My Take: The best pre-marital advice I never got
Scott Nuismer
It is amazing to me how many books and blogs have been written on the topic: “What questions to ask before getting married.” List upon list, some as many as 4,000 questions strong, all to help you learn about your partner and discern whether you are a good match.
We all understand that placing the covenant of marriage around a relationship is a big deal, so we ask questions because we want to be as certain as possible. I mean, who would want to show up on their wedding day and think, “Fingers crossed!” At the end of the day, it’s only natural for us to summon our inner blood-hound and chase down knowledge in the hopes of gaining certainty of marital bliss.