and the idea that in much the same way that a year ago family separations at the border were horrifying, and now we're just numb. we're trying to have feelings but it's breaking us. and in exactly the ways ana describes, things that used to shatter us, now we're talking about 22 accusers, and none of the sunday morning shows bothered to talk about this. nobody addressed it on the sunday morning shows except for here at msnbc when joy reid did. and so i think the extent to which, look, donald trump isn't interesting. he says the same eight things over and over again in response to everything. he's not the problem. we're the problem. he's not going to change, but if we're changing, if we're finding ourselves falling asleep or numb to this or engaging in what ana's describing as trash of another victim, even though her story is so perfectly, perfectly in line with the stories we've heard before and what donald trump himself said he does. if we're unable to react, that's the thing that scares me. that will far outlast donald