you really had to confront it in a serious way, right? >> yes. i had -- i had never loved someone the way i loved georgia. and so i, i guess i just hoped that she was going to be all -- you know, she was going to be fine and i was going to -- >> probably didn't sleep much that night? >> no. >> the aftershocks went on all night. so did tsunami warnings. >> so you're thinking, is there going to be another tsunami coming through? you know, it's -- wow. i didn't really sleep.