We had to stay in separate rooms when I was with my partner and I was oh it's not oh. It's like he said you know before Oh yes I was. Sharing you very well what do you think. This is my. Cousin I can. Just don't want people to see me for I know you know while. Working to happen to him Gemma Atkinson and go. You know Dr Yeah you're on the radio namedrop Yes that was great today really go for lovely people I see is lovely is she sounds Yeah yeah I mean when we meet celebrities and stuff sometimes you can you know you worry that they're going to be a bit yes of you know because it is and she's not she's just a complete no no leg down to a bank you know I mean if you know how to meet you know what and go because as well . So you would teaching them the basics it 1st day yeah so yeah family 1st date as we call it goes from scaring go Ok trying to get seats is done so he was. You know you can use it to my stomach. The night you know if you've been. Hosed you know we would kind of like Christmas decorations that festive. Or we both my children's birthdays within the same week say hi my Altus was on the 7th my daughter was on the 10th that. Sat thought yeah we were just radio organized everything so that the presents were tall and African else was dog. So yeah I did to be honest you know it's going to be the old Full House really kind of the high streets Oh they don't at all but I guess they don't. Going to be talking about our later on in the show I'm also about Christmas decorations right psychic that I'm going to. Call these goodies in front of us in the know that your health I'm not saying oh yeah and then you see after that we go yeah you can be told to fight all of that. You know it's my life is about right Ok Jay Well I think it's I say finds a ha ha and if he case if he says it's fine if something doesn't set in said I said Christmas Day It's like my dad and I think it's one tie and I think you know what enjoy yourself but just don't have it like Christmas we. Do those it is the wisest thing you know. You say Oh yeah the old why you know I but that of the just the wind old I you know I will throw you know away can come it's just you know just kind of have a bit about me and say yeah we approach the tree since and I just as a bit of a Christmas think about this even God Now before Christmas I want to look as long as you know me doing that. I carry guns aside I'm asking you want to. Christmas shopping have you start to see you know there's just this week oh you'll be great Julie started it why why you at the beginning of December I want to I want 33 start you message with. I don't want to be. I know. How. Do. You. Really do need to have a conversation. Every day is a Saturday but it was some. Don't you. Don't leave me. Annmarie and David cats don't leave me alone I'm sorry. Sorry we going Christmas trees is going on. She's so full of. What I know you didn't supermodel this is wrong it's a killing saying. Well my mom is one of those people when we go on pot clinches she'll bring a Tupperware recovery guy I would love a potties with on a chicken wing so cold. And a little bit hard to brighten the day we read it now let's see you Bill this is from Bristol are celebrating 25 years of Christmas light display on their homes I think the 1000 lights put on the family home in Bristol along with an Al cd alongside Nativity say now the brothers have raised more than $68000.00 for the ground appeal which is the charm of British Royal Hospital children over the now they've spent 6 weeks putting up the festivities the display includes $157.00 says 10 rating vs 10 snowman 50 rope supply and we all sing together. It's really a hope it's not because I did have the Christmas No think my comment should kick on and I can say what. Do you decorate your house with why it's not biased by a t one day. You know the day I think he can get out in the cold but in the mazing doesn't it yeah when we typo us and people done that the gals not. Know how much time they put in to put in Santa lie on their very 1st love to do that one day I mean it's an aspiration all I've got is the lights on the tray is perfect. And that was took a while to put in the trio with the kids but any stressful I didn't decorate the treatment this lovely law in the. Us I get rid of just now resumed my using the hall is not in the coolest scheme where I'm calling I can't speak my I think you just addressed this mal and just I thought radiant scientists on that about an hour and I'm light late in the world select it takes me half an hour but some ruffled the light and yeah yeah stressful struck me put music on. The ship because we just downloaded a Christmas album and it was it was really cool cool but it's really the blood of the proper very light really snug. So we quickly and got a problem yeah you know and I'll. Try and make it Christmassy Well what they mean. So painful thing getting the stuff from the year before was a nightmare ruffle and all we. Got like the creation of the outside no broke because well Brian is so bright the French usually so I've got that one on the dole . A wreath on the dole It is called when with the way the rain gets in. Taken inside a gas stove. Lights up like. The one. To tell you what time. Challenge the I Have to the light so we've moved house to share and we haven't put lights up outside. Preview CA's. The railings of the gate you know what I now have a book. I'm one of these people that kind of because I'm like I say I have issues with things like Kid life but I play like a put it open I'll be out there for 3 hours case and I wish I did this and then I'll be damned if I'm taking that down in January. And anybody who's been slight you know it's not nearly East to China. I'm the same fight we had a piece I member who's been listening I'm going to put decorations up and I think the whole you know the weapon that you can buy will let you put a kind of a lamp for a kid you know again I was in for a penny you know and I put the weapon on I'm going to look at old town office except enough that by this point and a bit like a week and a half an hour after Halloween I pulled the old on and there's a piece of weapon that was stuck on the line I. Just could be both to me if it was that. Every time we came his life still it's like that but. I think I actually you know when he moved out there was probably. I'm just I go with the style of the nominees that will be a letter from him with you know health and safety. You know decorations and stuff out side what she takes. That when. I don't drink. I don't we say make sure someone's watching you do it just no case you have a shock running to you than on the floor unconscious you know so from a 1st aid point yeah no it means a little somebody is watching you do it all if you're in the water as well you could fall among you had a make sure that they know what to do if you do you know what go on this one I'm going to was going to people who already probably got the tree a poor a day well if you. Take that you've got we've got to put it to tricks I remember when my little girl was in the will cause she's to always try and Rahman look at the train you know so what she was she health and safety it was because of the trees I mean what we've always done is we saw put in a position where. So it's next to the couch so. They can really get to it because they will I mean I remember. Say when she was a total cut you know start on the edge of a set say trying to reach the top of the straight and she just got to keep them really just don't leave them in the room that is it will go for it but if you can kind of called an off from them that's probably the safest thing but over the not there is a risk you know my wall that they will try and grab stuff put it in the Mao You know just yeah maybe try and avoid small decorations as well right so if it's quite a big chunk you on the sun are going to be out by about all who can put it in the mouth but it was quite dangerous on the break how long you know like last year I shall try also just making sure electricity wise all the time get to the plugs and of it as well does anyone put decorations on the ceiling. Still do although he's not. You know like the paint on yet the paper brings on the ball for the kids to take some not be quite right and charge not the most out of Do Not the kids you know like making that you know a parade but we see that whole I want the great big the role full rate on it but now I'm of the great Tinsley think you know me how do you know this you know the state I mean the life I would like to think something. I must say I remember he's done this but you always used to do it is. To say later Yeah but my family always did it now that's not the thing is that now diminishing this now if you will you that I. Know life with you know now oh yeah let's. Decorate you'll see lane please let me know 133 Start your message with the word my We're going to be talking about Christmas shopping as well so I want to know if you still if you was already a I'm going to look and see what she can weighing. In. No I go guns come and go but. It goes just where. You the go go go. Go go. And. They make a car. For a bus. I don't know. All my crying. Running. Things. Any girl you want might seeing all. Around the. Country I'm. Going to use drugs. They go go go go that's right let me go around the. Back of the. Bush new price with no. Books. And she might just went to number one that. Paid us I had lost. Her. To do you. Know my. Strong. And don't think. The funds. We've been. Granted. It goes dry where. They go go go. Go. On as. Big. As they would. I want to know but they are wrong with the. Way. It goes down where. They go. I mean I'm going to. Love that one of the ways that young see a big city and ahead he won and don't rush him on b.b.c. Radio Manchester I'm joined in the studio with that scene I've also got Scott and I have. To. Tell you as if I'm saying the wrong name Yeah but you have played it. Ok. Finds out how to get the children to take medicine intrigue Mary Poppins style the moment see you sprinkle some hundreds and thousands over a spoonful of medicine to transform. And you present. It's going to be on c. Thinking do you have any medicine huh. I just use you know the syringe of a. Game that's been game changer and I think like his it's not so taste as much when it's a bit of the your keyboard but I have to say if you want child's mother saying compared to what it was like when we were kids it's nice. And it's like oh how pulse is not a little runs and runs but yeah they're really quite sugary and tasty anyway right when they have but you know when. I used to lie down the street was moments I used to buy Banaba now so I got out on that point. Michael's Well whatever they've had I think otherwise you try do you. Know you're having them just like Just close your eyes and just take it. Thank you sense of. Relief we've had to model says been on all my life she lost place and she just had you know better cough and. You know runny eyes and control devices type thing and not she the Med to said you know in the strange in the throat is fine you know excess a taste quite nice is not that's to the eye drops thing. And all fall just you know folks just trying to kind of light hold still and then light prize their eyes and it's just might be really made to them but there's no way of doing it is there a way because I remember when I was young something was put on him it's way because I was actually speaking to a friend about this over the weekend he's called liver oil did anybody else used to have it didn't they see behind you I haven't spent. My studio you know that I mean is it kind of like just prevent everything why didn't I do you know why did the joints of belief yeah Yeah oh it's. I will it was written yes. Obviously yes yeah I remember it. Kind of transformed made into an orange life yeah she was in the at the orange flavor was it just me that was on the cause of the real than I was and I wish I did you. Know and I used to always try to. Salute you know as a kid my mom was the but to think they were the point was what was the benefit I know the benefits up what do they say he was the response. Like. It was well used to have the victim in like him in every day yeah they were quite nice and he said my kids not that I'm Mr Mack I give the kids they have a half the day off. So I give them probiotics now as well because there's all this talk about how you know how if you've got an unhealthy you know that could be quite poorly as well and what I can prep outtakes is I want the little milkshake. Yeah. You cheapest drink you know well yes. We've said well we kind of diving train our house in the off the bat at the database to say I bought I use in a powder fall and you just make it doesn't taste less you just make sense. Of like the Drake and it just the same thing basically say and establish right yeah but yeah those things kind of quite go. Along like. Oh you know what I've never. Really. Was No I'm not I. Was no no no no to take oh no it's going to really raise it in the middle it was like when this light everyone. No I'm not you know I eat I didn't say I don't see any of the mayo I say so and I generally don't need to every one that was not since you have to chew. You know just you know I think off the last few days just just a slightly more health conscious or a lay and then watch some interesting documentaries on Netflix and kind of yet think you while she could be really in a bit less thought kind of still doing change yeah the game changes one's really interesting document and this looks like I don't see some of the very heavily bias and you kind of have to kind of into account I think when you watch some of the stadiums full you should off food for thought. It was. Really just kind of like. Red to me anymore. The kids really you know. Chicken and stuff now and again but I tried planning that we 25 and 7 like Fed based meals a week you know base meals a week if possible to Christmas parties or if the children go to parties do you tell them I just don't you know because I just think like what we don't know might be the. You know what is the video. But also I don't really want to take so much. Say I just had the kids and it's far right you know they kind of understand that we what moment. That we're little bit more flexible with them I must Sunny's pepperoni pizza. But he just he just me if I think about how I used to he is a kid like he's a lot less of you know that kind of food than I used to he was a kid but we don't lie deprive him of life he's applied to the day by how. He used to be love him some of his I said like right now I'm not buying how many more that's thought stand the thought kind of thank busted life you're out and you saw my. Summer Job Offer you want to you can have a spine but which is not going to have so it's just one of those really I mean he's older he can make you so decisions about what he wants to say really. This is. Going to but it's not. Like these that children and even Simmons or anything like not. They were going to. Think you know I did and then you know we've gone now and I think. We've got a job see you know and then never never. Just be. Yeah it does give a yes no I mean I think that most most of it means from the few days I do try and give them a bit I feel bad. I mean the only thing you have to be careful of is deficiences don't you know. Things other not getting Yeah saying that you don't have to give them this extra supply moments unless you really need it do I did he listen to us back in the day I know are you mad because why just because this is the time visited was obviously different than it was Mo also well more long it was yeah I was on the rise in takeaway so I don't know if that was while. The you know said the nutrients that we've gotten off it now in our produce now feed isn't as nutrient dense as it used to be say 50 years ago and the reasons for that are. So for example the number of new trees that you would get at an orange now versus 50 years ago a very different just the just the density because the quality of the soil that we have now is not as great because if you think about all the pollution and whole. Yes all the pollution we pump out from industry and agriculture and have besides of pesticides and fertilizers there in the soil I have it's high not degrades the quality of the soil so the soil which puts the nutrients into the face the plums that grow with the crops that grow in the soil the soils most nutrient dense because the soils you know it's it's not as good quality East because of all the police should. You know it's just one of those things say that there isn't I think you could only There's a case to to supplement. Because we're not getting as. Nutrition from the food that we used to say 50 years ago just because this was not can I just say that sounded so good and you. Know I'm good. Thank you very much the line is I didn't think about it like that yeah yeah I think that he's logical it's not because we've gone through the whole we're going to. Go through the whole thing about the industrial revolution which in the last 10200 year is so the so-called tea lights 100 years ago when people used to farm and each additional farming methods would be to use him besides pesticides and well I guess if the quality of the soul is a lot better. Why don't you. Try to put some for some food some food you don't need to buy or got a. Good day so I think if I stroll brazen things out not like he can buy organic because more often than not they've been sprayed with. Whole comic stuff it doesn't last as long as you seem. To try to try to face is that you can. Eat something that's been last process with less chemicals all. But you eat it quick food the minute it's paid to. The minute it's picked So if you think about so they would still preserve in the safe market from light and if you eat them from Egypt in Spain the part of being grown if the not grown in your part of the probably be greater greenhouses part of being sprayed with hip sized pesticides and they have to spray them with that because that then got to get the movie as we call him in the summer so I would kind of really recommend one of possibilities I mean what my kids stroll around I'm not you know I'm not saying hey preach and. You know wherever possible Chinese seasonally because you know things every season at the moment so it's not your carriage potato pasta you know spouse you know. This in season moment pulls. You know these things but to radii with the season. Ahead of what have you just. Don't forget. Which is coming up after 8 o'clock because I want your help on this one I'm really really struggling. 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Job that's not been done well my next guest which is Olivia has started a drama school recently with some workshops in supermarkets so that parents can get the shopping done while the kids go to acting classes. Tell us a bit more about this it's revolution right yes so everyone in classes for 2 years now Ok when they stop within the supermarkets put it in a community room so I just jumped on it and therefore I see I've just seen the back of the market as I was in this in fact is the self and seeing these parents with kids. And then like you said they don't the shop and so I just thought I'd make great ideas a ploy it's not don't exist at the minute here so you have a kind of a drop in shop basically it's. A shared learning as well in it so as well as. The children gaining some food from it because you have to have. A little company to get paid even if you don't want. Yes a time to chill out is it yeah or even go insane you call your place and she's a bit coming oh yeah. So in the age groups that you've got to get you sad for so we love it so at the time of who want to do often do in the right thing go into the whole what just put them into groups and you know I think you know we always do news so we get to know each other and get in and if it's going on in the week to share it with us and then they go off into groups to devise pieces to do group games and sometimes your script props the whole thing and yang and they just get to what the different ages because it's quite a it's quite big work it is not a sound through trial and error that that age group the what. They do companies for the younger ones of the older ones so what's the difference between doing the drama skills and the musical thing is it kind of separate and suggest or does or what Together yes no musical face is. Done thin thing getting that thin combined So it's a lot more based on musicals so you get more of your green spray things that scripts from plays and weapons drama skills is more like. Legal drama so it's not monologues and it's not writing plays and using their own their own mind you know rather than have him write say a film on a play to work from because I think as well what is important about drama or don't if any of the parents come back I suppose well is it's getting much confidence out of them isn't because sometimes you find the children or is it because my daughter is totally opposite to me I'm quite in your face. And she's some reserved and quiet but when she's not doing drama at school of motives the difference in her like. Questionnaires and she's will speak to people to a little girl as well to how it is met It's amazing to say a lot of that some children have come to me and you know they've been quiet in a shout and what with and series after a few months I do like showcase a parent so parents are going through what they've been doing and one of the parents for me over she said I cannot believe my daughter's just sort of her stage in life she said I would never even thought that she would do that kind of just watch to watch the children life come in in one place and then just develop it so different place it's amazing and they learn so many skills and life skills are learned self-discipline you learn much you know what time in what respect and what deadlines it's all stuff that we need in there because this is something that's still on the curriculum a school do they still do want drama or a musical leastways not push not. Know which is a shame and. It complements everything else that they do you know college and work I. Think there's this whole I know you got a I got a lot more girls and I would love to you know get it so there is this is stigma less and sometimes young bodies to. Oh no that's right so I'm trying to get out you know I'm trying to like get rid of that because. You have got some lads come in and you know they're right shy and some of the friends over at Langley goes drama but the brilliantly humor out of the shot so I'm trying to get these kids that actually has a place where these kids seem calm and just express themselves creatively what I'm trying to develop and so that they can take that out of out of the room because a lot of and you know the Coleman express look in my space and sometimes they can't express the same way at home always school or with friends so I'm trying to give them the life skills so that they can take that out of the class because music is something that's in you for your family because I know you very well and he's got a music studio and he's got a lot of tell him it's coming in 3 from Manchester Free that is draw me 6 something that you've always done know it's something I'm going to laugh right after I do not commit self since I was 9 Ok and. I just kind of stumbled across the teach and I noticed a proper passion for it light bring in get this out of over people and so still I love doing it myself and I still go through workshops and things myself well and I was in it and I. Like kids English so much. That teaching drama over than I was just lying. And then I came back and just this side oh what was it like getting into such a young age he Iraq to him yeah well for me I've I've always. Been great so they have me in life it was. When I went to college at farming and then when I left I did want to go through you know because it's all my learning and I've always been quite entrepreneurial So my own business and then to the rest from there I know why is that the cost of this. So drop all these ones that are going to be. 16 pounds for a block of full. Question Ok. Be choosers was if it's just so we can make Thursday Kentucky on Wednesday I think it is flexible every week which which honestly is it that you are asked to Eastlands So that is the big one opposite since it is Ground 0 kind of base inside and they got community room which is. Ok And you have a website live here is why we can go and get more information yet you can find me on Facebook and Instagram from air and all the information from there you have just seen the important bit that I was well take care of you feature. So that Olivia is Powell performing costs some would put more information on that on social media as well parents you know any questions to ask I just think it's not pretty and I don't. Yeah I thought saying that when he came in before that I have a bunk bed and a full shopping trolley i think i need much I had a meltdown and the light looks like he's turned into the accessed in the middle of the data I did on the drug. That is you might say you know and I just think yeah and it's all for this obviously the other day you know my daughter screams 20 minutes you scream in the trolley because they don't like a Their high voice that makes them not you know if I think behind is giving parents a set time we have know they can go and do the shopping yeah and they can judge the kids off to class Yeah yeah you know son sorry 1st on like my child is exactly what you said before he was in school he was a bit quiet doesn't really speak much doesn't interact with the others and we took him to drama for a year and the change was phenomenal like he got on stage and did a play at the end of the year and we never fall he could do that it's just makes such a massive difference and so that's all of social skills makes a move which. So yeah I would definitely recommend it so I mean to go to the Costas and I'm going to definitely come along because it's not far from the middle so and so when they're when they're in I'm sorry and when people are now in them and the does it changes in the same way and it's nice to watch and and then yes they take it with them for the last. Scene if you want to just with how know what the sessions so the ones I start a false 5 minutes long so I try to never again yeah you know the time showing him things but yet done you know and then they also have to Lassie's into our lives to never do that in our war and but that's based ask you in school hall you know well so what do you. With these ones do you have to say for example I'm in the area and I just want to drop in for that I cannot do that or Yeah Ok so I don't have to join up and do the ones out in the mean I always have the doors open so I've had people you know just passing back and while it's going on and the conductor man you know me yeah thank you very much Ok so it's a living power performing arts u.k. And he said you've also got a Facebook. Site as well how powerful and thank you so much for coming and. We're going to have Scott was going to do in the play as well because you've said that your going to the indie going to have children saying I'm going to do that. Thank you very much I'm going to get into it see what Nazi boy by beyond say hey on b.b.c. Radio Manchester. You Sam. You know. That is naughty boy beyond say and that is running. On b.b.c. Radio Manchester now how will it be best instances when a young man 65 born with a brain damage told his sister that he loves Christine killed off full He who has cerebral palsy I'm impaired vision was given the dominating process he was born and the doctors feared that he was never walk or smile but after a loving family from Heywood who came in and then later adopted him Chris has since defined the doc says as a gift big thanks to his sister Jade he can now communicate using sign language so it's a lovely story now do you know what children's school teaching sign language was actually amazed that my daughter came home and she knew a little bit of sign language because of the school and also on c.b. She's a real. Muscle. I was that yeah yeah that's all it's a teacher back and you can also see and I can see babies in some of the children's programs they are teaching them a little bit society which I think lovely. Now is really important skills yeah you have a cast on ones you've taught sign language and. A maybe it's trying to. Dream Yeah. Yeah I mean I know a lady that teaches language. Lawson's is. Hoping to work together to teach people who are deaf because they don't have the you know the same opportunities to learn those kind of skills so it's important to teach children from a young child like any of the law. So him and. When you when your children tell you that you love you all they'll tell you an important message can you remember the last time when they said that to you will said something that you just thought oh a new low. Well I my little boy so if he's 7th birthday you know that the the die. Are supposed to ask a magic on my bad to just kind of wipes dangerous out a chance and then he just came out here I don't know man just when you see now I do you know it's everything you day when I do you really appreciate and I just want you to know I do notice everything so thank you. You know that you've ever said. Yeah so I think I'll go to a you know I am do them do you know I'm not someone I know yeah that's the time I you know he's Yeah. Those are the real nice of my. School can you remember to be honest before I left and I coming out because I know not going to see them support and said Ok both stood on the couch and give me a hoax on the same time and it just said you know. What like I say it's about all of the most yeah. The last time you like what you say it is like you know. Why you see them wow this is my reading fiction and I see did recently say something but now I'm going to feel good because they don't remember the exact was you know Ok yeah but it was something something. About loving me and dad and my mom and it was just the way she phrased it which I'm kicking myself now but I did. Yeah I'm hoping there's more to come. Out of the fire is really cool I was. Told myself things like a puppy need to recall the law thing it's the Foreign Min the cars just getting to thinking of the Yeah I mean when they do something precious because when I see my dog Salafi boat. Hey the Lafuente with the friends is completely different and it just isn't nice but a few weeks ago a few weeks because last month actually I won an award for. Best present. Thank you might do as I'm so proud even mineral I just saw. That was so nice but Parviz like if you don't let me like I was. Placed just as you said you've got to embrace them. So I can imagine why Khalid Ali was a cry you know not because when he child says something or you just can't you just want to keep that memory down and it's also and you know the other 90 percent of parents sometimes really quite difficult challenge and you know the balance you not see there he way can and he hey there are never any trying to kind of balance do everything while and you feel like failing. And then they say that well thank them everything else about. It kind of all the stuff that if I'm really hard I think heist you know that so it's about yeah. And he joins me now because we need 25 you might be that Paul the deposit Yeah I think if you would have me to be there is I was a talk a few weeks ago was impending about the any so you doing one of these baby show things and there was a guy saying about teaching languages and he told you saying should teach your children this you know Munder in all these different languages well the Your Yeah and we all the school teacher from go our kids can't speak any of those languages but we're all right if something isn't it if they love you you've done a good job yeah yeah the most important thing not whether they can see you 25 languages and go at the grave of it's well. Because I think he gets to the age of when he is kind of stuck because I did I did stop saying it to my parents that I love you and I had a guest on that changed my perception in the way that I think because. You saying I'm not going to be him forever saying as many as perhaps you can so when every phone call now I always say I look at the moment. And it is something I want to keep keep going and I'm hoping that my daughter will be key from so you know I don't it's gets not she's thinking that she's to say that she loves Mom do you thing I notice is that when they get older they can speak more and they can do things themselves and accomplish things one specific example someone had this big things that happened I thought. Maybe state level and it's a bit like oh you know. And then in the maybe one thought he doesn't he's not going to need a suit and you know I think I she says that you need to be still what is that not always me doesn't look so right. You always need to tell me what your boss was you know just was a little something on social media in the sense that when you have assume one of the moments with a saw and it's like Sly like right I saw. Did you watch I. Cry I cry because I think there is having a son and a dog I can see how this happens because a boy can say you know if a boy you know I mean he's a pot and that has their own family. That's kind of thought they'd I said it's just the West I suppose you know gender roles it's where they go often that the common man in the family or what I mean where is she doles. They're always close to the moment they have the baby that close with that you know and it's come at the door through the moment his family very close so much so I know that all things being well I thought with my old support when she said like he's like along the spray It's like Vegas like break when he saw my grades up and it's like oh my god you're so go off and help the family and be preoccupied with God it will be about. Heaven you know if you haven't had family and they don't know which one I'm why I founded my family's life my partner's really good friends with my mom come with yeah my children see probably my more than the day. When he said Mom I'm feeling Felice's memory of late but it's because she lives her away and I don't.