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Soon after posting this video to youtube. Elliot roger would go on a shooting spree in a California City of santa barbara, killing six and injuring many others. The attack, a form of revenge by an angry young man, one who was hell bent on blaming women for his own personal loneliness. Girls are not sexually attracted to me. Theres a major problem with that. Major problem. Thats a problem that i intend to rectify. More and more, male hatred against women is rising up through the hidden crevices of online forums and entering real life, allegedly the inspiration between the mass attacks in santa barbara, toronto, and tallahassee, florida. And experts say one of the chief inch cue baiters of this violent misogyny is a subculture of men and some women who call themselves incels or involuntary celibates, who gather in online forums finding common ground, in hatred of themselves and anger toward the opposite sex. Women are evil. Women are cruel. Women are mean. The group name that youve probably never heard of before, incels or involuntary celibate. Reporter now a new bbc documentary, inside the secret world of incels presents a neverbeforeseen world. A lot of people have not heard of the term incels and have not heard about the Incel Community. Its something more people should know about, because there is a risk of violence from this community. Reporter when the Incel Movement first began online in the late 90s, it was seen by many as a comforting resource, a place to belong for those who had no sense of belonging. Oh, whenever i cecusee coupl walking about, im happy for them but at the same time, i am so alone. It hurts a little bit. Forums can definitely be very supportive, having an Online Community to fall back on or to go to is definitely a source of comfort. Reporter its a space that Jack Peterson sought out as a dr struggling teenager. I think what attracts men to the incel communities is feeling like they have no other place to go. If theyre rejected by women, if theyre rejected by men, the Incel Community is a place for them to conyegregate and find people to talk to for once instead of stay in isolation. Reporter it was a world where he could freely post this video. No matter where i go, what i do, nobody values my contributions. Reporter peterson eventually became a moderator for one of the forums. He says violent talk and threats were not tolerated. If someone crossed the line into threatening what seems like real violence theyll be banned from the website. I know on numerous occasions there would be communication with the fbi to make sure that nothing actually crosses into reality, that it just stays a post on an image board or website. Reporter but some say rogers attack in 2014 mark add shift from the community that lived online to one that for some erupted into violence in reality. Before Elliot Rodger, there were a number of online misogynistic communities operating. But elliot roger really flips the switch from a community that is angry online, operating within the digital space, to a community that has the potential to carry out real acts of violence. Reporter his blind rage, targeting strangers, like promising student katie cooper. Her parents left devastated. He attempted to get into one of the sorority houses with a tremendous amount of ammunition. Instead, out of frustration, he got in his car, drove around the corner and saw my daughter. My daughter paid the price. So we like to believe that that wrong placewrong time scenario helped save 50, 60 girls lives. So, you know, kind of a silver lining. And, you know, when youre in our position, you look for these. You know, wherever you can. K just last year, two copycats. A van mowed down pedestrians, killing ten people, and then at a tallahassee yoga studio. Both attackers allegedly posted online that they sympathized with roger. Nightline is choosing not to show you more of rogers videos. But its clear hes gained infamy through these forums. Shortly after the attack, he decided to leave the forum all together. I asked the owner to permanently ban my account. I left after the toronto attack because i didnt want to be part of a community that supports violence even in a joking way. Reporter but peterson says most incels are not violent and that within the incell community itself, Elliot Rodger isnt taken seriously. People think hes perceived as a hero figure, but i think hes more kind of made fun of. Reporter adam jessle, the executive producer has been studying the Incel Community for years. In terms of the number of people who are at risk of carrying out the violence against women or some kind of physical harassment of women, that is very small number. In the case of, you know, violence and mass murder, you only really need one person to move from, you know, online hatred to realworld violence. Reporter although not the norm, his film does seem to uncover disturbing instances of simmering anger toward women, l acon im the catfish man. I catfish females. Im a legend in the community. Im a hero. Reporter catfish man, whose full face is never shown humiliates women on camera as a way to seek revenge. [ bleep ] so bad, look at that. So fat. Reporter the women, who he says believe theyre there to meet a model from online for a date are instead met with verbal the harassment and intimidation. Its kind of like a victory for the Incel Community. All those girls that treat the me like [ bleep ]. Catfish man was very alarming and very distressing. On the one hand, we wanted to show people that this stuff is going on. This stuff is out there. On the other hand, we were conscious that we were giving airtime to this guy. Reporter the Antidefamation League is one organization thats been tracking incel communities and identified them as an emerging domestic terror threat. It operates in some of the same ways we see other extremist groups operate. Reporter they Say Community cooperation is key to monitoring violent content. Tips have always been helpful for law enforcement, when someone may be strained. The tech industry, responsebility and every day people knowing they have a stake in this. Reporter as for kwaties parents, they hope her senseless death helps society to be more vigilant. Our daughter died because some individual couldnt cope. Just couldnt cope. Thats why shes dead. And his parents missed it. Anyone who was trying to help him missed it. His friends missed it, society missed it, but my daughter paid the price. Thats the bottom line. If you want to stop this from happening to other parents and other innocent children, you need to get to the individual, you need to find a way to reach them and help them and realize that suicide isnt the way out. Going out with a bang so you can make the news isnt the way out. 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Theyd already raised four adult biological kids, giving new meaning to the phrase big happy family. While the man of the house earns a living landscaping, its 54 year old terry whose fulltime job is to care for this extended brood. Why did you end up with this gigantic family . We started fostering and went through about 80 children through the process. And when we got these, i fell in love with them and i knew i wouldnt be able to let them go. And they had a little sister born. And they try to keep sibling groups together. When we first started fostering them we thought there were three, then we thought there were five, they had a little brother and it kept going from there. Reporter how do you make room in your heart for that many . Its something the good lord does. Reporter life has been far from easy for these kids, but in some ways theyre lucky, more than 690,000 children were in foster care in 2017. Bouncing between state homes and foster families for an average of two years. You all have a good day. Reporter the sibling group of seven were separated and continuously uprooted around the system for three years. Dawson, the eldest of the clan, lived with his biological parents the longest. Youd always worry about food. You wondered what would happen when you got home. Im just glad its over. Then i probably was upset a lot. I would go to sleep praying that like stuff would change. Reporter now that youre living here, do you feel like your prayers were answered . Yes. When i first got into foster care is the first time ive ever slept in a bed. Reporter you slept on piles of clothes . Or on the floor. Or in the closet. Reporter whats difference like, before and after . Its way better. We have someone to love us and take care of us. Reporter how long before you called mom and dad, mom and dad. Second week we were here. Thats not true. It was like the second day. Reporter why is easy to call them mom and dad . Because they felt like an actual mom and dad, and they were caring and loveable. Reporter so when did you first allow yourself to dream of being adopted by the hawthornes . Probably about a year, after being in foster care. Reporter uhhuh. When my sisters told me about them and how nice they were, and i saw them at visits. And i just really wanted to be adopted by them. Reporter it would take this group six months and require the help of their state senator for the hawthornes to make it official, to become a forever family. So youre the hawthorne 15 . Yes. Hawthorne 15. Reporter micah is terry and mikes youngest biological child, now 21. I remember the day so clearly. We sat down at the Kitchen Table and they were just like, this is a really big commitment, and its a big commitment for our age, for this many children. And its an even bigger commitment with their behavior issues. Reporter an aspiring actress, micah was weeks shy of moving to hollywood. I knew then what i was going to do, and i think the reason sot guaraee, its not a forsure that ill make it, but what was a guarantee was knowing that i could stay home and give nine kids a mom and dad, help them be together and have a family that loves them. Reporter was that a tough sacrifice for her do you think . I think it was a major sacrifice. I mean i couldnt do without her. Its amazing. I mean, the children just adore her. Shes just genuine. Im very blessed. Reporter while the older children are at school, micah tends to the toddlers. Both have extensive ro e ocy ntal delays and receivs store to pick up groceries for today. When i go shopping, i usually have to buy multiple cans of vegetables or fruits or whatever im using, and tonight im having pizza and it will take at least four cans. Im looking for the best bargain i can. I save every penny. The laundry is very small. We just bought a new washer and drier. Reporter its so organized. Light, dark, pink, towels. How many loads of laundry do you do . At least three a day. Reporter three a day. This is the kitchen, very small for this many people, but it works. Reporter but it work. This is the pantry. Reporter i love how you organize everything is sort of labeled. That saves me from having to do 20 cups between now and lunge time. I have to wash all my dishes by hand because our dishwasher does not work. For the last 15 years i use its as a dish drainer. Reporter the kids took us to one of the group homes where they used to live. I was in the back house, behind that building. Reporter a far cry from where they are now. How do you say thank to you someone whos showed you love like that love and respect. You show respect for them. Reporter have you ever told them thank you . And how do you say, i mean, what do you say to them . Normally, i say thank you and my mom will be like for what . And i say just for take being care of me and everything like that. And shell be oh, youre very much welcome. 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