mourning process for a public family. talking about her own experience with her dad and her mom and now the bushes with the first lady and the president. there is public grieving, which you are forced to share with all of us on lookers in hd live television. imagine how intrusive any of us would find it if someone brought a single iphone to a funeral of a family member and tried to snap a picture and multiply that. i guess i'm asking about their ability to proceed with what's going to be painful, private grieving. this has been their north star for three quarters of the american century. >> absolutely. i remember in mrs. bush's diary, she writes about both the kennedy funeral in 1963 and rfk's funeral in 1968 and