After a loved one dies, there’s the expected sober responsibilities of the funeral, obituary, and probate, but there’s also the matter of the decedent's “digital estate,” that collection of passwords, social media accounts, pictures, digital goods, and other ones and zeros that have come to define who we are. Prepared people specify how they want their digital legacy handled, but most people aren’t thinking of their Insta when they’re facing the Grim Reaper, so the job of how to manage their online presence is likely to fall to grieving relatives. If that’s you, here’s how to take ownership of your loved one’s electronic life.