Than. In themselves. They also. Then kids who come from married couple. Of other kids with their marry parents live for their whole childhood with their married parents that also can make a huge difference theyll do better in school theyll be more likely to college and even though they might composition magically over the last 3 or 4 decades more kids are in still families who are kids were both there so i think americans are going to figure this out Single Parents alone have high stress levels stigma because it gets them because theyre Single Parents. As teenagers we have these adult problems that we feel like were adults but were very valuable isnt that were still children in a way our emotions go up and down. Kids are making these very tough decisions around friends and peer groups and theyre making a lot of decisions around relationships and who their phone with intimacy with those people and just this kind of like these tough things like. A lot of kids in poverty. I never thought i would. Ever play because i was i am i thought. I do so much charity work so Much Community service or everyone at school is like the Spring Business you the smart one. Good one from our family is a shave a church girl i never thought this would happen. You dont think from one night. Its going to pop out 9 months later you just think oh i have it once here keep going with 5. And a half. And know what you see the picture of blue your whole world just. Turned upside down. And when you talk about participating in risky behavior whether were talking about having sex doing drugs drinking watching pornography whatever it is getting involved in social media. Becoming really addicted to whatever device it is that youre using if were talking about any of those risks to be i think its important to consider. The outcomes of those that its important to consider that were not living for just this month we have a child dont. Really think about the cost that it takes to be a parent the cost in time the cost and finances and i would encourage you to wait until youre married before you have kids wait until you know youve got that 2nd parent. What fills me is when i see all the academics are rocking. All lazy finally. Feeling really put all their hard work in their academics. And then they get pregnant with their cars and then they literally just take 3 steps back and i think its because theres a. New intelligence. About like relationships and the strategy. As an emotional. Im always been a daddys girl i would go to him for everything. Honest with you because what we have said. Is that you can behave any way that you choose you can make any decision or choice that you want to make whatever you feel this this day you can make those kinds of decisions and we will do the best that we can to alleviate the cons. But the fact is we cannot alleviate the consequences it is true that you make your own decisions you can choose any of these paths that you want to choose but we are being dishonest to you when we say we can help you avoid consequences there are consequences for the choices that you make having sex outside of marriage is not going to fill the void that youre trying to fill it only creates more and more of a vast open and. Within you because you are opening yourself in the most mourner of a way to another human being who is in no way committed to and his whose actions are really out of selfishness and likely and a desire to meet a need that day. The day i had him i started getting ready i started getting pain and then by the time i got there they told me it was too late for me to get better im just bawling my eyes out of like i dont know what to do ive never done this and whenever he got there. I was scared the 1st time i change just like right. Like i care and change the diaper it will finish but what do you mean you cant just type of like i can do the i am fix tina i can do this i cannot support for him i cannot just call work and raise a child. Tearing at this precious little boy mile at me and im thinking i cant do that at all the only thing going through my head was i cannot get. Yes you find yourself pregnant at 15 there is no easy option for you you can choose to have an abortion and that is not an easy option it leaves damage for the rest of your life for you and for your family. Having a child at 15. To all kinds of issues because now youre not just a Typical High School kid youre responsible for another human being youre going to have to find a way to bring in candy youre going to have to baby in the middle of the night when you have homework to. Go to class yourself and then your other option would be to place your baby for adoption which is the most difficult decision ive ever seen a young person it is a wonderful choice and it is often the best choice for that child but it is heart wrenching and extremely difficult. Yourself in an unplanned pregnancy we cant take away those consequences and you now have very difficult decisions to make. So i have my little brother. About to be still in it but i wake up at 6 in the morning at around 7 i will wake up my little brother and mother around 720 i will get ready ill drop them off at my sisters at 730 take my little brother discuss 730 i get the school and im racing im rushing to get there i get out of school at 130 and i was going to work out to get off the school i had. I play with 30 minutes but i have and then i go to work and whenever i get my 30 minute lunch break do the same thing go to my sisters house. And then i get off before her on mine i. Put them both to sleep i will start working on my homework got around 1030 and i. Free coffee better value you wanted. A sort of amazing country with liver so many friends in russia and im very excited to be here. I love that idea i think i can do that. Every night to make a lot of money with his name with millions and hundreds of me. And. He has the nice was. A great wall and nobody feels a lot better than me believe me and ill build a very inexpensive like a great great wall. d and just in case youre worried about whos going to pay for it mexico will pay for. It well see what happens who knows i always say who knows what well see on the field it will be successful. But i would do it the big story has this job for the future good but such. An arguer. Service is the key its. Just a pity the commission did. See more money because we. Put them in a jiffy shadow not just because. They are the house of the. God since we. I dont hate. Any. Kind of system definition in. The news. My name is sucking on the world social media mr jackson wanted on seats to show. Up at the border you know if you want but you know weve got to get it out. Because hes looks nice enough to move out because you know nazis pizza box and i use that down 6 to make it very very easy for those who teach school on drug use to people. Who. You know. Whove been forced to close because clubs do really hes trying to shift the life the music that. I love to jazz because he makes me copy i love he does because he makes me copy point beautiful. And when you go to church you have nothing. To do beyond awesome because the cost is spot on fox my mother loves to garden because. You know. I think. That i doubt. Not. So what i would say to a 15 year old is. All of that would have convinced you. That you are lazy that you are and that you are incapable but you are selfish because i dont believe any of those things and. I believe that you have purpose i believe that greatness is on the things. I believe that you. Bring value into other peoples lives and youll bring value to the lot of this child if you choose to hear that its not going to be the same and we have failed and it is now our job to come along and support to enable you to make better choices go. My mama watch the 1st year that i have and i want to tell their. Thank you mom i love you i appreciate you and were. Ok. Love differently. You were showing her love. Watching him. Taking care of me making sure how to look good on my head. She told me for the 1st time i know i never tell you this often but im so proud of you. You are working youre going to form. She told me that i was if. Youre a strong woman. For me to get a message saying im proud of you and everything they are. Everything thats regularly for me was the best. This is what i have been working for years to get us some people im proud of. Theres a group of villagers feel inspired river when someone in the group noticed a baby floated downstream. Of them in rushed into the water rescue the baby and brought it to sure before he could recover a number of babies were trying floating downstream. There was a steady flow of babies floating down the river and the whole village was involved in the rescue effort pulling babies out of the water and making sure they were mates. But not all of them could be. Some are pulled under by the ranging river whether slipped through the villagers hands while others fell back into the water as the villagers tried to save them. The villagers were saving as many babies is they could but before long they became exhausted from all their effort. Frustrated controversy erupted milledge one group argued that every possible hand was needed downstream to help rescue the babies they didnt have everyones help they would lose too many downstream. The other group argued that every possible hand was needed upstream to get find out how the babies were getting into the water they could save all of them in a limb and ate the need for the costly and time consuming efforts downstream. To find out how these babies are falling into the river in the 1st place we can stop this and no more babies will drown if we go upstream we can eliminate the cause of the problem. But its too risky some said might fail or take too long to lose too many lives. We owe it to the ones weve lost and our future children to fix the problem upstream and save one else calling them to get. A drink from a separate water fountain Houston Texas well how much. Ok but was different about the water. Coming out of it found a. Person. Yes a mountain that wasnt supposed to. Go up i realize most. People feel completely. All that life. Based on well. You know there are 2 ways to address poverty one is to try to prevent it from ever occurring in the 1st place and the 2nd is if it does occur to a 1000000 right you know provide people with assistance with child care with out thing that has to be but most people. Have to help those who are in need now and you have to help those might be huge and in order to do both you have to know and work downstream yesterday the circumstances that got us where we are are unique and so our approach every person and every family and poverty needs to be as unique as that person and their family and thats difficult to do and its a little overwhelming to think about but people are different its interesting looking back historically on what weve done to address poverty in the United States its mostly been to provide people with assistance of various kinds and those things are needed i think we should not leave people destitute and without such assistance bob theres not a lot of evidence that says things are going to move people out of poverty except temporarily i dont think americans are in favor of simply redistributing income what they want is to provide everyone an opportunity to get ahead on their own we believe in equality of opportunity not equality of results. I went to a conference once the conference was an opportunity conference where we invited 74 families from our community and hopes to just allow a pathway to cycle out of poverty majority of the people in this conference were generational poverty so they came in and they heard from dr donna beagle are her story and were encouraged to mrs 6 hour program and she would say how many of you know what it is to have a disconnect notice how many of you know what it is to receive an eviction notice and before long arms were coming up and she allowed them to see that if i can do it you can too we all have hope with this sometimes just gets very so i had the opportunity to visibly see hope rise to the surface of 74 people and thats not something that you can contain we knew you cant contain hope i left this place with hope and im going to tell everybody about it i want them to know what i know and im going to succeed because people came in the room they didnt know me and i matter i wasnt born. I am hard. Right im no longer in this isolation where im irrelevant or i have to walk around and lead with this label of shame little by little the hope starts to take that label off and when people come into place youre able to replace that label with words of worth instead of allowing that person to feel. We all are the same when it comes to what our basic needs are and what our basic desires are and i think if we really think about what we have in common with one another thats where we can start to create a basis of understanding a person saying im not going to judge you im not going to criticize you im not going to do you value your live dicks. Because its different than my you say to the other human being what ever. Dream youve ever had is still. When i was growing up. There were a few kids that were completely off. And there were a few kids that were trying really hard to make good choices and really had their focus at where needed but most of us are somewhere in this gray area where were trying to get our toes as close to the line as we can without completely stepping over but really convicted either way were just all kind of trying to get get. What i see now is that there are more kids off the rails. There are very few kids in this area. But there are a lot of young people who are committed who are strong who are focused who want to make good. And who are making an impact on the people around. That is my hope for the next generation. And that hope comes from the stories that we tell that hope. Saying to our scholars you can do this were going to stand by were going to help you get through this day after the power to turn the ship and. Make good decisions after that. One of the bigger you have to realize the things you do for the 24 hour compound interest things that were going to take you to places. If you cant even understand what you do today is going to play more compound interest that anything else youre playing a game thats bigger than yourself youre playing a game for yourself or your familys name or your kids that dont even exist yet for your grandkids who are going to benefit off of the hard work you put into that. Not all poverty is preventable but we know certainly that based on research and the research that were using for our programs and some of that can be preventable we want to help them we want to help the Community Around us nats what were trying to rally our Community Around and support a lot of times when i work with people who currently live in the crisis of poverty theyll say im not smart enough to get a skill not smart enough to go to college to ask for help you got to ask for help in poverty issue dont ask for help. Thats the wrong message. Nobody makes it alone absolutely no one we have to Work Together we have to overlap with other organizations we have to be community by the masses the key is allowing hope but we cant allow hope we cant communicate we cant allow worth until theres a relationship if we can spark a movement that not only helps those who are in the river but also gives them the tool to help their kids and their kids kids not be in the river thats the movement we want only reach out to people across. These barriers of poverty barriers of political opinions. We can really find some unique treasures in people who are different from months and find out that theyre not so different after all. Join me every 1st day on the alex salmond show and ill be speaking to us of the world of politics sports business im show business ill see you then. Wall street financial engineers kleptocrats divert. 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