The new lion king video, haunting voices and vivid colors, including blue good evening, thank joining us. Domestic violence does not discriminate. And in south africa, the number of battered women is among the highest in the world. I remember my first slap he gave me. And he was shocked and i was shocked. On this eye here, it was this eye. Reporter for delphine, the e scar, physical scars mentally . Thats the worst. Reporter yet delphine is one of the fortunate women of south africa. Shes alive, in a safe place. A shelter for battered women. This country followed its breath taking beauty is one of the ugliest places on earth when it comes to femicide, against women five times the average, one of the highest on earth. Domestic violence knows no borders. Its a problem in the u. S. By some estimates in america, approximately one woman is killed every eight hours by a current or former partner. In south africa, its every four hours. Her burnt body was thrown into a ditch. Reporter in 2017, she became the face of domestic violence. The country after being murdered by her exboyfriend. Her case one of the few covered widely in the media. Brendy backcar runs the center that allows survivors to live and work with their children. It knows no economic sector, it knows no educational sector. It is part and parcel of every part of our society across the board. Reporter violence itself has become ingrained in the fabric of South African society. Part of the legacy of areid, brutality as a means to maintain control. Many men believe that theyre entitled to use violence against their partners and their children in order to compel compliance with whatever the man wants. Reporter here at the center, the effects of that are clear. Delphine, who asked that we only use her first name lives here with her two daughters and has been no stranger to struggle. In 1989 in rwanda, i buried my mom and my dad and sister in congo. Reporter she ask only to speak with another woman about abuse. So they sat down with my producer, candace smith. I prefer being slapped around. The one thing that he said when i was six months pregnant was that im the reason as to why my parents are dead now. Im bad luck. Reporter like he was trying to break you . Yeah. Doing a very good job of that. Reporter he says there was a night that was her turning point. Her daughter had been born, and she was pregnant with her second child. Hes gone the whole day, and he comes back reeking of alcohol, reeking of cigarettes. And said what are we going to eat . And thats where the whole figh. Debra is just going downstairs. She refused to leave me. And he came and stood in front of him. Reporter so your 5yearold daughter is staring down her father as hes beating you. Yes. Reporter whats going through your head at that moment . Thats thing that gave me strength to actually just say she doesnt deserve this, she deserves better. Thats what it, set me off. Reporter she moved here for over a year. When her time at the center ended she moved out. Now she struggling to find work and to support herself and her daughters. But for all shes lost, delphine says shes found something powerful amidst her trauma. Oh, im stronger than before. Im so stronger than before. Reporter no one deserves to be abused. Reporter its a sentiment echoed li echoed by men like patrick. Its five times more than the rest of the world. How do you explain that . Theres many reasons around that. I dont want to justify it. It makes me feel bad as a man. Poverty. Some men feel like they are less of men, their esteem as men is low, and they can only shake and beat up women. Reporter hes a manager at gender justice. All power to the people. Reporter and across the country in a small town in to transform how men think about domestic violence. Like in the apartheid. If were saying racism is wrong, sexism is wrong as well. Reporter south africa is also a patriarchal society, changing behavior means first changing attitudes. This is going to be a learning exercise. But also a sharing its bold and political. If you agree with the statement you go and stand next to women are weaker than men. The agree. Okay. Women are weaker than [ inaudible ] reporter one a change of he. Im changing my mind. Im losing this, because when im standing here, im just thinking now the woman are more stronger than men. Im leaving. Im on the wrong side. [ applause ] im on the wrong side. I dont expect men to agree with each other at the go. Its a process. Change is not an event. Its a process. Reporter we caught up with him outside the event. We learned that he volunteers. Why do you want to change . Why is that important to you . To change is to live in a better country, or in a better world. Reporter if i may ask, did something happen that made you want to change . Yes. Reporter we also learn he once beat his wife. Now clearly one of his lifes greatest regrets. Even now, im trying to fix up that scar. So when my wife look at me, shes got to see a better man. For the children, im trying to be a better man. Reporter back in his home, he lives with his wife and three children. She says the incident started when she noticed he was texting another woman. Angry, she smashed his cell phone. [ speaking in Foreign Language ] when im sitting alone, i just sometimes my tears are falling because i end up maybe killing her, if youre angry, you can do anything. So thats why i say i want to change. Reporter in his story is like so many here. If you can take women as full human beings, we dont look at them as being lesser than us. Thes will make a difference in the world. Thank you very much. Reporter so they close their meeting by singing. The soothing sounds of song have a rich history in south africa. It was the anthem of the apartheid sugng ds not come quickly or peacefully. 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Dr. Ruth can still talk about sex, morning noon and night. I can look at people and tell if theyve had good sex or not. Reporter with her distingtive accent. Lets agree to disagree and lets have good, terrific sex. Reporter and dim menutive frame, she is a pioneer. And then let him insert his penis into the vagina from behind. Reporter the 91yearold has been americas most famous and trusted sex therapist for generations. I would like us all together to bury right here is with the withdrawal method is a method of contraception. Reporter what makes you so comfortable talking about sex . First of all, im very jewish. And in the jewish tradition, says sex is never sin, its the tradition of a husband once a week. Tell all your viewers that makebelieve tonight is friday night. Reporter the life story is a documentary on hulu. Ask dr. Ruth. Before i started to do television, the most important thing for me was education. Reporter an indepth look at the woman whos talked openly about sex for decades. In the early not talk about sexuality. Reporter it all began with her radio show, sexually speaking . 1982. I do hope that you t ter bait, that you bring yourself to sexual satisfaction. Reporter did you realize how groundbreaking what you were doing was . I did realize nobody talked about orgasm or ejaculation. I did not realize how successful the Radio Program was. Its good i didnt realize. Maybe i would have opinion more up tight if i had known that everybody listened to me, sunday nights from 10 00 to 12 00. I say dont just engage. Reporter her willingness to talk publicly about what many had limited to private pillow talk launched her into the mainstream. Ive never heard women tell the truth about sex before in public in my life. Reporter hosting a string of popular tv shows like the dr. Ruth show. You have changed sex. Its not the same thing. Dont tell me its less good. No, its like a sport. People suit up for the game. Reporter the name dr. Ruth became synonymous with sex. We have to continue to talk about issues of sexuality and issues of sexual transmitted diseases. Reporter she was one of the first people to use her platform to address the aids epidemic. It was a very unpopular topic, because gay people at the time, not only were they minority, but they were despised. Reporter she refused to stigmatize people with aids and instead tried to educate her viewers about hiv and homosexuality. Some people are attracted to members of their own sex, and i believe strongly that we as a society have to give these people all the respect. It seems the high proportion of people who are dying and succumbing to the aids virus are still in the homosexual community, intravenus drug users. I dont waste a moment of my time to blame one or another group. I say lets educate, and lets find a cure. Reporter her empathy for those suffering during the aids crisis was rooted in her own past. I took that very seriously, because of my background as a german, jewish refugee. I certainly had sensitivity for the people who really were regarded as sub human. Reporter born in germany in 1928, her parent entered switzerland when she was 10 years old after they realized how dangerous germany had become for jews. I do have the letters of my parents. Until 1942, when they stopped. Then i knew something terrible must have happened. Reporter years later, she returned to israel to learn her parents fate. Died in auschwitz, 1942. Oh, boy. My mothers maiden name was hannover. Irma. Irma was murdered in the holocaust, but it doesnt have a specific location. Oh, boy. Sad. Reporter with all the loss that youve experienced in your life, what makes you so resilient . My whole family were killed by the nazis. So i had an obligation to make e dent, because 1. 5 million jewish children were killed, and i was safe because i was in switzerland. Despite the fact that i had tragic happenings of be being an orphan at the age of 10 1 2, never seeing my family again, despite that fact, i made a dent in society. At 90, still talking about sex. Reporter despite all her fame, shes remained in the same place, right here in this upper manhattan apartment for 50 years, raising her two children here. You can see the George Washington bridge. Reporter so look at all these awards you have here. Hall of fame. With all she has accomplished, she says its life itself thats been the greatest gift. The thing youre most proud of . Yes. Four grandchildren. Hitlers dead and my grand children are alive, and im very successful. Reporter for nightline, im linsey davis in new york. Ask dr. Ruth is streaming on hulu now. Next, queen beas new beat making our spirit soar. Spirit, can you hear it callin be right back. With moderate to severe Crohns Disease, i was there, just not always where i needed to be. Is she alright . I hope so. 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