions to be made we are all yes a Sunday night I say yes 2 days with the thing where all the members of the public try out the. Have a go at doing the essay Oh yes yes course that's that's currently. Never watch that the 2nd or 3rd it Week far get away from me Oh really enjoy that now you destroy the f.b.i. Should be with their in a pack Yeah I wrote that song but also my fear is on the sorry into that no I mean I have to watch that and catch up because I was trying to say too much comedy and. I think there's a couple of network premier films on so you're watching network premier films Matthew might have you know I'm doing my midwife and there are you it's quite different there isn't you know watching anything about. I'm more interested in the Special Forces elimination now more funny because I have you down as somebody to be taking part in that. I used to be in the last talk about it yes you know very secret if especially. Now that we get like you're out. There as Mr Russell and you know you have a good weekend as well Whatever you're up to as well as could be pretty dire but hopefully you get a chance to be out there and do at least something over the next few days which will be which will be rather nice it's coming up to $5.00 to $1.00 point to show for the b.b.c. In the south what shall we do to take it up towards 1 o'clock How about a nice little songs to the round and round on yes good idea. And. C.b.c. . Radio stations from across the b.b.c. This is a.