and so have your own confidence. don't worry about their hang-ups. just don't worry about their hang-ups. >> so we've got some heavy topics to get to this in town hall, but it is a very quick lightening round. short answer. you've got 20 minutes at the end of the day, what do you do? 20 minutes to yourself? >> i, well, it's a little bit personal. >> just us in the room. >> well, my relaxation at the end of the day, to soak in the tub, eat chocolate candy and do a crossword puzzle. >> in an alternate universe where you're not speaker of the house, what would your dream job be? >> grandmother. >> what's the one thing you can't live without? >> oh, well, my family of course. >> good answer. excellent answer. >> i used to say to my husband when we were dating, i don't