>> and what did he say? >> he said, you never want to trust me about surprises. you really need to trust me. this is going to be huge. >> if michelle knew anything about her husband, it was that he was a born romantic who went all out for special occasions. it had only been five years since fate had brought mark weinberger into her life. changing it in ways unimaginable at the time. it all began with a ladies' night out at a chicago bar. >> i saw him at a bar. he was out with his friend who had recently gotten divorced. and we just started talking and we hit it off. i thought he was really intriguing. >> she was michelle kramer back then, a 25-year-old college student from a blue collar family still living with her folks. mark weinberger, 11 years older, was already a very successful ear nose and throat doctor. >> we were bonding about medicine because i had just