things as signs of my guilt rather than a distraught boyfriend. at the time, i had long hair, and this was a cowboy town that was considered to be weird and unusual. >> as for those bad things he told the detective he had done, he explained to us he was referring to a petty argument they had had just days before jamie's murder and the guilt he felt from not being with her the night she died. >> do you remember what you were arguing about? >> a loaf of bread. the grocery sacker had put a cantaloupe on a loaf of bread. and she was upset that the sacker had squished the bread. and i told her it wasn't that big of a deal. and we had picked our sides. and we argued about something as stupid as a loaf of bread.