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One disease at 6 o'clock AM will send the post mortem examination is ongoing in Malaysia into the death of a teenager from London who died on a family holiday the body of Nora Cora who was 15 was found yesterday 10 days after she went missing from a jungle resort police say they still don't have any definitive answers from an autopsy that began this morning her family released a statement thanking the hundreds of people who helped in the search our reporter Howard Johnson is in Malaysia and has the latest It's been a long and frustrating day for people covering the story you can see the international media here Malaysian media they have news agencies newspapers from all around the world and in the last few minutes the police came out and gave a press conference this post-mortem has been going on for more than 8 hours and what they have said is that there has been no conclusive report given yet that this is still ongoing this post-mortem examination and they will give us more details more in another press conference but that has not been confirmed yet what time we will find out when that press conference takes place the prime minister has accused M.P.'s who opposed breaks it of taking part in a terrible collaboration with the E.U. Boris Johnson warned that the more Brussels or bricks it could be blocked in Parliament the more they refused to renegotiate the withdrawal deal the general secretary of the United. Union Len McCluskey fears a no deal scenario may become unavoidable it's going to be almost impossible to stop us but the important thing for me is for Labor to continue to hold a very clear vision of the type of Britain we want to be in the relationship we want with Europe because come the 31st of October there is still going to have to be discussion about trade deals and about what kind of relationship we have the speaker of the House of Representatives says a trade deal between the U.K. And America won't get through Congress if BRACKS It undermines the Good Friday Agreement Nancy Pelosi says leaving the E.U. Can put the Irish peace deal at risk. Accident investigators say tests on the body of the Argentinian footballer Amelia know Salla show he was exposed to harmful levels of carbon monoxide before his light aircraft crashed in the English Channel the body of the pilot David Ibbotson has never been found our reporter Thomas Morgan has the story toxicology tests on a 1000000 or so dollars a body sure that the level of carbon monoxide was so great that it could have caused a seizure in consciousness or a heart attack and they also say that they believed David and would also likely would have been suffering from exposure to the gust passenger groups of rate reacted with dismay to the latest increase in train fares a rise of 2.8 percent will take effect in January after the latest inflation figures were published this morning the hike will apply to 40 percent of fares including season tickets Labour's transport spokesman Andy McDonald said rail users were getting a poor deal so the slump in the 1st bill for a long suffering real passengers that's now a 40 percent hike in rail fares from 20 times the current So the average season tickets and now over 3000 pounds is just too much now with this evening sports headlines he's Jamie Reid and a Wednesday at Lord's prevented any play on the opening day of the 2nd Test match persistent rain throughout the day here in London left both England and Australia disappointed to football where Chelsea play Liverpool tonight in the U.A.E. For Super Cup final in a STEM ball the match will be the 1st major men's fixture in Europe to be officiated by a female referee and the sale of financially troubled League One side Bolton Wanderers appears ready to go through after the court order blocking a takeover was adjourned Please join me London's rather cumbersome taken salad and the rain expected as he had through the rest of the day railing into the evening but gradually it will start to dry out in the meantime though some heavy prolonged . Spell's you might just hear a rumble of thunder the temperatures not too impressive in the wind as well which is quite blustery we're looking at a maximum today of just 18 Celsius more likely to be around 16 or 17 away from central London Now overnight the rain gradually clears eastwards it will stay largely try the risk of a shower but like I say largely dry but only cloudy limited clear spells and the minimum temperature not dropping too far to or a mild night at around 16 Celsius for tomorrow a bride today the cloud breaks up a scattered showers potentially but last you try and sunny through tomorrow afternoon B.B.C. Radio London it's 5 past 6 on a digital radio 94.9 F.M. And on B.B.C. Sounds this is London this is B.B.C. Radio London Eddie Nestor's drive time this is B.B.C. Radio in London my name is you just heard they're taking your calls or texts and your emails London stories London talking points we're supposed to be talking about the weather we don't know why is that not what as I grew up as a kid the one thing that we were still whole nice day and it was cold today yeah eating all who and I didn't put the raincoat on today or put the thick coat on and of got the jumper and the moths have been at the jumper and producer sort of. 12345 No no I wouldn't put it. This is a joyous time that. Issue that we just with. For all sorts of reasons is very very close to me or of wanted to have it on since Monday cervical cancer and it's about you just heard the G.P. Tell us that screening is lowest level for a whole minute for why what why do you think the take up of something that's so important so fundamental and can be so devastated. Thing is low can you help me I mean particularly women but not exclusively we're carrying our conversation about what is a right amount of time for children to be on social media. Experts who are very very worried about the negative xpect it's having on our children's mental health the anxiety is probable and it is something I can say it is something I understand but I also as a parent understand how easy and convenient it is to say here's a tablet or you know here's the cause you need to tell him if you're working full time you need a mini feel self said a couple of nice ones there for us to talk about I'd love to hear your thoughts 107312000 if you've been to we recently do you see parents like we would from Joanne earlier on to saying that she works in sales reason she sees people coming to the cafe with the time kids are on tablets and the parents chatting away and sometimes the kids disappear the parents are so focused on their conversation they don't even know where the children Oh but certainly if I go to a restaurant with my 2 children Mrs Nestor there will be a tablet for money does that make me selfish were you making me invite 087312000 text 81 triple 3 star a message with the word London Clive How are you. All and lost your question yes I may have for you. But you. You go to a doctor. And you know I was to give you an internal examination. Which you could possibly have in laws I think could be cancerous How would you. What a great thing cause I. Have done it and I'm so I won't tell you how I would feel I can tell you how I did feel sort of 2 terms in my life when I've gone in and been absolutely terrified it just so happens because I don't have a regular doctor I don't have a doctorate are going along make who comes to the family who's been when it doesn't work like that that there's a doctor both toy I'm so I've had serious invasive investigations right have been women both of them have been young enough I felt to be my niece right I now felt really really uncomfortable so a year ago after talking about it on this show for nigh on a decade I went and had my prostate checked I went in knowing the what she was going to do she they young woman the doctor asked me if I wanted to get somebody else in the room I being incredibly nervous said something stupid like do you want somebody else in the room she didn't love she didn't laugh I turned around she put on gloves and she carried out the investigation. I fell full I felt embarrassed but I knew I had to do it on C A question. Because let's be honest being late and. Doing this. I have this. Comeback. Now a young girl to think that she's most of the cooking and that is. Being frightened it's not till the examination goes you great you take then you go through it a possibility you have dreaded say yeah but imagine if you had the it because it because you want your clever you know the earlier you catch cancers the more chance you've got defeating it so imagine if you do have and you don't have the investigation the about how many people and talk about how many people don't have the investigation because of fear they don't want to be told they don't want to know. Your sense of what you swore were NO NO NO I'M NOT sensible the 1st time I went for my examination to be told eventually that it was cancer I wouldn't a gun if it wasn't for Mrs Nestor had no intention of going I went partly because I'm on the radio would be a total hypocrite here talking to guys about prostate cancer one in a chance generally of men one in 3 or 4 if you're God it looks like me and I didn't go for it myself and too many people I know have it but I don't know if you were a woman listening how does it feel to have to miserable old guys talking about why women won't go for me please don't let that happen on the radio please talk to me I want you to tell me I don't want people to towel guys talking about why women aren't going for smears you communicate better your career or the last certainly on the radio in any case so I need you please if you've gone for one if you put it off if you've been too busy if something happened to or friend a need to hear your stories place 080-731-2000 why more women going to take state one trip 23 and start your message with the word London emails to be docked NESTORE. Never heard anything so ridiculous in my life 2 men talking about why women going for a smear test come up put it straight for goodness sake Susie Davis right is going to talk to me now about children in the worries about children on the internet it's a study Imperial College C L as well and they say no no social media no phone in the bedroom of the 10 o'clock it's causing great anxiety a 40 percent more chance of having anxiety issues if you're checking your phone more than 3 terms a day that would be. Just about everybody wouldn't thank you very much for talking to me now you set up papaya Tell me about it I could be evening yes a part is a people than. By any young adolescent and that by we having it. Be. With. Me with this. We're going to have to have a break in a little while on him and I want to come back and we will have time to discuss it but I want to be can I remember talking to a candidate about his daughter and about how his daughter dishes off record about how his daughter was affected particularly by social media and how much more pernicious young girls can be. Relative to the fact that you know we have adverts being banned because they are pushing stereotypes of men and women is there a difference generally you do you think about how you might be affected as opposed to a young boy. By. The evidence think. By . The. Day. What. Did you get out of the conversation I don't know if you've heard this. Vulnerable on this one so. If you come at me like some kind of expert on a push back what did we get out of it did we get that we had allowed them too much freedom that we should have. What did what do we get out of that conversation you parents we have a. Very important conversation to realize I wasn't alone we have widely really the heart the heart why are we playing actually required. And really the. Problem now. Will come up with. The gavel we ready cannot. Stay with we'll investigate those solutions were that you looked upon if you're a mom or dad if you worried concerned interested in your child's social media usage and the news that actually after 10 o'clock they shouldn't have in there and there's a higher chance of anxiety if they're looking at their phone for likes all the time or maybe you've had an experience an 87312000 I'll be back with Susie Davies from after we've heard what's happening on London's roads. As he calls around my statement because of the ongoing closure of Westminster Bridge westbound bridge 3 in both directions until November the. Nov 9th this is because of upgrading to security barriers said Westminster Bridge Road Lambeth Palace Road Wall Street Bridge Lambeth Bridge a busy as people divert slow on the approaches to Trafalgar Square as well because of nearby works Tower Bridge Road to restrain slow because of on camera pans the sound circular now slows the ongoing closure of huntsmen bridge of course and that slow in both directions approaching the river crossing at Dartford tonight and 25 slow clockwise 14 Heathrow after an accident which took out the line London Overground severe delays New Cross Gate to Crystal Palace West Croydon signal failure to plan for that really raise B.B.C. Radio and more from a 106 this Islam. Sure you never quite know that here says the man who grew up in the British Museum because his dad worked that started to take from there was also the man who had one of those skeletons and he straps it into the passenger seat of his car and he drives around London later nights plantains late night radio if a name I reckon the best time in the 24 hour clock in London is off the tongue least B.B.C. Radio London. I'm speaking to Susie Davis Susie set up papaya parents again it's Phone addiction in young adolescents. We're talking about it because there's been this study by Imperial College in U.C.L. And it's quite worrying some of the findings and are going to more detail after 7 o'clock on those findings but broad strokes it is an experiment a social experiment and all children are the guinea pigs and nobody know who's the extent of the anxiety but we know the anxiety exists we know bullying happens we know that you know sleep hygiene suffers and something happens to their brains we know that. But we don't know how long lasting is and certainly one of the things I'm trying to find out is how long do you allow your children or do they play with each other only I heard a story about 2 friends the other day. One came to stay over with the other and then after a couple of days he said I'm going home and dad said Why is he gay and I am of the 2 fool and he said no he's going so that we can play on the X. Books together so ones at his house who want to see I was going. To talk about kills primarily You annoy me. And I know all this. Me I mean she. Don't mean me it's people think. It's because I've never been into gaming and I've done reports about things like phone I am but I go to people's houses and I see 13 year olds playing Grand Theft Auto and I hear the language and I'm one of things I never like to do is I don't want to judge anybody because I'm still working at this parenting thing and I'm blessed to have this show and people come when I speak to experts like you other parents and they help me to understand it better. Than doing what were they watching and what were the experiences they were having. Moving past May I saw this title shot up quite a bit but I'm sorry for me getting gaming because of the detail of what the young adult just seems highly probable that mental for young people that I'm almost afraid of and sometimes like a crystal ball to see what created may happen to us tastemakers some folks and such a star power parent is such the from my A The pirates off the power of A.B.C. Thought it was I was like is it if you mention that I think not help us we just put it up she said we have like a structure where is where I need your help what what finally did you change. I think we can see you naked with a cup of coffee was that we were going to say but we were getting to each other about. My claims of. Fame limits I'd say so maybe on up. A basic phone every year and Michael says school we started. Online discussion that we vote on what product or what time what shop you know we've got we know we've got we've got we've got I mean about March of school yes and there are conversations about but that's important isn't it means that we need to take. On it so I think it really helps that one of the I think the stated goal cases are like. That because she thought. The door such as when I often got picked it in the manner of how downloading our apples at the center a little explicit video was it was hard not have clued in sketchy minutes of had downloaded actually done on the group I mean really how am I going to. Help them think about this for the drop of a few seconds on the walk with the little kid I'm also sure they're like but you know everyone started to talk about the cost small minority of a POW POW POW children it's just did anything anybody take pictures about sanitation. That can make a stand and a little bit different now that we have a little bit more evidence behind us. To have essentially. Brilliant talking to Susie and they can find you anybody want to talk to you set up on line of these anybody wanted to find out what you were doing and what you were experiencing what should they do yet we call proposals. Coming up contact awesomely around what it's. Governess look of the senses in thanks so much free time bends in Bones Oh how one of you made of this conversation thus far. Could even get me. Even my kids are quite old and yours now that 21 and 24 so I. Think phonology changed and yeah I did same thing as a kid saying that I want this is the latest greatest things that other kids who go to school may want and why can't we have it. The same as what you're doing now is just saying no. Do you know that you know do you know somebody told me that that would be the oddest thing to you know and you know I'm shy as you probably know been teased the single most difficult thing to say to my children and find myself saying it so much and I feel so Rubel when I say and I start to stop feeling guilty and. No no no no no and is no longer feeling this is studies we know I can see I do know why it makes me feel. My parents are the same Remember way back when when I said my dad who was very much into cycling that I want to chop. Chop it off and he goes and buy the Gold Spike ladies like it. Or agree it would again as well and I just slightly before that time yeah. And the basic thing is my parents can afford it but I had fluffy saying I wish not to buy the latest greatest things I knew I was about yeah and I didn't mean money so we kind of knew that. Yeah you're lucky pain where I came from in Hackney where I came from in Hackney we made up our own bikes so there were bits of kinds of bikes and you made up you up to I thought was going to be an engine a one point everybody and made it I tell my children now I can't afford it they say to me I want Playstation 4 I want but then I saw nothing in what you laughing yes you CAN YOU JUST DON'T WANT TO BUY No I can't afford yes you can dead my friend said you're rich you're on the radio show your friend I'm on the radio don't talk when you go to school Scuse me a person would have put Gys 008073123 Tell me about saying no to you children are you good at it. This is. Almost silly because a say so often it absolutely breaks my heart every Thomas. Show neither of Klawonn how many of you didn't think 107312002 this before the Advertising Standards Authority has banned 2 adverts which she said broke a new rule is going to prevent home for gender stereotypes one had for Philadelphia's self cheese had complaints for showing 2 men or 2 new fathers please forgive me leaving a baby on a restaurant buff a conveyor belt while distracted by food the other advert for votes showed mainly men in adventurous areas while women sat with the pram the essays investigations manage it just the time I said research suggested the adverts could have a detrimental impact the research that we carried out showed that there are real world homes that come from gender stereotypes and office the advertising only plays a small POS in gender stereotypes of pervasive throughout society the types of homes you might be talking about are for example affecting people's aspirations you know my effects the career choices that girls make or boys make. So what sexist in how do you define it and is it going to be subjective again Humphries is mom of 2 goes who runs a toy company and joins me now you could talk about a couple of our subjects today again a good afternoon to you know so we've seen these adverts I have seen on Apple and what do you reckon Well I'm right I'm not the problem with the today is instead of being in your face sexism is a sort of drip feeding of inside you with gender stereotyping which sounds like one of those really sort of. Human comments yeah you do. Like. No cardboard exit you don't love anything you have no use for your job radio might be a good. Absolutely but the point being is that if they were in your face you would know Oh that's ridiculous but when you've got such a reasonable looking at it when you can actually see the humor in it what you're not seeing is the fact that he's backing up these outdated gender stereotypes that fathers you know can play as competent as mothers it's not just about you know putting women their price is actually undermining men in the same way that undermines women. Can you say yourself. Yes absolutely I mean you might be right I'm not saying that you're not right sound like you're a killjoy Yes absolutely and I think I was listening to various other people. Have a country why do we have anything serious about everything but I think the point is that there's got to be a line where you say no we don't want our kids growing up with these stereotypes we want them to have all the choices that perhaps we didn't have we want men to think that they can be a brilliant father and they can enjoy themselves parenting we don't want women to think that they only can be carrots it's all about choice and the more choice our kids have. Let's then let's daughter would have had a career it would be if. He would have had no career poor mother in law joke the win just tell me where this is going to end because you could put what you wanted but I mean I know from experience as a father if I'm honest with you I wasn't particularly interested in my children until I could speak to them and go riding with them a good thing wasn't right Mrs Nestor wanted to be with Demi she felt she needed to be so obvious that gender stereotype didn't know I think every one of individual probably enough I was a very good baby. My husband absolutely brilliant I think every family individual every person in the vigil and you find your own path and that's again is the point about if you stereotype you know telling people the only way that they can be a good parent is to follow this particular part actually just do what feels good but do it your own way and stop having this sort of drip feed of people saying this is how it is to be this is what you do. When that comes across for something like driving where statistically young boys are having more. Accidents then young girl so there is a definite difference to clean but you're not allowed to make any distinction in how much you charge for insurance he. That I don't see how backed is related but which up backing up gender stereotype closing my thing is really saying I mean it's very diverse the same as what I'm saying I know there are broad strokes Yes We're agreeing with each other because I think we're not all the same and therefore these ads shouldn't continue that. Sort of gender stereotyping So you're all for it then I'm all for it because I love the fact that there is a line in the sand so when people are putting me that but together there is something they'll have to think OK is that going to be in breach of this regulation less American troop level they can think of really funny travel stuff and not go once these ladies stare at him well OK brave men can't breastfeed so let's see where they go. I think have you got the knowledge this is thank you very much Kate appreciate you and again we say I can do it for myself it's just after half 6 What do you think everything these adverts if you heard about the banning of adverts that follow stereotypes of men and women and what D.F. Think again are there telling us what she thought we'll get to those smears 2 guys talking about smear tests and I still haven't had any involvement from any woman why is the uptake so low or what about social media and the adverse effects on our children away 107312000 security one time for the headlines. On those headlines are most in the post mortem examinations ongoing in Malaysia into the death of a teenager from London who died on a family holiday the body of Nora Cora who was 15 was found yesterday 10 days after she went missing from a jungle Reserve. Police say they still don't have any definitive answers from and also upsy The began this morning the prime minister's accused M.P.'s who are against practices of a terrible collaboration with the E.U. It comes after the former chancellor Philip Hammond said Boris Johnson had wrecked prospects of another deal and their accident report says Emillio Emillio Sala was exposed to dangerous levels of carbon monoxide before he died in a plane crash in January it says it's likely the pilots was also affected during the flight from France to Cardiff and rail commuters are facing an increase in ticket prices next year almost 3 percent based on the latest inflation figure the average cost of a season ticket is expected to rise by more than 100 pounds London's weather any lingering rain will crack gradually clear away this evening to leave most places dry and cloudy overnight a few occasional showers are still possible after midnight a minimum temperature of 13 degrees Celsius that is 55 degrees Fahrenheit now with the B.B.C. Radio London travel his body rates. Slow both ways on the M 25 crossing the river at Dartford to the sea slightly better than it was yesterday but still slow on the approach Westminster Bridge Road closed both ways Westminster Bridge closed westbound for works until November is causing problems in the area as you can imagine Lambeth Bridge Waterloo Bridge Westminster Bridge Road a Canton road Westfield lane the traffic lights of packed up there near the petrol station to please take care of anyone will it ferry on board generator issue really rings B.B.C. Radio London more from a call to 2. P.C.'s radio. Asked the London school with a stop with the cricket this is Jamie Reed at the sports desk the 1st day of the 2nd Ashes Test between England and Australia was abandoned without a ball being bowled because of or. At Lord's will a break in the weather did allow a 330 start to be show Jules only 4 yep you guessed it further rain into bin Well there's yet to be a toss in the teams haven't officially be names however pace bowler Archer was presented with easing go in camp confirming that he will make his Test debut the former sorry and England captain Alec Stewart is clearly a fan of Archer has a special talent a serious talent but we just have to make sure that we don't build him up into something that the U.S. And yet you know the lad is 24 he hasn't played a Test match yet yes he did wonderfully well in the World Cup I'm told that super over so well which enabled England to lift the trophy I'm so used to be has speed he has height he has all the attributes that you'd want for a quick bowler but you are playing against someone who's a very very special talent in Steve Smith So it will be good contest with Middlesex aiming to qualify for the knockout stages continue their T 20 blast campaigns in ice when they travel to Chelmsford to take on the Essex Eagles under the lights if the weather stays fair there's commentary of the game let's cross our fingers I'm sure B.B.C. Radio London's Kevin hand is doing now at the County Ground Well that's a big if Jamie frustration here is the rain has been falling for most of the day the $630.00 toss has indeed been delayed but efforts are being made to clear the outfield enjoy the covers as we speak more rain is expected over the next couple of hours so I was already turned that $927.00 cuts off that's the last point of 5 over a side match can be played Middlesex are 2nd in the great Essex towards the bottom but Chelmsford has been a fortress over the years about supports a peace wouldn't be a bad return instead of the lottery of a heavily reduced game Karen thanks very much indeed you can keep up to date as mentioned via the B.B.C. London website if indeed plate does get under way in that fixture Kevin will keep you fully up to date Chelsea manager Frank Lampard says he will give everything to beat Liverpool in the U.A.E. Super Cup the sea evening the Blues boss was twice a losing finalist in. The competition when he played that was in 20122013 he now has the opportunity to get his hands on his 1st piece of silverware since becoming the club's head coach over the summer Lampard says that it would be special to win not just for the team but also on a personal level remains the looks of the club I know that firsthand because I lost so it's important as a club like Chelsea that we give everything to try and win it because it leads on to your 2nd point yes it does mean something it means something to us another trophy is a club and for me it would be a really nice start for me personally but more than that feeling for the prize with the season coming up that we can compete against Liverpool win a cup down mind that goes down into history and go on from there rounding up the football news the sale of financially troubled Baltimore under is appears ready to go through after the court order blocking at Sago was adjourned. Radio 94.9 F.M. And on B.B.C. Sounds. This is B.B.C. Radio London and the masters Dr. Thank you very much Jamie Jamie telling us about the world of sport there this is the radio and it's drivetime show at money weather horrible go to put that and because it's really important I was born in England and I speak English and we do need to recognise the weather is a thing that we talk about better than anything else about speaking about social media Hello our children spend on tablets What effect might be having on them how do we know it's the right one when do they get the mobile phone we do things technological and certainly we take those through all the way through till 8 pm. But as I said it was a subject that I read about on Sunday they a strange wife of the now prime minister of this country had 2 operations earlier this year she talked about being too busy something else ways got in the way of her going for the test at the same time we talked to Dr Philip Mackay which will play again produce a side if you don't mind we will play that again for you after 7 o'clock and she talked about the lowest uptake almost ever and I want to know why that is what are the barriers to going and our farmers of talking to Clive I just believe here in London there on London's premium station to God he's talking about why women don't have a smear test is just ridiculous so they put a call in and I thank you very much for answering that call. Good evening to you now 1st time to work and to drive and it's an important subject that you choose to engage with us on when the last choice you went for us man and was it immediately that you got ego the letter. Was Made it was really really great. I went and met them. Probably within a week. 9. I'm guessing that the letter is an indication the Nabi there was something to investigate this highway actually came back that's why I'm a name to this mining tirades you know young women to have marry even if it's going to have one before and if they get the age you know 25 where you're at out in them so this clearly wasn't your smallest. Right so had you. Gone for it I never ever made the man the way my mate. My grandmother looked to that because. I've always been a lady really country and just about my man even though I'm a man like company well I was about to say Do you remember the experience did and does it get scuse me please forgive me and freeskiing dismissed but the cube because I can I can hear myself and people in their cars going he did it just does it get easier. I think he can take a nice quickie you can take a take a what with you and I call in marketing. Like. It's in keeping with what we're talking about today oh isn't this a nice photograph just something to take your mind off kind on you know OK let's be uncomfortable because I want to get to in fact I do want to deal with the uncomfortable B. N.S.T. With the serious pain where are we with this story because our COAG ignore the fact that a 1st time caller has told me that Eve come back with high risk cells which need treatment we were really shocked I couldn't believe that. You know I I haven't been you know and I think it has been I. Right away after all is time they cut done wrong not straight away I told the wrong information I. Didn't stop saying that was wrong with some the cut done but they said no no it's just that this is this is a normal saying and we can treat if there's something wrong you know if it sells itself on very well we can treat them straightaway that's up for you know probably not to worry about anything so that's what they said on Friday so he's looking at laser treatment and I did it was called LET Streetman so it stuck and saying so they cut they actually cut the cells away I what was really amazing was that when I went back to have the investigation the colposcopy actually offered Steve a treatment that often and same often a what do you need to prepare yourself mentally and well I didn't really have time to I was just I relieved that I could do it that often. I didn't really get the self any time think but I just said yes try to I DID you can when you room I went on my own I tries I live it and now I was stuck in the car I couldn't believe it they said you can go home again and I thought took can sit down and they said leave about an hour and then drive home. Did you need aspirin painkiller Well I did have pain killers. Back and I like to keep our face low I roughly half an hour after I had the I must strike they did the procedure I just had a little cry I could even get dressed right why I just had a bit of a cry but that was none of that was planned I just couldn't tell what I see that that's why I asked Surely you know will meet me talk about me I would have needed it just to get myself psychologically prepared for it and you've gone in so it doesn't surprise me that you had an L. Cry. That this stuff really really know made so many people in that way. And. That made you feel comfortable. And there you so much humor as well with by the way he may not be willing to go but you know and I'm sure I'm glad it worked but let me let me tell you that some of the women I know having what's akin to a dual tube station type jokey comedy environment while their legs are up in Stewart's is not something that they would have found comforting Exactly yeah I think but. Yes they. Had before I think it wasn't done by theme out it was done by a male a young male minister and it. That was a bit of. Slightly embarrassing Why did it so Philip you had me in front of him we went for it because that's the kind of radio I want to try and do did you think had I known it was a young man I would have had a wax I would have done something different did you think. About it I didn't much time I think Mike a complete joke a particular spelling by race and. I think he can direct I don't know if he was the state and or even itself I'm not quite sure bet that to be quite honest I mean a female paper in the same red to the style in a paper NO NO NO. Did they say because if I had this cool before they use you know they are stiff the students could come in I get it when I go for my skin they say can a students come in and stand in M.L. I friends and I think OK I don't know if I was having If I was having that the prostate examination that I had recently and they said look can we have these 8 people in the show and the ominous a year to that exactly I mean. If you really read it I want people to say. I want to live in the limit rather a just a doctor and just get on with it right so listen listen you know listen to this and it's really really important Clive and I mean Clive we're talking about it I think a little uncomfortable right as 2 blokes talking about something. Only women you wanted my cool when I was talking to Dr Phillip OK he we were talking about with a rule it was important to women. If the doctor was male female Listen to this text it just come in right so I'm reading history after screening this subject is not appropriate for a male presenter female presenter Yes Does it. Has the affected the way that you've spoken about. The fact that I'm a guy. Not to because to be quite honest and it was such a frightening saying finding out there is so over the telephone and eyes and that. I. See other things the other thing is is that. So much needs to be done to encourage people who are 10 and 25 to really really just guy when the best. Especially because we've got so many opportunities they behave I mean if you're in Ireland for example. You have to wait 5 to 6 months for your very very 1st result come back whereas in England you only have in the United Kingdom you only have to wait. Maybe a week or 2 possibly a few more wait it depends which part the country over in the army style desperate to get the message out on it. And they need to keep himself a big tree down there because then it will pay a fee every time you try and you like really care with a $50.00 people in the room next time you're just so grateful that you can go home and you've got that piece of mind once you've got the result I think it and brilliantly thank you very much for calling in to look after yourself and I'm really really happy that you know you've had the procedure and things are on the mend I don't know maybe you think I shouldn't be talking about this as a guy I think it's important you prove whether I should or should not be talking about it by where they even gauge the number in case you'd like 280-731-2000 text one triple 3 star your message with the word London a bit late to apologize. Barely with details of London's road. Bridges Road. Lambeth Palace Road congestions Waterloo Bridge across Lambeth Bridge this is traffic seeking alternative routes because Westminster Bridge is closed westbound for works and Bridge Street mice Minster it's closed as well us until November upgrade to the security barriers and so on. Northbound the Old Brompton Road temporary lights there don't see 70 westbound Bexleyheath shop because of a bust need to main Pickford lane to Brampton road he reads P.C. Radio London travel news for me just before B.B.C. Radio. Now it's a big. Better word for Al but we. See you on the. Other foot so you know Spanish explain it was a poem What are you going to give us every chance. I keep company engine can have a good time listen to partially he's making a killing down by. Covering London by 1st and emerging talent 5 nights a week because this amazing talent Friday from a great doctor. They have it so much. I don't like those types of Friday they're rubbish I don't like this to they they laughed at my mishap last week and I've got something planned for them this Friday Cosi it's Monday Tuesday Wednesday so said Judy Judy love today this is B.B.C. Radio London my name's Eddie Nestor and kind of think you know since I've been here I've always wanted to do the type of radio that I want to hear and that's called problem screw. You but it also means that we try to talk about what code to boozing it up with dumb how to boo season would suppose a guy talking about that which is most personal to women like a smear test food into that category but you've never been really disappointed me ever and I really appreciate that try to do it with respect. Even though we're hearing here this subject is not appropriate for a male presenter. Give us a call how are you Liz. Right so you come to this. A completely different point of view to tell everybody what you do for a living yeah. I'm. Not 25. And people. Were expecting. Liz I just want to stop you because I think your message is really really important can you just choose to Henry for me a 2nd we're trying to get that line as clear as we can I think if a SMI a nurse that does Manchester brings up a time when we got the lowest uptake to trying give help encourage women to women who might be scared then the least we can do is to hear it properly and I am struggling a bit there I'm sitting in listening to you with my cardigan and socks on yesterday evening and this morning I put the heating on to take the chill off at work or found out that I wasn't the only one to put the heating on Congrats with your placement in the list of presenters. Tony read them out on Sunday used to be the king your day will come it was printed took Brenda explain what it took about because I've got no idea but I will tell you that Mrs Nestor said to me when . Yesterday last night I said I don't know and even if I did know you would not go close when it's heating on and let's get back to something serious is the daily's. No no no no no it's not you know you know you honestly it's really important what we're talking about you know it took a lot of nonsense and we have a loft but this is really really serious so I appreciate very much you getting involved now I know you've got a message but let me lead you to the message we have some of the lowest takes ever in regards to this off to the spike involving I think mother of 227 year old Jade Goody lots of people were going and now it's go back tell us why that is and why people shouldn't be fearful. You know not even my. Younger daughter I don't have a problem if you're a liar it is quite funny. But I think it's going to surprise me as well to moan about the move so the people move on though we call them all. More only if you want to give them the control of our quest to keep of unwelcome stuff from it in terms of what they say before and off to do do they actually say it wasn't that bad because you would imagine that the people the younger people who come to see their mothers would have come. Oh but we're going to come home. Bring home we always talk for a long time for week or so the group I'm not sure probably the moment to call him up. But on top of a question can be political cause for some people have called me on Call so you know that everybody's got from. What I think people know when a good. Move on it would most most. Moussaoui fall because. It's also people just putting on something like I want to do you know there's a little reason for people who I think one of the couple of the world when you've got them on the economy the world should ignore the spaceship take a bus to the jury and we will consult a little slice come to the screen make. More noise if I can but. Then she was a little hard for I guess if you don't have to have a family say but anyway when we did it turned out that she had to have them for money team. On what they actually said but say hi to Congress you have to have a flag she probably with a mother having. Just one final message praise to anybody who's listening to my having such a. Oh you say COME ON know who. You . Are You see you know you from some people don't. You know. I think most people. Start almost all of the so you thought the law is silly well. Thank you very much appreciate you getting involved in the show sorry about the quality of. Hopefully you managed to get the thrust of war his was saying there in regards to it he's not anywhere near as bad as people. Think to apologize for the quality of the island honestly I really really do I was up in a no mail household so I have unfortunately a very male attitude towards going to the doctor. Never unless a limb were hanging off voided smear tests for most of my life primarily because in my head going to the doctor will result in me hearing something the odd rather know I eventually gave myself a good talking to and took myself off for one which was not the best experience of my life but only the worst is there from honest I was postmen opposed to sorry didn't make me wince slightly to my astonishment he came back to me the next time the lovely nurse female and in her forties understood exactly my nervousness when I told her about the wincing and honestly I didn't feel a thing I'm not sure that a male nurse would have been quite so sensitive only because it's something that a man will never have to do full blown investigations different the discomfort involved in a way that poking around in your nether reasons is something that I think can only be understood by the same gender. Well maybe I understand a little more now about my prostate on Karen but I take your point I think it's right with something that sensitive to you have somebody dealing with you that you feel is sympathetic if that is based upon the way they look how well they all what sex they are that then that that feeling of trust you know being honest with I just who want you to go and have the test is what we put on the show. On gender stereotyping in those adverts it's absurd nonsense as this message now social media drama for women created by themselves thank you very much. More of your cool Texan a message of mind you wear till 8 pm and on the show in night time drive time 3 subjects on the go with this if you don't mind because now we're having conversations about whether or not as a blogger should really be talking about it whether the ability to sensitively deal with a subject which is fine with me. I'm not sensitive in that way so what have it if you you know gone because something happened to your mom you fearful that something might be wrong and you had a bad experience you heard a story you don't have sex so you don't think you need to go I'd love to know because the story is that fewer women are going and I think it's worth us taken an opportunity to find out why that is because we know if something is wrong it can be bad it can be really really bad also on our agenda children. And using social media study by Imperial College on University College London is determined actually anxiety it's an experiment our children are guinea pigs how long is long enough for a day looking at who's governing what they look at all that sort of thing and I just want to talk to you at particularly as one of our senior journalists says she went to a restaurant with a friend and their 2 children and she took out the tablet straight away and she felt that that was or 4 but then she's not a parent one triple 3 Start your message with the word London emails to Eddy dot next stall at B.B.C. Talk to you pick up the phone to give us a call 807312000. 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Ongoing in Malaysia into the death of a teenager from London who died on a family holiday the body of nor a Koran who was 15 was found yesterday 10 days after she went missing from a jungle resort police say they still don't have any definitive answers from an autopsy that began this morning her family released a statement thanking the hundreds of people who helped in the search our reporter Howard Johnson is in Malaysia and has the latest It's been a long and frustrating day for people covering the story you can see the international media here Malaysian media they have news agencies newspapers from all around the world and in the last few minutes the police came out and gave a press conference this post-mortem has been going on for more than 8 hours and what they have said is that there has been no conclusive report given yet that this is still ongoing this post-mortem examination and they will give us more details more in another press conference but that has not been confirmed yet at what time we will find out when that press conference takes place the prime minister has.