Q: My daughter just came home from her first year of college and things really are different. I always expected things to just return to how they were before she left — it’s only been a year but her attitudes have changed. She is constantly lecturing me on the evils of Israel. She acts like she’s doing me a big favor by just showing up for Shabbat dinner. Should I say something? I know she is entitled to her own opinion, but she knows I am active in Hadassah and she views me as someone who is aiding and abetting the enemy.